I’ve recently been blindsided by my husband’s sudden indifference to our marriage. Things have been so great, perfect almost. We’ve been together for 12 years. Now, he’d rather go out and party than stay home with me or even go out with me. It has led to huge fights in which I’ve asked him does he care or what? And he has answered I really don’t care anymore. I am beside myself. Is there any way to save my marriage when He is so indifferent and will not go to counseling? Please hellp. Thanks.
@Bianca: I do not ever wear sweats. I am presentable at all times. His friends seem to really like me and I am not embarrassing to take out. He has never done these things in the past and now that he has, it’s like he can’t get enough of going out and partying. He just left tonight. I said don’t you care what we have and he said: If I did would I be going out?" But just this morning we cuddled and he told me how much he loved me and appreciated me and that he would be nothing without me. I Don’t Understand. I’m torn apart.

Related posts:

1. How do I stop my parents from divorce? PLEASE help me!!!!!!!!!!!! Please dont say theres nothing I can do im just a kid. Well im a kid that has stopped many people from doing stupid things. My dad says he would never do anything like that and he … Continue reading →...
2. What is my problem! I have a good job, good health, good marriage and I’m sad. I want to sleep all day and have no motivation to do anything! I’m hurting myself and I know it. I dont care about anything and that makes me more depressed. I recently declined a promotion because I didnt want to put in any more effort! now … Continue reading →...
3. Can my marriage be saved? Hello, I have been married now for 4 years and have a beautiful 3 yr old daughter. I love my husband, he is the love of my life and he says he loves me too; but we fight every single … Continue reading →...
4. What is the problem in our marriage? Well me and my husband argue eveyday almost about everything, we can never have more than a week without arguing, I am really getting sick of this, and my husband is a wonderful husband to my children and he takes … Continue reading →...
5. Me and my husband are both divorced with kids from previous marriage. The problem is that his kids are nice? BUT sometimes they don’t have manners.My husband doesn’t care,and don’t say anything.The kids are 11 and 12 years old.They dont knock the door before entering my room,or if they are mad with anybody (other kids) n you talk to them … Continue reading →...
6. CAn i save my marriage !! guys and girls? so ive been with my hunny for 6 yrs now we have 3 yr old son but suddley thing change when last friday . he broke with me out the nothing there was sum rumors going on about me cheating … Continue reading →...
7. Is sex before marriage really love-or selfish lust? im a Jew4Jesus-i learned the hard way-repented & got saved "In marriage the bed is undefiled" Jesus cares heart and soul and loves you no matter what u do-he died for our sins-and we know there is pleasure in sin for a season-but then we reap what we sowed when … Continue reading →...
8. My Marriage is in danger,I want to save my marriage but my wife and her parents doesn’t want? Hi , I have a very difficult situation with me. My wife and I have fights from past two years since we married. Her family supports whatever she does. whether it’s right or wrong, They don’t make her understand that … Continue reading →...
9. I want to save my marriage but husband doesnt? My husband walked out on our marriage after 2 yrs, and we have a lil one together. I love him dearly and I want us to work out, but he’s not willing too. Should I give him the divorce or … Continue reading →...
10. marriage problems I need advice? July will be seven years of marriage, we have a five year old daughter, we moved back to my hometown just recently, and now he wants out of this marriage, because he feels that he is threatened to stay in … Continue reading →...
11. how can i fix my marriage? I feel like im either falling out of love or just already out of love with my husband. We’ve been through quite a bit together. Weve been together on and off for about 6 yrs and married coming up on … Continue reading →...
12. Why can’t I figure out my marriage problems? I have asked my questions so many times, and I swear I am trying to use the feedback but its seems nothing is working. It seems the only option I have is to just leave, but that means I lose … Continue reading →...
13. Having problems in my marriage! Is it him? Or is it me? I try to be understanding. The economy is really bad right now which is hurting his work. So he aint bringing money home like he used to. And I know that it is hard on him to deal with that. … Continue reading →...
14. Anyone every save a marriage that is on it’s last draw? i dont no what to do end my marriage or stay 4 kids I am 24 i have been married to my husband 6 years, We have 3 great kids that i could never image putting them though a divorce. I just dont no what to do i dont no if it is … Continue reading →...
15. i m going crazy ,what can i do?after divorce i can`t stop eatingQ!!QQ!Q!? sure its not a normal state and i know it ,but i went some through times i used to work out like maniac and eat little food to keep good waistline and tease the girls ,though many called me anorexic … Continue reading →...
16. how can i stop my parents from divorce? ok so since a year they have been talking about it n i kinda hate the word coming…im old enuf n can take care of myself but i dont wanna c them getting a divorce and parting ways after so … Continue reading →...
17. I am in a interracial marriage,when we go out people stare,do people actually still have problems with this? Just to let everyone know,sorry my question is in the wrong section I’m puerto rican trinidadian and my husband is jamacian and cuban,and we lived from new jersey and down to georgia and I noticed it,the stares I mean I … Continue reading →...
18. Advice On Saving My 1st Kiss For Marriage? well, I am 15 years old, I am Christian, and I have recently decided that i want to save my first kiss for marriage. I would just like advice on how to resist temptation and how to deal with others … Continue reading →...
19. I have a problem with my marriage and I need some advice. I just moved to Florida, where my wifes family lives? We moved here to Florida, where my wife’s family lives. They do not like us together. I got brought here and left stranded with no one here to help me. I have been out of the hospital because I just … Continue reading →...
20. Marriage problems, HELP!!!!? My husb and I have been married for going on 3 !/2 years now , Ive left him twice bcuz he cant get a job and keep it and he has anger issues-we do have a child together-we are now … Continue reading →...
21. does it really help ? was your marriage saved by…..? Marital counseling ? I’m at such a loss. I feel so unsure of my marriage and How I truely feel about my husband. We are constantly at odds. I’m feeling like marital counseling helps couples communicate. …But, We dont have … Continue reading →...
22. marriage help. i want to save my marriage.? My husband and i have been together since high school. we have been together 7 years and married 4. he is in the coast guard and i have been moving around with him. im 23 he is 24 now. one … Continue reading →...
23. i am trying to save my marriage can you help? My husband wants me to sign a postnup I dont want to…………….he says he will divorce me if I dont. I love him so much but i have learned to respect myself and cant find it in me to do … Continue reading →...
24. Why do so many Christians have a problem with gay marriage? I guess i just dont understand it, im not gay but why should i care or think i have the right to tell someone else the moral/relegious rules they have to follow? I could understand if it wasnt a free … Continue reading →...
25. I think abortion will save my marriage? my husband is considering leaving me and i think this baby will put him over the edge. i will get the abortion and pay for it myself to prove to him that i love him more than a baby. then … Continue reading →...
26. I think abortion will save my marriage? my husband is considering leaving me and i think this baby will put him over the edge. i will get the abortion and pay for it myself to prove to him that i love him more than a baby. then … Continue reading →...
27. how many people are still saving themselves for marriage? Are you still a virgin and are u waiting for marriage or does it matter if you are or not? Taiba, sounds like your guy is a jerk. I am a virgin and i wish i could find a female … Continue reading →...
28. I think abortion will save my marriage? my husband is considering leaving me and i think this baby will put him over the edge. i will get the abortion and pay for it myself to prove to him that i love him more than a baby. then … Continue reading →...
29. mnyparents are getting a divorce, how do I stop them? I am 12, I have a little sister who is 9 and little brother who is 6 My dad and mom are both in a big fight over something real personal from last year. My dad talked to me and … Continue reading →...
30. Is my marriage worth saving? My husband and i have been married for 8 years and we have 4 beautiful children 2 mine and 2 ours. At the beginning of this year I left him due to some anger issues that he has and I … Continue reading →...
31. Can our marriage be saved? I am 6 mo. pregnant and ordered to be on bed rest. Which I haven’t really been doing. My husband is having a hard time with me not working. Since I have come home from the hospital he has voiced … Continue reading →...
32. Can anyone help? Depression causing problems n my marriage.? I am a 25 year old stay at home mom of three kids ages 8,7,&6. I love being able to always be there for my kids. But being home alone every day has really caused me to get depressed. I … Continue reading →...
33. I need help everyday i have problems with my wife- Marriage problems? I have been married to my wife for 3 years my wife and i fight every 3 to 4 days, i tried all ways but nothing works, if we fight either way im wrong or no, it takes days to … Continue reading →...
34. ok question for everyone and anyone!!i need ASAP help please!!!!! you can litterally save my marriage SHORT!!!? well B4 i go on my hunny moon i was wondering do guy like it rough wild and crazy or do guys like it calm and caressing the body and taking your time????? and do guys like when girls scream … Continue reading →...
35. ok question for everyone and anyone!!i need ASAP help please!!!!! you can litterally save my marriage SHORT!!!? well B4 i go on my hunny moon i was wondering do guy like it rough wild and crazy or do guys like it calm and caressing the body and taking your time????? and do guys like when girls scream … Continue reading →...
36. ok question for everyone and anyone!!i need ASAP help please!!!!! you can litterally save my marriage SHORT!!!? well B4 i go on my hunny moon i was wondering do guy like it rough wild and crazy or do guys like it calm and caressing the body and taking your time????? and do guys like when girls scream … Continue reading →...
37. ok question for everyone and anyone!!i need ASAP help please!!!!! you can litterally save my marriage SHORT!!!? well B4 i go on my hunny moon i was wondering do guy like it rough wild and crazy or do guys like it calm and caressing the body and taking your time????? and do guys like when girls scream … Continue reading →...
38. I am married to a verbally and mentally abusive man that is also addicted to pain pills can I save my marriage I love him but I think he really hates me? I feel I constantly come last. And if I say anything about my feelings he wants a divorce. I decieded I wanted the divorce this time even though I really … Continue reading →...
39. How do I fix my relationship? Im waitN 4 marriage 2 have sex. We both WANT 2 have sex, but I have my morals.. He said he dont cheat, and we both DONT wanna break up. We both cried about our situation and he tells me he really loves me and I really love him to. He wants to be in a relationship where … Continue reading →...
40. What do you think of saving yourself till marriage? I just hit 40 this year and im still a virgin. My problem is i am proud of it and i dont care what our 65% divorce rate society thinks.:)))). I love being a rebel, i love being a virgin … Continue reading →...

a few months ago I took my husband back he left me for another woman he left for quite some time, throughout this time I kept seeing him knowing that he was with someone else he seemed confused and I wanted him back now that he’s back at home it’s not what I expected we hardly ever talk, and when we do it seems like he’s always looking for a reason to pick a fight he seems distant, and doesn’t want to go to counseling; he says he’ll leave again but he doesn’t leave I know he’s not seeing her anymore what can I do?

