All my friends have had sex since the age of about 16, i am the only one among my friends who has not had sex because i am a christian and believe sex should be saved until after marriage. All my friends laugh at me and say im weird for thinking this. Is there anyone else that has the same beliefs as me?
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upon reading about what you wrote, i was totally impressed to find out it came from a guy. you are one of the few ‘gems’ out there. i hold the same belief. i do it for personal reasons, such as not wanting to get STDs nor get pregnant.
i feel if more people were like us, it would be a better world – with fewer STDs, fewer unwanted pregnancies/abortions, better morals, etc. i’m glad you stick to your principles, especially for a christian. you are a true christian who i quite admire. i say who cares about what your friends think; some of them are probably jealous. stay true to yourself, for your wife will be very lucky to have a rare gem like you.
I agree with you. Don’t let your friends get to you.
I’m a Christian teenager (girl though, so that’s a huge difference between our friends), and I’m involved in my church. So are a lot of my friends (girls and guys).
Gosh, I wish there were more guys like you out there,
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Seriously, though, there’s not enough guys out there with the same values.
I appreciate the fact that there are some decent guys out there who don’t just want sex for a relationship.
No it does not make you weird. I am the same way. Just stick to the what you believe. God Bless
You’re not weird for thinking this. I don’t have those views myself, but the fact that you do doesn’t make you strange. There are a lot of people who have these beliefs. Stick to your guns, they may regret losing there virginity at such a young age in the future anyway.
Yes, you are. You are the only one in the whole world who believes this. 1 out of 6,692,030,277 to hold this belief.
I’d say you’re a minority, but that doesn’t really matter and tbh, as far as you should be concerned in this regard your friends shouldn’t matter either. They’re giving input on a belief of yours that really isn’t any of their business and I’m betting you didn’t ask them to give input on…kinda like what I’m doing now. Okay shutting up! Really though, it’s commendable that you believe that and are willing to stick to your guns. When you do find the right girl, that quality and belief is going to help her love+respect you even more.
Not exactly for marriage but for the person who loves and whom u love
Yes, that’s silly. Sounds like ur first marriage won’t last long!
I am too.