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This is something only you can answer am I nuts for trying to save a marraige of 7 years after my wife cheated?
sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder and other times makes the heart outgrow the relationship
push on
Yes, he has someone else now. Don’t waste your life waiting for him.
According to the bible the only grounds I know of..without commiting the horrible sin of adultery…that would permit you to leave the marriage is if the man is fornicating with another. If he is cheating (and i would agree with physical abuse too the 2 tend to go hand in hand) try to rectify things with him before God but if he still continues all you can really do is learn from your mistakes and move on. If he isn’t doing either of those things then i would do all that you can do to reconcile the marriage…and give a wholehearted effort to work out your differences with your spouse, whatever it takes, maybe even counseling. I think for you both spiritual counseling is even more important than going to a therapist. All you can do is pray.
I also think you should try everything possible.
the last thing you want to do is wonder what if…
it’s one of those questions that can drive you insane!
Nope not at all. Of course that partially depends upon what caused the problem. If there physical abuse then run far away and don’t try to save it. However, after that long of a commitment I don’t think you can help but try everything possible to save it. I think even if you know that it won’t work you sometimes need to try everything just so when it is done and hasn’t worked you won’t feel guilty for not having tried.
Yes…move on.
NEXT!
Yes you are, if you insist you might end up being happy for only 17 weeks or 17 days. Move on girl, he would have come back by now if he really wanted to save this marriage.
depends on why it ended, if you both truely love each other after all that time then you will probley spend the rest of your time kicking yourself for letting it go but if you are trying to respark the flame or one of you has cheated then your best bet would probley be to let go and move on, if you truely love him let him know and if he feels the same he will try to work things out but if he doesn’t don’t push it, pressuring someone will only cause feelings of resentment