Related posts:

1. how can i fix my marriage? ok so here it is ive known my wife for 3 years and been married for 2..she told me 2 days ago that she doesnt love me, have feelings and she doesnt wanna be with anyone, she said she felt … Continue reading →...
2. Having problems with my Marriage. am i in the WRONG? Im 18, i have an 11 month old son and im married.. i went through a bad breakup with him and hoping he will change. Thing is, he says hes a grown man n feels he should do wat he … Continue reading →...
3. How to save my marriage and get over the hurt? My huspand and I separated a month ago I left him first but thats only because I thought I had no other choice and he didnt love me or I thought was putting his family first. Then he tells me … Continue reading →...
4. MY WIFE AND I SEPERATED.I TREATED HER BAD EARLY.SHOULD WE FIX OUR MARRIAGE?IF SO, HOW CAN I WIN HER BACK? My wife and I have been married 6 years, lived together for 10, known each other for 11. Last year she kissed an ex boyfriend (allegedly only kissed) and left the house. She came back after 1 week and I … Continue reading →...
5. gambling causing major problems in marriage? how would you deal with your wife if you love her but she spent half the money she makes on gambling (definatly addicted) and causes major financial issues married 7 years with 3 kids its not even the casinos its … Continue reading →...
6. How can I fix my marriage? My husband and I split up 6 months ago and ever since i have been in nothing but dispare. We try to work it out and it always turns into a big fight. He loves to be with his family … Continue reading →...
7. I am very unhappy in my marriage…my husband likes to say it is me and if I would get fixed that everything ? would be fine. He won’t go to counseling. When we have an issue he never wants to talk and if I will not leave him alone he packs his bags and leaves. He has said I am the worst wife … Continue reading →...
8. Help save my marriage, I was lost now I am found.? I left him, put a restraining order on him and kept our children from him for a while. Now I don’t hang out with the people tat told me to do that anymore. I am crazy for my man. I … Continue reading →...
9. Any advice on how to save my marriage? My wife left me about 9 months ago. About 3 months after she left me we started seeing each other and things have been great for a while. She was already planning to move back to her hometown before we … Continue reading →...
10. I need help to save my marriage? I met and fell in love with the girl of my dreams 7 years ago. we got married 3 years ago. We moved away and everything was fine. Once we came back to our families and firends she has been … Continue reading →...
11. How can I save my marriage? Details? My husband and I just recently reconciled. I got us into some financial trouble by not paying the bills (I lost my job and money was tight) and he left me. He came back but he constantly tells me he’ll … Continue reading →...
12. having problems in my marriage? my wife doesnt want to talk to me… we live in 2 different countries… she is mad at me cuz i brought up a question about her and ex… then she just started to give me tons of low blows… … Continue reading →...
13. Can a marriage be repaired? My husband and I are not getting along at all. We had a huge blow out and I told him to leave and go to his brothers. well, he left for the nt. and went to a gross motel and … Continue reading →...
14. How can I save my marriage? I and my wife have known each other for 16 years, been together for one year and married for 2 months, well, she knew I had a drinking problem when we started dating. I do not drink everyday, more like … Continue reading →...
15. I saved my parents marriage? I told my mom what my dad was doing and then she said she knew but when I told her that he took me with him one time he had sex and left me in car she flipped and the … Continue reading →...
16. how to fix a marriage gone bad? recently my wife left me to move down with her parents this was over a month ago. its pretty much my fault i have been a complete a*shole at times. my point is i talk to her often on the … Continue reading →...
17. Please help me save my marriage?!? Ok, I really need some help. My husband and I have only been married for 7 months. We have been together for 3 years. I will start by saying that I have an anger problem, when i get made i … Continue reading →...
18. can i stop my divorce? my wife filed for divorce is there any way to stop or delay it to try to get her back. i did nothing wrong and i love her. if we can stop it can we get the money back she … Continue reading →...
19. Can my marriage be saved from my in-laws hatred? My wife accused me 4 months ago(falsely) of having an affair. I know that this is due to her family’s intense hatred of me. She has left me 3 times and come back twice and has been gone for 21 … Continue reading →...
20. Help, my Brother’s marriage problem? My brother got married in Pakistan in december & his Wife is here, but we dont get on with her as she is selfish, doesnt work, always wants to go the Beauty Parlour & is very aggressive, now she has … Continue reading →...
21. Marriage Problems need serious help, please anyone? PLease someone help me I just dont know what to do. I am 24 and my wife is 20. We got married 3 yrs ago and we have known each other for almost 6 yrs. After getting married we started … Continue reading →...
22. what do i do about my wife and family? my wife and i were having problems with drinking and our marriage.? She left and i started to be with other women i though we were going to be divorced.After a year we both stopped drinking and decided that we wanted to stay together and make it work we have two boys.We … Continue reading →...
23. Is this a potential problem for our marriage? My husband and I were just married in September! We have talked about porn before and how we both felt about it. He always said that he looked at it and watched it in college but never really after. My … Continue reading →...
24. help!!! i think my parents are considering a divorce wat can i do to stop this? the past couple weeks my parents have been getting into little arguements over my brothers attitude how he doesnt respect my mom. but my dad isnt around alot because he works alot and doesnt really see whats going on, so … Continue reading →...
25. dealing with myself to save my marriage.? my husband and i have been together for 2 years and married for almost 5 month. we have a 6 month old daughter also.the day after we got married he had to leave to start his new job, a month … Continue reading →...
26. im having problems with my marriage my husband wants to go out with his couisin’s every weekend? my husband is going out with his couisins every fridays and saturdays and sometimes he doenst call me to let me know that he’s ok and he comes back at 5 or 6am and he takes my car and he … Continue reading →...
27. is my marriage worth saving?? help? i am married, two children and my husband is 11 yrs older than me. he was very abusive in the past (verbally and physically) caught him cheating countless of times and i recently left him and the children for two … Continue reading →...
28. How can I save my marriage from a cult? I lived over in South Korea for 5 years in a church and am married with 2 children. Earlier this year I was kidnapped, beaten, and they took my passport. I tried to come back to the U.S. with my … Continue reading →...
29. How do you save your marriage after your spouse lies? My husband is in the Marines and stationed over in Japan until April. He just went back in August from leave. Everything was going great and then out of the blue, he started asking me if there was anything I … Continue reading →...
30. Can I Save My Marriage? We’re separated. She reunited with ex-bfriend and says we’re incompatible. HELP!!? we just had a babygirl – our first child. she is from europe and I am from the U.S. The last 4 months of her pregnancy (during which we were fighting and sometimes not even on speaking terms) she spent … Continue reading →...
31. marriage problem? My husband and i have been married for 4 years. We have 2 kids a 1 year old and a 2 year old. We have split up many times, and most are from other girls or because he cant decide … Continue reading →...
32. Am i afraid of marriage…or is it a deeper problem? i will be 21 this year, i own my own home I work 3rd shift about an hour away from where i live. The past 3 years have been difficult in my world. I had a boyfriend that left for … Continue reading →...
33. how would you fix my marriage? i feel like its falling apart and i dont know why or how to fix it. i feel like my husband doesnt want to be a family man but he begged for it, i wanted to wait to get married … Continue reading →...
34. Pregnant w/ marriage problems? So i just found out a week ago i am pregnant w/ baby #1 i’m 5wks 4days. Me and my hub were TCC, but ever sense finding out i was pregnant… he has been unhappy constantly saying he hates his … Continue reading →...
35. How do I save my marriage? Ok so here is the story. I am 20 and married to a US Soldier who is currently serving over seas. We willbe married one year come May 24, 2009. We got married rather quickly like after 2 months of … Continue reading →...
36. When you want to save your marriage you are told you have low self-esteem, why? What’s wrong with saving it? This is my situation: I have allowed my husband to have sex with his ex-wife in our bed, but said nothing. I have walked in on him "literally" madly stroking away on another women in our bed (who was not … Continue reading →...
37. How to fix a New 7 month marriage? We both are 22 and just got married 7 months ago.Wevev known each other since we were 13.I was pregnant and lost the baby he blamed me for it the next day he told me he wanted space and a … Continue reading →...
38. Whats so wrong with wanting to get your man back? Saving your relationship/marriage? I have allowed my husband to have sex with his ex-wife in our bed, but said nothing. I have walked in on him "literally" madly stroking away on another women in our bed (who was not his ex), but said … Continue reading →...
39. Ok here is another problem I have with my wife and marriage? Its like I can lay down and watch tv for hours if I am the only one in the room, but as soon as my wife comes in it doesnt feel right to me and I just have to get … Continue reading →...
40. I want to save my marriage! Please help!? Me and my husband used to fight allot! The first time I left him was because he got really nasty when we used to fight. I realized how much I loved him and asked him for another chance… eventually after … Continue reading →...

My husband and I have been married for 5 years. We have 3 kids between us, mine his and ours. The past couple years have been really bad between me and my step daughter and my step daughter and our daughter. At first I was just jealous of his relationship with him and his daughter but now its something different. The affection he shows his daughter is the kind of relationship I want with him. She intentionally hugs and kisses him in front of me and looks at me to see if im paying attention. To me it seems like he just wants it to be him and her, like her as his little wife. There is total jealousy between his daughter and our daughter. She is very mean to her and refers to her as her half sister like shes not truly her sister. We have talked so many times about this and he just says its to late. I have set up counseling to see if our marriage can be saved but I just don’t think he wants it to. I have caused some of the problems between me and my step because she is very hateful to me and my daughter and I don’t appreciate it. We have her full time and I think she needs to be with her mom, but thats out of the question. Please someone give me some advice.

