education is among the group.
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Jealous of other people
hummm I bet you got the answer
Communication!!!
dishonesty.
COMMITTMENT is #1
People going through the marriage ceremony but not really being married. Meaning, it suppose to be WE, not you or I. Basically, people get married and not making the committment. Then all the factors come into play like money, greed, jealously, trust etc;.
It has to be, "were sticking together no matter what and nothing or no-one will come ever between us."
priorties. most married couples are to cought up in all the materlistic bull, who has the nicer house? better car? swimming pool? ect. so in order to achieve a higher social status, you spend alot of time working, trying to earn the money to pay for and buy all thoes things. you forget whats really important in life, spending time and enjoying you family. i think most famlies feel neglected when the father is working monday through friday. hes not enjoying his family not being there as they grow up. most people think money and a job is their number one priotie. when it shouldnt be. because you can lose your job, you can lose all your money and all your nice things in a heart beat. but its your family thatll be there in the end, unless you got to wraped up in your job and earning money that by the time you do lose your job, youre just now realizing that youve lost them too. you never heard anyone say while laying on their death bed, ‘gee, i wish i would have spent more time at the office.’
Okay everyone has their own set of problems and when I got married, we both had already gone through a divorce and I had a 6yr old boy going into the marriage and as he grew up and decided that he didn’t have to listen to my husband because that is not his real dad than it really created a lot of problems and still does. Even though my son is 19 now and living a life on his own, he is very angry and rebellious, so I would have to say that trying to blend families can create major problems, not always I know. I also believe that if God was not in our lives we would have never made it. So really marriage takes three!
Emotional and mental neglect.
I feel that if a person who desires attention and needs some romantic time with the love of their life and are neglected for so long that they tend to stray. I have had thoughts of straying from my marriage simply from lack of attention or romance. I don’t feel special enough, I don’t feel happy. I know communication is a big problem with married couples. I communicate my feelings of neglect and get nowhere. I am not going to stray due to I know what it’ll do to our marriage. But, I think that neglect is a big problem in marriages.
The main issue is that women change and their expectations grow. Men pretty much stay the same as when you marry them. Often women think either they will change him or his issues she can live with. Down the road she won’t put up with things that were once OK and expect emotional evolving that many men are oblivious to.
She feels angry or despondent he starts to recoil or fight back or just gives up.
Any woman considering marriage needs to read Dr Laura’s Proper Care and Feeding of a Husband. This the owners manual for a man. Many divorces could be avoided by reading it.
Education? What does education have to do with problems in a marriage? Education, in itself, is not a problem. I do not think this is a common issue.
My answer: Selfishness. #1. Easy. Everything else that causes problems in a marriage: money, sex, poor communication… it all comes down to one or both partners being selfish. It is selfish not to want to communicate. It is selfish not to listen to someone’s problems or feelings. It is selfish to withhold sex. It is selfish to pressure for more sex. It is selfish to not compromise on money issues. It is selfish not to agree to go to a marriage counselor when you’re stuck with problems like this in the first place!
I would have to say the number 1# problem in a marriage would be the lack of each spouse willing to fight for the marriage. Yes, all the other problems mentioned like respect, honesty, fidelity, communication, job, career, all of that, but if you are both willing to hang in there and fight for your marriage all of those problems seem small, like attainable goals. But if you have the mindset of if this doesn’t work out I am out of here, there lies your problem. If you each enter the marriage saying that no matter what (except for abuse) we will not divorce, anything is possible.
L.
I think that money, communication, and in-laws are the biggest problems in my engagement. My fiance is a spender, i am a saver and he would rather have material things then get out of debt. He can’t stop buying big ticket items, and when he does not communicate to me what i think, and when he does, i tell him, but its not like it matters anyway. Also, he is too controlled by his parents, and also, we do have some communication problems.
first are huge battles over money and staggering credit card debt.
Then come the battles ofer not having the self control to go shopping on a wimm
From there it usually gets uglier, unless both parties, see it all coming and take early steps to trim it’s uglyness.
In my opinion there are two reasons for the failure of marriage. The first one and the most important one is, the lack of God in a marriage. The second one is, many people feel that marriage is a give and take relationship, but they are wrong. Marriage is a give and give relationship.
Marriage is a partnership and decisions should be made by both parties, " And the two shall become one ".
The biggest problem with marriage is the fact that government is involved with issuing liscences.
If only churches were allowed to ordain and authorize marriages, the success rate would rise dramatically. Why? Becuase most churches require members to attend marrriage counseling and other self-help instructions before they will officiate a marriage.
Our goverment does not care WHO gets married, or WHY, so long as you meet two easy tests: You are both over 18 and one of you is a male and one is a female.
Now how silly is that?
The government should only issue domestic partnership liscences, and let churchs oversee who can and cannot get married in their church.
commitment to stay together & work though problems. people these days are too quick to throw a marriage out the window. i have an aunt and uncle who went through a rocky 10 year period which included seperate bedrooms…they stuck it out and now i see them holding hands and affectionate with one another again. it gives me hope.
In my opinion the number one problem is out side temptations that make people incomplete in their lives.
The inability to compromise, because all of those things can be tied into it.
Finances: the inability to consult the other on major purchases.
Sex: The inability to pleasure one another rather than only one or the other.
Selfishness: The inability to share or communicate ones wants and needs effectively.
Education: The inability to recognize that both are entitled to the same education and provisions.
No trust.
I think it is control. One person is always the "boss" in a relationship, one is the strong one and the other is weaker. That can cause a lot of resentment for the weaker one. People get tired of always compromising and waiting to be the priortiy in the other’s life, giving in and taking a back seat, putting their wants and needs on hold for the sake of the other person. Sooner or later, even a saint would explode from the frustration and inequality.
Peoples’ priorities are all screwed up. We worry so much about getting things done, being here, being there, that we forget to focus on each other, to spend time just doing anything, but together. Isn’t that what a relationship should be about?
Well Finances and communication and commitment. If you don’t or can’t make enough to pay bills and be independent it is hard to stay married and make a relationship work. I don’t mean you need to be rich just that you need around $1,500 or $2,000 minimum take home pay to make ends meet, at least where I live. Also if you don’t communicate well or aren’t committed then even if you make enough to live on your marriage is worthless cuz if you arent committed to the other person then what do you have to get you thru the hard times? There’s a reason why you pledge for good times and BAD and SICKNESS and health….for richer and POORER…you’re suppose to be committed to each other no matter what happens
Communication and selfishness.
rushing into marriage inthe first place which is done to often now!! communication i think is the biggest problem!! communicate and you can work through everything!!
Forgetting to treat your spouse the way you would want to be treated…..
Forget spoil the child – you should spoil your spouse…Your kids will learn how to treat the other people in their life from how you treat each other. This is the greatest gift you can give your kid – a blueprints on how happy, healthy couples live and love.
Lack of trust
Lack of communication
Rushing into something you’re not ready for
Children
These are my votes for top marital problems.
FP
They nit-pick at the little things that are wrong in the relationship, instead of trying to find the good things. Good luck in all you do!
Disrespect, when you loose respect, the whole relationship falls apart.
finances, because there will always be differences of opinions on what to buy and why, and instant gratification is very strong these days.
Money, causes major problems when nobody has it
Finances. People dont like to talk about money, even less share it.
Lack of communication.
Selfishness. A marriage based on free giving and understanding will never fail.
communication is a big problem
No communication
Understanding and commication
In mine its selfishness wich leads to finacial also trust.Sex is good and has allways been I guess Capt. and Teneil said love will keep us together had something right.
NO SEX #1 problem
Women not giving head on demand.
Jealousy, Disrespect, abuse