Related posts:

1. marriage and daughter problems? i married a guy a month ago and we’ve been living really happily. but he has 3 kids and i have 1 daughter. his kids immediatly accepted me. but my daughter refuses 2 accept my husband and hes tried just … Continue reading →...
2. What is my wife feeling and can we save our marriage? On 8/10/06 my wife left me after i vented some frustration regarding my 7 year old step daughter. I used foul language and yelled, my step daughter was not home during this venting. My wife has sinced moved out and … Continue reading →...
3. Would you stop associating with your step-parent if your parents got divorced? Once your step-parent is no longer your step-parent because of a divorce does that mean you do not have to see them like you would family? Does the length of time the person has been your step-parent make a difference? … Continue reading →...
4. Please Help 10 points for best answer…..Marriage Problems? My husband cheated on me with my sister.I am so hurt,I am pregnant with his daughter,I already have a son my husband isn’t his dad.It hurts me so much to no the one i gave my heart to cheated on … Continue reading →...
5. how can i save my marriage? I married 3 months ago i have 3 kids my husband has one so we r a blended family. i love my step son like he is my own. my husband and i are at a breaking point there have … Continue reading →...
6. How can I stop my parents from divorcing? My parents .. well my step dad and my mom- my real dad and my mom never married.. – havent been getting along lately. They have been fighting for awhile and my step-dad says if it wasnt for my brother … Continue reading →...
7. Marriage Problem? My parents are fighting they have been togther for 2 years and my step dad is the 2 best step dad in the world!Do you have any tips to help them get back togther?It is so bad that we are … Continue reading →...
8. Gift ideas for parents who are trying to save their marriage? My dad and step mom’s marriage is on the rocks but according to my dad they are trying hard to save it. They have been married for 31 years and I would like to get them some gifts for the … Continue reading →...
9. My wife and I no longer live together but haven’t divorced yet. Can she legally stop me from taking my child? I recently made plans with my wife to take my daughter and spend the day with her. When the time came for me to pick my daughter up she wouldnt allow me to take her. Is this legal? Our divorce … Continue reading →...
10. Advice/Help please. Having Marriage Problems.? I’m married with a one year old daughter and a 2 year old step daughter. Me and my husband were having problems before we were even married, and now he’s in the Army. We argue constantly and most of the … Continue reading →...
11. Problems with my step daughter. Afraid it will destroy my marriage.? I’ve been married for 2 years. I have 2 children of my own who are 16 and 21. He has 2 children ages 6 and 5. I feel like I’ve started over raising children. I love my step daughters. But … Continue reading →...
12. Did I ruin our marriage and can it be saved? My wife and I were married for 3 months and have since been separated for three months. The separation stems from an emotional outburst that dealt with my frustrations in handling her daughter. The outburst was not in front of … Continue reading →...
13. Can my marriage be saved? Hello, I have been married now for 4 years and have a beautiful 3 yr old daughter. I love my husband, he is the love of my life and he says he loves me too; but we fight every single … Continue reading →...
14. Do I try to save the marriage or give up? My wife has taken my daughter and moved out of state,the courts are telling me to pay $550 per WEEK……I love my wife and daughter….but she turned my daughter against me and she turned on me as well,her mother and … Continue reading →...
15. How can I save my marriage or is it too late? We have been together for 8 years, married for 2. He and my 20 yr old daughter don’t get along. HE told her she could move back home to go back to school. She has an infant. She went back … Continue reading →...
16. Did I save my marriage or jeopardize it? I work in sports career that sometimes means a lot of time away from my family. My wife and I became disconnected and we haven’t had a real conversation in months and it’s really taking a toll on our marriage. … Continue reading →...
17. where can I find a counselor for marriage problem? My husband told me that he’s sorry but will never move out. He wants to stay with his parents forever so he can help them. I never stop him from being a good son. I rather he would him them … Continue reading →...
18. Do you think my marriage can be saved? Okay well me and wife never had a prefect relationship I mean we had a lot of down times but we had some good times to but recently I found out she was texting and emailing other guys I conforted … Continue reading →...
19. If I file joint custody in my divorce, can that stop me from moving to another state with my daughter? I am filing for divorce and I want to move out of the state, but I don’t want the father of my daughter to stop my move. Should I file for full or soul custody of our daughter? I have … Continue reading →...
20. How can I save my marriage? My wife Juanita caught me a messin round with the neighbor’s daughter ("the farmers daughter"). She told me "Carl, you been a cheatin on me for so long I ain’t even shore the babys I’s carryin is yores"! Now what … Continue reading →...
21. please help me save my marriage? I have been married for 6 months now and now I feel like I didn’t know anything about my husband…. Ok so before I say anything I know that I am far from perfect and I’m not trying to put … Continue reading →...
22. im divorced and getting remarried to a dutch man. can my ex stop me from moving to holland? i have been seperated from my ex for 4 years and divorced for 1. i have a daughter aged 11 from my ex husband whom i have custody of. no court orders were made when we divorced as we left … Continue reading →...
23. *TEARS* PLEASE HELP ME SAVE MY MARRIAGE!? my husband and I have been fighting a lot for the past year. He used to be so low-tempered before and now he’s gone so far that he even shouted at my 12-year old daughter who he would never dare … Continue reading →...
24. BIG PROBLEM-Marriage of 3 daughters???? i am havng 3 daughters of 24,20 & 19 years of age.Being a widow and no solid finance background i’m in hyper tention about their marriages.My eldest daughter is a home tutor,middle1 is deciding the stream 2 go 4 job … Continue reading →...
25. What do you do if your husband and daughter do not get along. It is causing major problems in the marriage.? My husband I separated he blames her for everything. He pretty much says she is crazy and needs helps says she is a slut. She is a virgin and gets A and B’s in school. She does not go out … Continue reading →...
26. Father in Law & Marriage problem. What to do? I just do not get along with my father-in-law (FIL). For many years, over slightest arguments he has always asked his daughter to separate from me. The man hates me deep down. I believe it might have to do with … Continue reading →...
27. My wife and I are separated we have a daughter together and I desperately want to fix our marriage HELP!? We have been separated for over a year now and I have recently written her a letter expressing how much I love her and would do anything to repair our relationship.She is understandably hesitant and has not yet told me … Continue reading →...
28. How to solve the Father-in-Law and marriage problem? I just do not get along with my father-in-law (FIL). For many years, over slightest arguments he has always asked his daughter to separate from me. The man hates me deep down. I believe it might have to do with … Continue reading →...
29. Marriage problems…what to do? Here’s my situation: I married my high school sweetheart. He is a very loving person with an anger problem. He lost his dad and brother (bro was murdered). He was very close to his brother and know feels like he … Continue reading →...
30. Should i have asked her father for her hand in marriage first, and how do i fix it if he is angry? ok so i asked my girlfriend of almost 3 yrs. to marry me on new years, she called her dad up to tell him the news and he was very angry. why? because i didnt ask him for permission to … Continue reading →...
31. What is the appropriate age for a father to stop helping with changing and bathing, etc?(parents are divorced)? What do I do if I get so upset that it actually turns me off to my boyfriend because of the way he interacts with his daughter? I know that nothing funny is going on but I cannot help but … Continue reading →...
32. How do I save my marriage my husband wants to leave me? We know longer sleep together because he likes to stay up until 4am with the lights on ( It’s been 2 months). I’m now sleeping in my daughter’s room with her. My husband isn’t her dad. To make a long … Continue reading →...
33. How do I save my marriage my husband wants to leave me? We know longer sleep together because he likes to stay up until 4am with the lights on ( It’s been 2 months). I’m now sleeping in my daughter’s room with her. My husband isn’t her dad. To make a long … Continue reading →...
34. there not together but there still married but there gonia get a divorce so stop sayin its me!!!did he cheat? Did he cheat?ppl they gonia get a divorce my boyfriend is married but there not together and hsi daughter who is very smart and shes 5 told me that he kissed his wife i asked him he said on the … Continue reading →...
35. Suggesting on how to stop a divorce? Have been married for a little over 5 years and dated for about 2 years before got married. We have a 3 year old daughter. I wanted to remain a virgin tell we married I know my husband had some … Continue reading →...
36. Can my marriage be saved? My wife left me 35 days ago then I moved out of the house and she moved back in with our 3 kids 4, 9 and 11. She said it is over it is finished I am doing counselling myself … Continue reading →...
37. Can I fix my marriage? Me and my wife have been married for 4 years now we got married kind of young we were both 22, but last week I had been drinking and I came home and her sister baby sits for us while … Continue reading →...
38. dealing with myself to save my marriage.? my husband and i have been together for 2 years and married for almost 5 month. we have a 6 month old daughter also.the day after we got married he had to leave to start his new job, a month … Continue reading →...
39. Should I have an affair to save my marriage? Before our daughter was born we had sex all the time! We slept together and were very close. Now, she sometimes comes into my room and we have sex but then soon returns to the other bedroom to be with … Continue reading →...
40. How do I save my marriage!!? I found out from our pastor’s wife that my wife has been sleeping with him. The pastor’s wife caught them late one night about a month ago, having sex in the basement of HIS house!! I had been suspecting something … Continue reading →...

My wife and I are currently on the verge of divorce. We’ve been married almost ten years, and during that time she’s cheated on me at least six times (that she’s admitted to). We have two beautiful children (and I’ve had DNA tests done, so yes I AM their father). When I first found out she was cheating on me, we’d been married about 2 years. I found out because a friend knew and couldn’t handle keeping it from me anymore. My wife admitted to it, and during that process revealed there were several other guys as well.

The last time I caught her cheating on me was about 4 years ago, and since then there hasn’t been anything suspicious. We went to marriage counseling and it seemed to be working. However, about a month ago, I found out she sent over a dozen naked pictures of herself to another guy via text message. And these weren’t just subtle teasing pics, but full on close ups of you can imagine what. I haven’t even seen all of the pics she sent, so I have no idea how explicit many of them were. The ones I did see were enough to rip my heart from my chest. Even worse, she sent this guy several of these pics on my birthday.

At this point, she’s ended things with him and swears it was nothing more than texting and sharing photos. When I try to tell her how bad this is for me, she gets defensive and tries to dismiss things by saying what she did was no big deal because it was only texting. I completely disagree. Whether or not she actually had a physical relationship is not the only concern for me. Sending these kinds of pictures is a form of cheating in my opinion, and I know that if they had the chance to get together she would have had a physical affair with him.

Years ago, after the first several incidents of cheating, I fought hard to show her why she should stay with me and why our relationship is worth saving. She eventually agreed and we worked things out – or so I thought. But this most recent incident is a huge shock to me because I thought things were going pretty well.

She has blamed me for what she did, not only this most recent time but for those in the past too. She said that she was mad at me and that’s what led her to other men. I’ll admit I’m not perfect, but I’ve never cheated on her and never done anything like what she has.

Now she wants to discuss staying together and fixing things. She says she’d like to start over and see if we can make it work this time. Is there any hope for our marriage? Should I even give her the chance?

Related posts:

1. Can our marriage be saved? I am 6 mo. pregnant and ordered to be on bed rest. Which I haven’t really been doing. My husband is having a hard time with me not working. Since I have come home from the hospital he has voiced … Continue reading →...
2. Can my marriage be saved? I don’t even know where to begin. I’ll try to keep this short. We have no passion or romance. The sex sucks and is getting less frequent. I don’t really even have a desire to have sex nor does he … Continue reading →...
3. Is it me…how can i know is my marriage can be saved? My husband and I have been married for a year, we’ve been together for 6yrs. Its been rocky from the begining. He was separated when we met, the decided to try to work things out with his first wife. meanwhile … Continue reading →...
4. Can my marriage be saved or do i let it go? I have been married for 8 years. At first it was the most wonderful feeling I have ever had..or for anyone. About 2 years into our marriage, my step kids came to live with us. Hubby stayed gone all day … Continue reading →...
5. is there anybody out there who has a sure fire way to stop a divorce? ive heard of books and counselors that have guarenteed ways to stop a divorce dead in its tracks with some things you can buy some things you can do and things youcan say. does anyone have a good experience with … Continue reading →...
6. life and problems in a marriage? How do you live with someone you love so much, you are trying to fix things between one another to forgive and forget things that have been said an done, well i feel that i am trying and he is … Continue reading →...
7. i have a major problem??? very young marriage on verge of divorce? i told my hubby iwanted a divorce a week ago and i have been talking naughty with other guys over the intnet and stuff but now that i have thought things through i dont want one…im 21 and hes 19 … Continue reading →...
8. I am having a problem with my marriage..? My husband says I get pissed off really easy about things.. which i know i do.. Stupid things even.. Just dumb things. How can I work on not getting pissed about stupid things? I need help!!! PLEASE!!! thanks!!...
9. How can I save my marriage if I don’t really feel like I’m apart of it? We have been married for 4 years, dated for 2 before, he had a really bad temper. I always thought if I loved him more and was there for him more then I could help him get better. Well he … Continue reading →...
10. Any ideas on how to fix my marriage? We have been married for 4 years, dated for 2 before, he had a really bad temper. I always thought if I loved him more and was there for him more then I could help him get better. Well he … Continue reading →...
11. How can I stop my parents from thinking about divorce? Please help me.? My parents have always made snide remarks to each other and fought off and on about different things. It always bothered me and upset me sometimes, but I never thought it would get worse because they love each other. But … Continue reading →...
12. Do you feel that married people are "lazy" when it comes to saving their marriages? I don’t mean domestic abuse, affairs…things like that. I mean, things like "things aren’t we way they used to be", or we "don’t talk anymore". Do you think that people should work harder, especially when children are involved?...
13. When will I stop putting my life on hold and figure out what I want out of life after my divorce? I’ve been divorced for about a year and a half. It wasn’t a particularly friendly divorce. About the same time a lot of other stuff happened to me as well and I sometimes feel frantic because I have so much … Continue reading →...
14. Can my marriage be saved? My husband and I are seperated not by my choice. I live with my parents and he lives with his single friends. His attitude changed to the point that he has told me that he does not want to be … Continue reading →...
15. Serious relationship problems! my marriage might be over. Divorce over physical fight? can it be fixed? I have had issues with my husband and all the things he doesn’t "do right" for a long time and tried to communicate them sensibly. It’s kind of pretty stereotypical and he stereotypically just wants me to shut up and … Continue reading →...
16. Christian women who "saved themselves" for marriage…? were any of you surprised by how things went in that department after you were married? Obviously turned out to be a crappy question… but it got at least one GREAT answer… thanks...
17. How can a marriage been saved after 1 yr of seperation and both of us having a relationship? My husband and I seperated 1 yr ago. It was mutual. We never discussed seeing other people it just happened. Time has passed and the relationships have ended, and we have decided to get back together and make this work. … Continue reading →...
18. How do I save my marriage? we have been married 4 years now and recently my wife is talking about splitting up. I still love her but am not good at showing it. she says something died in our relationship and that things have changed in … Continue reading →...
19. Is my marriage worth saving? Were young and have 2 kids. Been married for 4 yrs. Our sex life is off and on. I’m usually the one to hold off because I’m tired or would rather take a bath. He has cheated several times throughout … Continue reading →...
20. Do you think gay marriage & flag burning are the biggest problems the US is facing? Congress spent most of the past week debating these 2 things. Aren’t there more important things to deal with right now?...
21. my husband treats me horribly , how do i save my marriage? hey ignores me and my children , he wont talk to me, he is obsessed with video games and material things in general.he will run over anyone and everyone to get what he wants ,,even fraud.he wont talk to me … Continue reading →...
22. How do i fix my marriage? A couple of months ago me and my hubby were always yelling at one another over stupid things like work, money, school. An things got out of hand so i took the choice of giveing us are space and moveing … Continue reading →...
23. Should my sexless marriage be saved? I’ve been married now for 8 yrs and things are just miserable. My wife is a great person and I admire her still. She is beautiful, strong, and successful. She is very smart and we have an awesome child together. … Continue reading →...
24. Will having a child fix a marriage? Not necessiraly fix but make things better because right now things are really bad between me and my husband and I think having a baby will help but Im not sure. What do you think?...
25. save my marriage? my husband is at his wits end with me. He says he just wants to be alone. I am controling and over bearing. I have been hurt bad in the past and I do see the control in me. I … Continue reading →...
26. OOOOH YEEEEAH! What drastic measures have you taken in an attempt to save your marriage? I have resorted to doing disgusting things with my mouth such as desensitizing my gag reflex and all that it entails (i.e. gargling baby batter). What things have you done that you’re not so proud of in your efforts to … Continue reading →...
27. Girls who are saving your virginity for marriage? Would you still do other things with a boyfriend if you had been together for say a couple of years? Things like hands or even as far as oral but no actual full blown sex? Just something I’m kind of … Continue reading →...
28. Husband/marriage problems? My husband & I have gotten along great the whole time we’ve been togther & since we’ve been married (jan 14, 06). Hes 31 and I am 21. He was married once before; this is my only marriage. Recently he … Continue reading →...
29. Can a marriage be saved after multiple affairs? i have been with my husband for almost 13 yrs and he’s had multiple affairs in the past and I can’t get over them and move on….he wants to do counseling and I’m afriad it will make things worse, over … Continue reading →...
30. how do I save the love in my marriage? I was in a motercycle accident in june i have a tramatic brain injury i have problems with remembering things,controling my behaviors.when i get upset my mind takes me to a negitive place and then i say things to hurt … Continue reading →...
31. What are the most common problems that people run into in their marriage? Married, divorced, separated… everyone, feel free to jump in here. Ps. It could be little things or big things, it doesn’t matter as long as it’s a real problem that needs a solution in order to keep a marrige together. … Continue reading →...
32. Husband/marriage problems? My husband & I have gotten along great the whole time we’ve been togther & since we’ve been married (jan 14, 06). Hes 31 and I am 21. He was married once before; this is my only marriage. Recently he … Continue reading →...
33. Can my marriage be saved? Me and my husband have been together for almost 2 years, and we have separated 3 times in that period. We both have cheated and done and said some aweful things. We both have forgiven each other. He says he … Continue reading →...
34. How to stop my divorce? She wants the divorce but wants it on her pace. She said she isn’t looking for anyone but yet she has begun to date just as friends. We still spend time together and it feels like she still cares but … Continue reading →...
35. How can a marriage be saved after months of separation? My husband & I have been separated for months. I still love him & want to work things out, although we have both moved on…he has his own place in another town miles from us & I have my own … Continue reading →...
36. Should sex be saved till marriage, till the right person, or it doesnt matter? Everyone from around the world, can view sex as many different things. Some people said sex should be preserved to marriage, some people say sex should be for the right person. While, some people said sex is just sex. What … Continue reading →...
37. is it possible to save marriage by living sepparately for some time? Thak you guys for a support! No there is no cheeting involvedn it’s about the way we are. In past we have agued about stupid little things, about his best fried which was always more imortant for him i think, … Continue reading →...
38. do most men have a problem with a girl who wants to wait for marriage to have sex? if so what do you think of women who make this choice. i went out on a date with a really great guy. Things seem to be going pretty well but i don’t know how to break it to him … Continue reading →...
39. Can my marriage be saved ? I have been married for 5 years , my wife and i have had many problems . She was very possesive and jealous in the beginning . About a year a go we started going to a casino and lost … Continue reading →...
40. Is there anyone out there that has saved their marriage after husband says "I don’t love you anymore"? My husband of 18 years has recently told me he has fallen out of love with me. He has since told me he wants to stay and try to work things out with me. We’ve had numerous talks about it. … Continue reading →...

I am 27 years old and so is my husband. We have been living together for 8 years and married for 1 year as of sunday. We have always been arguers and I always thought it was me. Recently the fighting has been escalating and we have had some revalations…
1. My husband finally told me he had been sexually abused as a child
2. WE realized that He was an abuser(mentally) to me. Through all our reading he follows ALL the patterns and I NEVER knew it and thought it was ME.
3. For the past 8 years I see things that I never saw before. I have always had a constant job(not great) to support us, while he has tried 3 different schools quit jobs, not worked for months, and recently went back to college only to fail half of his courses. As well as consistanly being 10-30 min late for work on a daily basis because he can’t get out of bed;.
I am a wreck! I feel like my life is in ruins, I HATE myself and I blame him.
He sees his abuse and says he loves me so much and it kills him that he has done this and is trying to get help for him/us, but even if he is to get help for his abusive ways, I’m not sure he will ever be able to provide for a family and do what is necessary for us to be able to live comfortably. He said durring an arguement that he did’t ruin my life and I can’t blame him.
I love him so much and I don’t want to divorce him, he has been my life for more than 1/4 of my life, but I don’t know if we can be saved and if he will ever make the changes nescesary…
I am so lost and don’t know what to do…

Related posts:

1. Can this marriage be saved? I left my husband six years ago. I wasn’t ready to be married, and I told him I didn’t love him. I had just had our son, and I think I had ppd. I was really depressed, and I took … Continue reading →...
2. Can my marriage of 22 years be saved? I have been with my husband for 22 years, I was 17 when we met and went from a physically, emotionally and more abusive step father and bio mother to my husband and I fell head over heals in love … Continue reading →...
3. Can my marriage be saved? I have been married for 2 1/2 years but we have been together a total of 5 years, I am now going to have a baby and I just found out my husband has been talking with other women and … Continue reading →...
4. Would marriage help with my mental problems and emotional abuse? I have all sorts of psychological disorders, from adhd to bipolar, anxiety, etc. So my life is a wreck, and i feel like im going nowhere and everyday the suicidal thoughts increase in frequency. I have been dealing with major … Continue reading →...
5. Can my marriage be saved? I love my wife more than anything in this world but I am afraid that it is all coming to an end. She has not been happy for the past 2 years and can not explaine to me why. I … Continue reading →...
6. how can i fix my marriage, when we live with his mother? my husband lost his job, and has been looking for work. my mother in law had back surgery so we moved in to help her. unable to keep our house, we used the money from that for living expenses. we … Continue reading →...
7. Do you think sex should be saved for after marriage? What are your? views on that? I’m a 19 year old girl who’s been with her boyfriend for 2 and a half years. Both of us are still virgins and I’m debating whether I should have sex after marriage. I love him very … Continue reading →...
8. Can this marriage be saved or is Divorce the answer? Can my marriage be saved? I’m a 39 year old Male and my wife is 28. We’ve been married just over 5 years, but have been together for 7 years and have no children. 3 years ago my wife worked … Continue reading →...
9. Can my marriage be saved? I am a 38 y/o woman who has been married for almost 21 years, married at 17 because I was pregnant. We now have 3 beautiful boys, 21, 14, 11. For the past 5-6 years I think I have fallen … Continue reading →...
10. Can this marriage be saved????give your expertise please…? First of all here are few points on what happen and why we think that we can work… -my mother hates my husbant…she made mine and his life a living hell -we live in separate town but she visit us … Continue reading →...
11. What can I do to save my marriage? We have been together for 19 years and married for 15 years, up until about years ago we were doing fine, riding along with the ups and downs that comes with married life and kids. For some reason though and … Continue reading →...
12. Can my marriage be saved or do i let it go? I have been married for 8 years. At first it was the most wonderful feeling I have ever had..or for anyone. About 2 years into our marriage, my step kids came to live with us. Hubby stayed gone all day … Continue reading →...
13. Can I save my marriage? My husband and I met at 16 – 10 years ago, and have always been so happy. We were best friends and very much in love for years. We were married four years ago and were still going strong. We … Continue reading →...
14. Marriage Problems? Me and My wife have been married for 1 Year and been together 2 years. She has been what i call sheltered from Real Life and i am not sure she was all the way ready to start a family. … Continue reading →...
15. I have got such a marriage problem please help me? my Husband? I have been married to my husband for 13 years now we got married when we where 16 years old, now we are 29 years old we have no kids. We got married because we loved each an wanted to … Continue reading →...
16. Those who believe you should save yourself for marriage, what about those who never get married? Should people who never get married stay virgins for all 80+ years of their life? Just wondering because I see many saying that sex before marriage is a "sin", so that would mean that someone who never gets married should … Continue reading →...
17. Is my marriage worth saving and if so can it be saved? Is it worth saving? If so, do you think we can make it? Here is the situation. My wife and I have been married for nine years and together for a total of 12 years. We have a beautiful 5 … Continue reading →...
18. Do I keep trying to fix our marriage or do I start thinking of myself and my happiness?? I have been married seven years to my high school sweetheart and we have a wonderful child. A child that I would give my life and happiness for . I honestly believe thats what I’m doing!! Over the past few … Continue reading →...
19. Why does my husband now want to "fix" his first marriage? This is second marriage for both of us-6 years. My husband has been divorced from his first wife for 19 years. Had relationships before he met me. His ex who lives out of state also remarried and is now getting … Continue reading →...
20. My husband wants to "fix" his first marriage now!? This is second marriage for both of us-6 years. My husband has been divorced from his first wife for 19 years. Had relationships before he met me. His ex who lives out of state also remarried and is now getting … Continue reading →...
21. can my marriage still be saved? My husband and I have been married 13 years going on 17 years as a couple. over the years he always made me feel so insecure calling me names and beating me.. He is the only man I have loved … Continue reading →...
22. Do I try to save my eight year marriage or let him walk away without a fight? My husband of eight years walked through the door 3 days ago,and said he wanted to leave me. We have had bad times, just like anybody else, but have always been madly in love. Just 3 months ago, He told … Continue reading →...
23. How do you move on and free yourself emotionally from a spouse that does not want to fix a marriage.? It started a year ago, when my spouse of 4 years just changed overnight, started going out three nights a week with g/f’s ..etc. And spending less and less time with me. It didn’t take long for me to catch … Continue reading →...
24. Can my marriage be saved ? I have been married for 5 years , my wife and i have had many problems . She was very possesive and jealous in the beginning . About a year a go we started going to a casino and lost … Continue reading →...
25. Can my marriage be saved ? I have been married for 5 years , my wife and i have had many problems . She was very possesive and jealous in the beginning . About a year a go we started going to a casino and lost … Continue reading →...
26. Can my marriage be saved? My wife and I have been married for 9 years and have 2 beautiful boys. Every time she goes home to visit family for more than 2 weeks she questions our marriage. We got married when I was 23 and … Continue reading →...
27. Should my sexless marriage be saved? I’ve been married now for 8 yrs and things are just miserable. My wife is a great person and I admire her still. She is beautiful, strong, and successful. She is very smart and we have an awesome child together. … Continue reading →...
28. Marriage Problem Please Help Me. . . PLEASE? 10 points for the best helpful answers TODAY? My husband & I have been together for 6 years married for 3. we always tell each other Love You after talking on the phone, before leaving home, etc. The sex is great!! Later i think we are getting in … Continue reading →...
29. Can my marriage be saved? Hello, I have been married now for 4 years and have a beautiful 3 yr old daughter. I love my husband, he is the love of my life and he says he loves me too; but we fight every single … Continue reading →...
30. Please, help me save my marriage? 22 years. I gave him 22 years of my life. In the 1990s when my kids were young, and he was a raging alcoholic who couldn’t hold a job for more than 2 months, I had to work for the … Continue reading →...
31. Anyone out there more than 100 lbs overweight having marriage problems too? My husband and I have been together 9 years, and 95 percent of the time I have been significantly overweight. Over time, as all marriages do, we have become less passionate, but I am now concerned with our relationship slowly … Continue reading →...
32. How does denying gays the right to get married save your marriage? People are born gay, ding dong. These ex gay people you’re talking about are shamed into the ‘normal’ life. The people who are later in life gays where shamed into living a life they did not want. Most are depressive … Continue reading →...
33. Help me save my marriage and be with my husband who I love more than anything else in this world!? Hi, I am married for three years and I am a hindu by birth and I got married to the same caste guy.Everything was going on well till my son was born.He is now 2 and after some 2 years … Continue reading →...
34. **PLEASE** How do I fix my marriage? When I was 17 I met the man I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. We had 2 kids together. I was so in love and would have done anything and did do everything to make … Continue reading →...
35. Can a bad marriage be saved? When we got married 25 yrs ago, I wasn’t ready 2 get married. I knew that I luvd him (Bo), but was not "in love" w/ him. A part of me wanted 2 resolve what had happened between my first … Continue reading →...
36. What can I do to save my marriage when my husband is an alcoholic? My husband is an alcoholic. We have been married for seven years. I have tried for nearly four years to get him to get help for himself and lead a more sober life. This including a year of marriage counseling. … Continue reading →...
37. Are you glad you saved your virginity for marriage? Sure, the sex was awkward and brief, and sure, you missed out on so many opprotunities to really experience and enjoy life and learning, buy by God, was it worth it?...
38. Can my marriage be saved? My wife an I have been married for 7 years. Currently we are separated. This past year she has (to my knowledge) been flirting with several other men. Sometimes around me, sometimes in private. I cannot prove infidelity, but my … Continue reading →...
39. Fix a broke marriage? My husband have been together for 6 years,I was happy but just one day i woke up and had felt a feeling that i didn’t know where my life was going. I still love him but not in love. We … Continue reading →...
40. What should I do about this problem in my marriage? I have been married for 2 years now. My husband was divorced once, and after the divorce he turned to drinking and resulting in him getting a DUI, the next thing was he had financial problems, I did not care … Continue reading →...

I have been married for 5 years , my wife and i have had many problems . She was very possesive and jealous in the beginning . About a year a go we started going to a casino and lost around 30 thousand dollars . I got over gambling 6 month a go but she continued going until a month a go . Our sex life was almost non existent during this crazy gambling period. About 2 weeks a go i discovered she was cheating on me with another man . She has changed her apperance (new clothing , underware, perfum,) something she had forgotten due to the gambling addiction which took too much of her time . I am trying to work things out and nothing seems to work . She does not want to have sex with me, acts very cold , distant , critical . I am very sad and want her back since i still love her . Please help!

Related posts:

1. Can my marriage be saved ? I have been married for 5 years , my wife and i have had many problems . She was very possesive and jealous in the beginning . About a year a go we started going to a casino and lost … Continue reading →...
2. gambling causing major problems in marriage? how would you deal with your wife if you love her but she spent half the money she makes on gambling (definatly addicted) and causes major financial issues married 7 years with 3 kids its not even the casinos its … Continue reading →...
3. What do i do to save my marriage from a husband that has a gambling problem? He says he has it under control but he will still over draw the checking account. He promises he won’t do it again and he always does. He sits on the computer all the time and is never with his … Continue reading →...
4. Horrible News Should I try to save my marriage? Just the other day I found out some horrible news about my husband that makes me feel as though I hardly know the person I married. Apparently for the past few years he has been stealing money from his job, … Continue reading →...
5. Recently divorced, my ex said he would pay me 1,100 started then he stopped, can i take him to court? Was getting 250.00 every 2 weeks, I get 600.00 a month from his retirement. He said in writting if I signed the papers, he would pay the 1,100 a month. He says there is nothing i can do, is he … Continue reading →...
6. Is this marriage worth saving? My wife at first was great but things have gone from bad to OMG.She has almost cost me everything and Im in debt because of it.She has issues with sexual abuse as a child. So needless to say there have … Continue reading →...
7. Can I save my marriage? What should I do? My husband is currently undergoing treatment for gambling addiction and alcohol addiction. As part of his treatment he has to keep a diary. I know I shouldn’t have – but I read part of it. He has been withdrawn from … Continue reading →...
8. How can a marriage be saved after months of separation? My husband & I have been separated for months. I still love him & want to work things out, although we have both moved on…he has his own place in another town miles from us & I have my own … Continue reading →...
9. Problems in My Marriage? My husband and I have been married for almost seven months. Since we have been married we have had many, many problems. He has had a very large problem keeping a job, and I am unable to work because I … Continue reading →...
10. Can this marriage be saved????give your expertise please…? First of all here are few points on what happen and why we think that we can work… -my mother hates my husbant…she made mine and his life a living hell -we live in separate town but she visit us … Continue reading →...
11. Can a marriage truely be saved? My wife and I have been married for almost 6 yrs. We had a big talk last week regarding her feeling for me. She was ready to walk out the door until I told her I had no idea she … Continue reading →...
12. what do i do to stop my husband from controlling my every move, without a divorce, or seperation? i have been married for a month. and i went to a party about 2 weeks ago, and didnt’ know that i was going to be drugged at the party. my husband took me to the emergency room and they … Continue reading →...
13. how do me and my husband get transfered with the air force to save our marriage?? im just wondering if its possible…..hes been stationed in mountain home less than a year…we have been seperated a month now..and we both have been seeing other people..we want to try to make our marriage work…i know this sounds dumb…but … Continue reading →...
14. Marriage problem – please help!? My husband and I have been married for 2.5 years. We have had a great marriage so far. I stay at home and take care of things around the house but I also had a small online job that I … Continue reading →...
15. How to fix my marriage? My husband and I have seperated twice now in the past 10 months. The first time was 3 weeks after our daughter was born. My husband thought that moving away for work would be the best for our family. At … Continue reading →...
16. Is it possible to save my marriage? My husband and I have been married for 2 years, and it’s been a very rocky marriage. We got into drinking alot, partying, hanging out with the wrong people, and I would catch my husband talking with other women alot. … Continue reading →...
17. How to deal with my husband lying to me about a debt problem after 4 months of marriage? So I’ve been married about 4 months, I just found out my husband has alot of debt for me to deal with. He lied to me about it at first but I have know him for a very long time … Continue reading →...
18. how do I fix my marriage? For over 4yrs now I’ve been telling my husband I need him to spend more time with me doing things outside of house work and communicating more. Well he of course does, for a month give or take. I ask … Continue reading →...
19. Am i afraid of marriage…or is it a deeper problem? i will be 21 this year, i own my own home I work 3rd shift about an hour away from where i live. The past 3 years have been difficult in my world. I had a boyfriend that left for … Continue reading →...
20. how to fix a marriage gone bad? recently my wife left me to move down with her parents this was over a month ago. its pretty much my fault i have been a complete a*shole at times. my point is i talk to her often on the … Continue reading →...
21. can my marriage be saved? I have been married to my husband for a year. He owns his own business that I am not involved in AND he and I own a business together that I run out of the house. We also have a … Continue reading →...
22. Need suggestions on saving my marriage to my Egyptian husband….? We had a lot of problems, one thing led to another and I filed for divorce (based on something terrible he did). He has been in egypt for 3 months. Since then, I stopped all the legal proceedings and have … Continue reading →...
23. I want to save my marriage? I have been married for 14 years.It was a love marriage. Sex Problem Before marriage my husband always wanted to make love to me.After marriage it just died.We probably had sex like 12 times in 13 years. I have always … Continue reading →...
24. My Wife has feelings for her ex and has fallen out of love with me….What can i do to save my marriage? My Wife and I have been married for 6 mo and have been together for nearly 2 years. everything was great until one night she went out with her friends from work. She saw her ex-boyfriend and he was with … Continue reading →...
25. Is my marriage worth saving?? My husband and I have been having some issues for about a year now. He is always bitching at me about something, it seems like I can never talk to him about anything. Whether it’s our relationship or my day … Continue reading →...
26. When will the hurting stop? My wife of 1 month told me Saturday she is divorcing me.? I tried to make it work and suggested marriage counceling while things were rough in our relationship but she said she did not have time with her work schedule.She is 22 and I’m 28 and this is her 2nd marriage … Continue reading →...
27. Can e-mail flirting save a marriage? I began talkking to a colleague at work. She is o.k. looking. We emailed each other a few times at work with jokes and innuendos here and there. Then it turned us e-mailing each other at home. the topics got … Continue reading →...
28. Can e-mail flirting save a marriage? I began talkking to a colleague at work. She is o.k. looking. We emailed each other a few times at work with jokes and innuendos here and there. Then it turned us e-mailing each other at home. the topics got … Continue reading →...
29. Can I save my marriage? my husband of 5 years(been together 10) left 4 days ago. I had recently discovered a relationship he was having with a women (married with 2 kids) from work. He says all they did was talk about being together but … Continue reading →...
30. Marriage Problems Please Help Me.? I have been married with my wife for 6 years and in the last year we have had a lot of problems. Well she went to stay with her family to have some time apart to see if we could … Continue reading →...
31. My best friend gave me advice to save my marriage but?? I am 22 yrs old and hubby is 24 yrs old.We have been married a 1.5 yrs our relationship was always on again off again mixed in with love-hate.I just graduated from college and he is in the air force … Continue reading →...
32. Financial problems and marriage? I married my husband in Feb. of this year. I knew he came with a horrible financial past and his credit is horrible. Before he met me he just didn’t care. Once I came along everyone started threatening him with … Continue reading →...
33. She wants divorce & full physical custody & move out of state with our son. Can I stop her. Please help? I gambled away all of our $ 2 1/2 years ago, & we borrowed a large amount of $ from her family to keep my business going. The business failed 6 months later & at that time she told me … Continue reading →...
34. Can my marriage be saved? please help me. I’ve been with my husband for almost 10 years(married for 5 – we’re 27 now).We were each other’s first real relationship.Would break up periodically while we were dating (initiated by him) but always got back together within a week.Summer of 2001 he broke up with me (thought it was for good) but about … Continue reading →...
35. New marriage and money problems? I know that my husband and I need counseling and I think he has some problems, one being that he drinks, two that he has an unstable mood. The first he seems to have been working on but the problem … Continue reading →...
36. Why is this happening? Can my marriage be saved? My husband and I have been married for just over 2 years now. We have been together a total of 13 years. We are both 25 years old. We have a 7 month old son. My husband works 50 hours … Continue reading →...
37. Can our marriage be saved?? I’ve been with my husband almost 6 years. We have 3 kids. Currently I am working 2 FT jobs and he works nothing. I had to get my 2nd job bc he won’t keep a job and all our bills … Continue reading →...
38. Can my marriage be saved? My wife and I separated just under 2 months. I had an affair 4 years ago we separated for a month then we got back together but I didn’t really change I cut all contacts with the women I had … Continue reading →...
39. For marriage women only please… Do you have some other problem than money matter? I am stay home mother of two small children. All I worried is always money. We always deficit each month, we keep using our saving, and it keeps lower and lower. I wish I could work, but with my husband … Continue reading →...
40. Convince my wife to save our marriage.? After 4.5 years of marriage, my wife has filed for divorce. I don’t want to divorce and would like to work with a counselor to try and fix our problems, but she has already entered into a 12-month rental agreement … Continue reading →...

I don’t even know where to begin. I’ll try to keep this short. We have no passion or romance. The sex sucks and is getting less frequent. I don’t really even have a desire to have sex nor does he most of the time. He seems more like a roommate than a husband. whenever he is home he is glued to online poker. Seriously… that’s all he does. Its just boring now. He doesn’t seem to be willing to try to change things. I’ve told him we need to try counseling and he has to get the papers through work to have it covered yet almost 2 months later he still has not gotten them. and he wonders why I have to nag him? I do love him but I’m not sure if I’m in love.. and how can I be if he has slipped into the friend role and is no touching or passion or anything. The only contact we make is a fast kiss before bed. That’s it!!! I’m not happy and I know that if things don’t change I can’t stay. Its been like this for 2 years but the thought of ending it because he isn’t willing to change things is in mind more and more these days. I feel like I’m being taken advantage of. I do most of the cleaning, all the shopping, I work as well. I also am working out 6 days a week for and hour and a half so. I feel like I do so much for this man and get nothing in return. I try to look good for him. He on the other hand has totally let himself go. Doesn’t shave or cut his hair. wears the same grubby clothes all the time and doesn’t try to get himself back in shape like I have. I think that if he just tried a little I would be more attracted to him. I’m such a happy person at work. but the minute I come home and see him sitting on his ass in front of the computer yet again I’m instantly in a bad mood. I’m not happy when around him anymore. I’ve become very resentful. I have told him all this and still nothing changes. I know it takes two but I feel like I do try and when I see no results or feel like I’m the only one trying I give up. If it wasn’t for our son I would not be here right now. but because we do have a child together I’m not quiting until I have given 100% into saving this. But how can I if he doesn’t do the same? Please help and don’t suggest things like unplugged night or go out for a date. We know how to do all that. I’m just so scared that this can’t be fixed. I want the man i fell in love with back. The man he is now is not him.

Related posts:

1. Saved Yourself For Marriage? Christians People Who Saved THemself? I am saving myself for marriage, and I wonder, Did God Reward You For being obediant!! How So, what is your marriage like…Did your wife really overdo herself, compared to what you thought your wife would be like…. Please go … Continue reading →...

I am a 38 y/o woman who has been married for almost 21 years, married at 17 because I was pregnant. We now have 3 beautiful boys, 21, 14, 11. For the past 5-6 years I think I have fallen out of love with my husband. He is good to me and the boys, I love him but I don’t think I am "in" love with him. I felt like I was taken for granted. Never heard an "I love you" for years and just didn’t feel appreciated. Haven’t heard a compliment for years. Sex just feels like it’s a chore anymore and I just don’t feel the "sparks" that we used to. I just feel like I am here to keep the family together. Recently a guy that I have known since junior high school came back into my life. He too is having the same problems at home and well we hit it off. I find myself telling him things that my best friend doesn’t even know about me. I feel comfortable with him. He is who I think of as soon as I get up in the mornings, all through the day and before I go to bed. We haven’t been intimate at all but has crossed our minds. It isn’t fair to my husband that I have these feelings for someone else. I should be feeling this way about my husband and feel guilty that I don’t. I recently told him everything. He is upset and realizes he was wrong and wants to change. I have these feelings that I don’t think it will work. Let’s say my marriage from the start was a 10 and in the past 20 years it has reduced to a 1, is it going to take 20 more years to get it to a 10 again? Will these feelings for the other man go away? I just need to know if my marriage can be saved and if anybody out there has or had the same experience me. My kids mean the world to me but I can’t stay in a unhappy marriage just for them. They are also torn up over this and it breaks my heart. Any advice would be great!

Related posts:

1. im 22 and already having marriage problems what do i do? i have been married now for 6 months we have 2 kids(1 and 2 yrs old) and have been together for 4 years. i went to visit family out of town and ever sence i just dont feel that spark. … Continue reading →...
2. does it really help ? was your marriage saved by…..? Marital counseling ? I’m at such a loss. I feel so unsure of my marriage and How I truely feel about my husband. We are constantly at odds. I’m feeling like marital counseling helps couples communicate. …But, We dont have … Continue reading →...
3. marriage problem whats your advice? me and my husband has been married for 7 years. i got married at 16 and him 18 now we have three girls 6, 3 and 9 months old. throughtout these years he’s broken my heart once, and hes addicted … Continue reading →...
4. What is the problem in our marriage? Well me and my husband argue eveyday almost about everything, we can never have more than a week without arguing, I am really getting sick of this, and my husband is a wonderful husband to my children and he takes … Continue reading →...
5. i cant stop thinking what is next after divorce ? files didnt finish in courts ,we never attend them and now because this man i m there with him .i m drained by so much talking and i cant talk anymore i want to see no one i feel good … Continue reading →...
6. i cant stop thinking what is next after divorce ? files didnt finish in courts ,we never attend them and now because this man i m there with him .i m drained by so much talking and i cant talk anymore i want to see no one i feel good … Continue reading →...
7. Help ! Sex ! Causing Problems in Marriage !!! I am being left unsatified !!!? Me and my husband have been togather for 6 years . 6 wonderful years !! We have 2 boys. Ages 3 and 6 months . Everything is Perfect except for our sex life. It is horrible !!! I feel like … Continue reading →...
8. HELP PLEASE!!!! I don’t know what to do any more to either save my marriage or to move on? I am very ashaimed to say this but I did have an affair on my wife that lasted a little over a year. Let me say that I am very very very sorry for what I have done and there … Continue reading →...
9. Can my marriage be saved? Hello, I have been married now for 4 years and have a beautiful 3 yr old daughter. I love my husband, he is the love of my life and he says he loves me too; but we fight every single … Continue reading →...
10. My marriage is in serious problems, I want to finish it in the best way, Please help!!? I’ve been married for 3 years + 3 years as boyfriends. 1 year we were separated because she went to study outside our country. Nowadays, we are studying in the same country. However, our relationship have been getting in trouble … Continue reading →...
11. Can this marriage be saved????give your expertise please…? First of all here are few points on what happen and why we think that we can work… -my mother hates my husbant…she made mine and his life a living hell -we live in separate town but she visit us … Continue reading →...
12. Advice On Saving My 1st Kiss For Marriage? well, I am 15 years old, I am Christian, and I have recently decided that i want to save my first kiss for marriage. I would just like advice on how to resist temptation and how to deal with others … Continue reading →...
13. I dont like marriage.Is it mental problem? I am 23 years old male.I hate marriege.I dont like it.I hate lovers.I feel its worst.I hate lovers.I dont like to see couples.Its unconfatable to me.But I like sex. Is it mental problem?...
14. Can our marriage be saved? I am 6 mo. pregnant and ordered to be on bed rest. Which I haven’t really been doing. My husband is having a hard time with me not working. Since I have come home from the hospital he has voiced … Continue reading →...
15. Is my marriage over?How do I fix it? Recently I cheated on my wife while living in a different city for work. I moved home and eventually told her. It crushed her as one would expect. She went through all the emotions you could imagine, anger sadness confusion … Continue reading →...
16. Help my marriage is failing fast???is it worth saving??? Hi i have been married 2 1/2 years now and am 22 years old i do P.R work and am always really busy my husband 23 is in med. school student . We never see each other at all anymore. … Continue reading →...
17. How can i stop feeling so depressed…i think it stems from my divorce last year.? Im only 24, im successful, educated, attractive…moving to one of the greatest cities in the world…yet i feel so depressed…i dont even feel like taking care of myself and i attract the sorriest men ever…how can i remedy this? How … Continue reading →...
18. Marriage problem? Well, I have been happily married to my wife of 9 years now and We are only 3 weeks from our 10th anniversary, But I made the mistake of having sex with her best friend at a party, And she … Continue reading →...
19. Marriage problems, HELP!!!!? My husb and I have been married for going on 3 !/2 years now , Ive left him twice bcuz he cant get a job and keep it and he has anger issues-we do have a child together-we are now … Continue reading →...
20. severe marriage problems please help ?? I have always had severe marriage problems, me and my man do not live together due to this, he dont even have keys. I have felt used, like an object and a doormat in this marriage. I am emotionally very … Continue reading →...
21. Big, BIG marriage problem.? So, my boyfriends older brother and his girlfriend have been dating for almost four years. And they’re already talking about marriage. But the thing is, and this might be really awful of me, but I’ve always wanted to be married … Continue reading →...
22. Help save my marriage. Why am I such a jerk to my wife? I have been married for 2 years now and I feel as though my marriage is spiraling out of control. We have a 5 month old son, so things can be quite stressful, but for some reason I somehow always … Continue reading →...
23. Save our Communication..Marriage? ok, me and my hubby have been 2gether for 10 years now and have two kids. 5&7. My problem is, we just dont talk emotionally or have the same outstanding verbal relationship like b4. This started about 1 year ago. … Continue reading →...
24. Cant stop crying over my parents divorce? it was a few years ago and it broke my heart. i dont feel loved by anyone anymore and i just wish i could go back to the way things used to be. nobody pays any attention o me anymore … Continue reading →...
25. what can i do to try to fix my marriage seperated? ok so me and my husband separated in nov thanksgiving to be exact due to the fact he was cheating on me with my best friend they are now together and she is pregnant and due in sep i have … Continue reading →...
26. How do I save my marriage? I’ve been married for 13 years, have two great kids and a marriage that is on the rocks. My wife, once again, is not happy with me. She keeps telling me how unhappy she is with the way I treat … Continue reading →...
27. marriage problems I need advice? July will be seven years of marriage, we have a five year old daughter, we moved back to my hometown just recently, and now he wants out of this marriage, because he feels that he is threatened to stay in … Continue reading →...
28. how can i fix my marriage? I feel like im either falling out of love or just already out of love with my husband. We’ve been through quite a bit together. Weve been together on and off for about 6 yrs and married coming up on … Continue reading →...
29. i am having some marriage problems right now and i dont know if i should work it out what should i do? we have been married for 4 years and lately all we do is argue atleast twice a week about stupid stuff but i feel like we are not understanding eachother, He is away right now for a while and i … Continue reading →...
30. Big Communication Problems In My Marriage. What to do? I have been married for almost 5 years (together with my hubby for a 9 years). We have two children , 4 and 9 months. Hes a great guy and I love him dearly. But there are some serious communication … Continue reading →...
31. Marriage Problem? Ok so Iv’e been with my now husband for four years, we have a beautifull daughter of 10 months. Two days ago he told me that the relationship wasen’t working out. Hes hardly ever home, and I asked him if … Continue reading →...
32. I need help everyday i have problems with my wife- Marriage problems? I have been married to my wife for 3 years my wife and i fight every 3 to 4 days, i tried all ways but nothing works, if we fight either way im wrong or no, it takes days to … Continue reading →...
33. should i save myself till marriage? i dont know what to do my boyfrined keeps pressuring telling me to give it up to him but i feel like im not ready!! i really like him but its too soon 4 me im 17 and ive been … Continue reading →...
34. Having problems in my marriage! Is it him? Or is it me? I try to be understanding. The economy is really bad right now which is hurting his work. So he aint bringing money home like he used to. And I know that it is hard on him to deal with that. … Continue reading →...
35. dealing with myself to save my marriage.? my husband and i have been together for 2 years and married for almost 5 month. we have a 6 month old daughter also.the day after we got married he had to leave to start his new job, a month … Continue reading →...
36. I cant stop cheating on my husband i want a divorce (children invloved)? This is really hard for me, so please dont be harsh. I have been married for just over a year now. We have a daughter together and i have a 6 y/o girl as well, she calls him daddy. i … Continue reading →...
37. Marriage problem please help? I have been with my wife for 1 year. I love her to death but there is one problem in our relationship. since we met, I have had a problem gettting my penis hard when we have sex. It does … Continue reading →...
38. trying to save my marriage.. help? my husband and i have had a lot of ups a downs but lately more downs.. weve been married for a little over a years and the whole time hes been in mexico with his family.. ive went down there … Continue reading →...
39. Do I stop waiting and divorce my husband even though I love him with all my heart? We’ve been married for 8 years but have only lived together for about 3 and a half of these. He moved out because of our arguments and I told him to go, but we have always ‘been together’ and did … Continue reading →...
40. Is it wrong to stop loving .or to be unable to love??after seperating or divorce? because seriously ! i dont feel anything towards anyone ,all i feel when i see any man is disrespect and hate specially when they try to look strong no offense its my way of feeling...

I believe it can no matter what. I had an abusive past vowed never to do it but became abusive with my family. I am seeking God on this matter and he is revealing to me I was never loved nor taught to love and was very fearful and this all just manifested more as I grew up. I am trying to forgive myself for this and its hard. I want counseling for myself but have no money. I want to be free from this and save my marriage for my wife and kids sake and my sanity. HELP PLEASE !

Related posts:

1. has anyone’s marrige ever been actually saved by marriage counseling or just prolonged? i am in a physical/verbally abusive marriage for 2 of the past 3 years off and on. we only have complications like such every other month or so. but we still always argue. i think it is more of my … Continue reading →...
2. How does my husband save our marriage of 15 yrs.? It has been very hard with cheating, a mystery child, abusive while pregnant, verbally abusive and just selfish, etc. How do I forgive and move on OR should I just plain move on because enough is enough? We have 2 … Continue reading →...
3. Can our marriage be saved? I am 6 mo. pregnant and ordered to be on bed rest. Which I haven’t really been doing. My husband is having a hard time with me not working. Since I have come home from the hospital he has voiced … Continue reading →...
4. Can my Marriage be saved? I was abusive to my wife and kids. She moved out with them. She says she loves me but is tired of walking in fear. I feel like dirt when I do it and all and I it hurts real … Continue reading →...
5. Is it wrong for wanting to end marriage and not try to fix it?Details? Husband neglected me, didn’t help out with kids and sometimes said hurtful things-mental abuse. In the past year he has hurt me by degrading me physically not rape but sexual grabs.He thinks we should go to counseling and try to … Continue reading →...
6. What should I do with this HUGE marriage problem? I grew up in an insecure abusive environment where for the longest time I didn’t know who really loved me. Years down the road, I’m married. Before I got married, the only way I could feel some sort of love … Continue reading →...
7. why is it that my soon to be x has no problem dating after 30 yrs of marriage, and i can’t even think about it he also is a abusive alcoholic. i’m so heart broken. He brings her around town with no regard about running into me. He takes no responsibility for the pending divorce. i left him after abusive behavior....
8. If you’re going through a divorce, when is the right time to stop wearing your wedding band? Jen, i hear you. The day he walked out the door, i took off the ring/diamond, and almost gave it back, but decided i earned it. lol Babe Hart-true.if it has no more meaning; but a broken marriage is rough, … Continue reading →...
9. HOw many people would try saving their marriage even after your spouse has filed for divorce? We still see each other, we have three children, and he has admitted that he is wrong and hopefully will come to his senses. We may be going to court ordered counseling and have been married 7 years this month. … Continue reading →...
10. Trying to save my marriage? Okay I just don’t know what to do. I am trying to save my marriage and it has been so hard. Things have just been very hard. Arguments that lead into to ugly battles and know I am seeing someone … Continue reading →...
11. Marriage problems? Me and my wife have been married for four years. We fight every single day. We haven’t had sex for over 3 years. We don’t sleep together. I work overnight she works days.She has told me numerous times that she … Continue reading →...
12. can i stop my divorce? my wife filed for divorce is there any way to stop or delay it to try to get her back. i did nothing wrong and i love her. if we can stop it can we get the money back she … Continue reading →...
13. can I save my marriage even though she moved far? My wife and I seperated and she moved out of state with our 2 little boys.. She said she needs atleast a year before she can think about moving back in.. she said she has to work on forgiving me.. … Continue reading →...
14. Save the Marriage? How hard should somebody try to save their marriage when kids are involved? My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years and have twin 4 year old boys. We have not been happy for quite some time, … Continue reading →...
15. does it really help ? was your marriage saved by…..? Marital counseling ? I’m at such a loss. I feel so unsure of my marriage and How I truely feel about my husband. We are constantly at odds. I’m feeling like marital counseling helps couples communicate. …But, We dont have … Continue reading →...
16. Can my marriage be fixed? I left my husband, filed for divorce (but haven’t served him) BECAUSE: 1.. Found out he was using meth. 2. Found out he was dealing meth. 3. No job for 14 years. 4. Emotional abuse 5. Controlling 6. Non-supportive Do … Continue reading →...
17. I have a problem with my marriage!!!? I really need advice because my husband and I are having some marriage issues that counseling can’t solve. We are newlyweds and have a beautiful 2-month baby girl and I really love him, but he smokes marijuana and it’s been … Continue reading →...
18. When does the pain of divorce ease up, and stop? My wife of 5 years, who I have a two year old son with, recentley had an affair, and decided she was "no longer in love" with me. She didn’t want counseling or anything. I was in love with my … Continue reading →...
19. Can our marriage be saved? We both want it to be.? I am very much in love with my wife. She is an amazing women. We both come from broken homes which has not helped us in knowing what makes a good "marriage". I do want this to work though. We … Continue reading →...
20. What can I do to save my marriage? I have been with my husband on and off for about 5 years. We got married last October and I love him very much. I have this bad habit where I will smack his arm playing around or something and … Continue reading →...
21. Can a marriage so damaged from cheating be saved? I have been with by husband 13 years, married 8 and we have a young child. He is an attractive, charming man and has always had some kind of contact with other women of sorts(affair, nasty texts, gifts, hotel visits, … Continue reading →...
22. How do you fix your marriage when divorce isn’t an option? Hi, I’m 23 and have been married for no more than 3 months and I’m already having problems with my marriage. I don’t want to talk to my family or friends or people in my church because I’m afraid the … Continue reading →...
23. HOW CAN I SAVE MY MARRIAGE? Last year I lost my job and i found another job a month later. Right now i am currently going to school during the day and working 2nd shift at night. The problem is my wife said since I lost … Continue reading →...
24. How can I save my marriage? I am having a real hard time dealing with separation from my husband. We always had a rocky relationship, married at 19, (24now) and have 2 small children. He has a lot of legal problems going on at this time … Continue reading →...
25. Can a marriage be saved after multiple affairs? i have been with my husband for almost 13 yrs and he’s had multiple affairs in the past and I can’t get over them and move on….he wants to do counseling and I’m afriad it will make things worse, over … Continue reading →...
26. Mature answers please…while filling out our marriage license application, I ran into a "small" problem… on "number of this marriage" I don’t know what to put. You see, when I was (17) I was married for (3) months before the marriage was annulled. My father was very abusive so my mother signed for me to … Continue reading →...
27. What should i do to save my marriage? I have been married for 16 1/2 yrs. I love my wife dearly. The problem is i have a anger problem and i was a abusive to her both physically and verbally, cheated on her and broke things around the … Continue reading →...
28. If a marriage has had stress and trust issues and lots of problems? and the two spouses have finally reached enough and decided "We definitely need help and counseling" and got the help and are both trying really hard to make it work, do you think that renewing their vows and making a … Continue reading →...
29. Big problem in marriage…… My husband and I have only been married for 1 year and 5 months, and I think it’s already over. He is an alcoholic and he chooses drinking over family. Do I leave him? He says he didn’t realize what … Continue reading →...
30. How do you know when your marriage is still worth saving? We have been married 5 years and together 10. For the five years we have been married all we do is fight. I want to spend time with him, he wants to stare at the t.v. I’ve tried being tricky … Continue reading →...
31. What’s the best way to tell a woman who won’t stop drinking(she said so), that you want a divorce.? We have come to a definite fork in the road and she has said that she will NOT let me go peacefully and she has made it clear that she won’t ever stop drinking. Yes drinking is a problem. And … Continue reading →...
32. For those that believe in saving a marriage at any cost..? I have posted other questions about my marriage and most people post back about living by your vows..so here is the question..why?why when my husband is rude,selfish, uncaring, unloving, unrespectful and flat out mean should I stay? Is he physically … Continue reading →...
33. I want to hear from people who’s marriages have been saved by marriage counseling even when one spouse was totally against it and said it wasn’t going to work no matter what? what made them change their mind? We have a court order to go so he has to go regardless, my question is will it be effective?...
34. How do I save my marriage? For the past year. Things have been really rough. I lost my job and got another a month later for less money. In November i have been going to school and working 2nd shift keeping me out of the house … Continue reading →...
35. How do I save my marriage? For the past year. Things have been really rough. I lost my job and got another a month later for less money. In November i have been going to school and working 2nd shift keeping me out of the house … Continue reading →...
36. How do I save my marriage? For the past year. Things have been really rough. I lost my job and got another a month later for less money. In November i have been going to school and working 2nd shift keeping me out of the house … Continue reading →...
37. It’s been five months since we separated. I filed for divorce in the fall. When am I going to stop being sad? I miss my ex. I do. Our relationship had deteriorated for many reasons, but mostly because of his lying and my being so demanding of him and myself. It’s like I pushed my overachieving onto him and I see that … Continue reading →...
38. How do I save my marriage? For the past year. Things have been really rough. I lost my job and got another a month later for less money. In November i have been going to school and working 2nd shift keeping me out of the house … Continue reading →...
39. How do I save my marriage? For the past year. Things have been really rough. I lost my job and got another a month later for less money. In November i have been going to school and working 2nd shift keeping me out of the house … Continue reading →...
40. How can I fix my temper and marriage? My entire family has a bad temper, including me. All of my siblings fight with their spouses often, but my wife is ready to leave over it. We have tried talking things out in the past, but I never have … Continue reading →...

My wife and I have been married for 9 years and have 2 beautiful boys. Every time she goes home to visit family for more than 2 weeks she questions our marriage. We got married when I was 23 and she was 20 and she is constantly bothered by the fact that she never got to really explore life on her own before marrying. She also says that she will always love me but at times feels she is no,onger in love with me. We have made our share of mistakes but I thought our relationship was doing OK but just this week those feelings came back and she asked to get separated. I’m not sure if I should try and work it out, give her time or just cut my losses and file for divorce. I still love her deeply and am having trouble wanting to let go. Please advise.

Related posts:

1. When I filed for divorce my husband told Judge our marriage could not be saved why? My husband had a 3 year affair and said he never loved the OW. He professes his love for me, but when I did this divorce myself, the judge asked both of us if we thought that this marriage could … Continue reading →...
2. problems in marriage !!need help? i have been married for 4 years everything was great at the beggining "as usual " but right before we got married he went to work out of town he would come and see me every two weeks , one … Continue reading →...
3. MARRIAGE PROBLEMS PLEASE HELP ME ? oK ME AND MY HUSBAND HAVE BEED APART NOW FOR ONE WEEK. hE CALLS ME DAILY AND ALL I DO IS CRY . HE CAME OVER TODAY AND WE HAD GREAT SEX AND HE SHOWERED. BECAUSE HE IS STAYING IN … Continue reading →...
4. I want to save my marriage! Please help!? Me and my husband used to fight allot! The first time I left him was because he got really nasty when we used to fight. I realized how much I loved him and asked him for another chance… eventually after … Continue reading →...
5. Can My Marriage Be Saved? I have been married to my husband for 6 years now. We have been together for 10 and we have 3 children. He has pretty much been controlling most of the time, like going into a rage at me for … Continue reading →...
6. Marriage Problems Please Help Me.? I have been married with my wife for 6 years and in the last year we have had a lot of problems. Well she went to stay with her family to have some time apart to see if we could … Continue reading →...
7. What can I do to save my marriage? My husband told me this morning that he loves me but isn’t sure if he is still in love with me. I asked him if he wants to be in our marriage and he said he isn’t sure. He said … Continue reading →...
8. So, I have told me husband I want a divorce, but he keeps asking me to have _ex with him. Make it stop!? I have to let him live int he basement for a month due to his custody agreement with his ex. It is my house. He has told me he thinks I am still in love with him and asked if … Continue reading →...
9. Ladies only. If a man could do one thing to save his marriage, what is it? Wife wants out and asked me to leave a few months ago. Our relationship was a nonabusive relationship. I paid off my debt. She says she loves me, but just isn’t in love with me. She states that I was … Continue reading →...
10. Parent’s Marriage Problem…? My parents have been on the verge of a divorce for months now. My mom has already seen a lawyer and has filled out divorce papers but she hasnt filed them. She is waiting for things to get bad again. … Continue reading →...
11. What steps does he need to take to successfully (fewest problems) end his marriage? My fiancé’s best friend just opened up to us about how unhappy he is in his marriage. He told us that he doesn’t love his wife anymore and that he is actually repulsed by her. He’s been sleeping on the … Continue reading →...
12. Can my marriage be saved? My wife and I separated just under 2 months. I had an affair 4 years ago we separated for a month then we got back together but I didn’t really change I cut all contacts with the women I had … Continue reading →...
13. Did I save my marriage or jeopardize it? I work in sports career that sometimes means a lot of time away from my family. My wife and I became disconnected and we haven’t had a real conversation in months and it’s really taking a toll on our marriage. … Continue reading →...
14. can my marriage be saved? I thought I all ready posted t his but I guess it didn’t go. It’s sorta long with a lot of back story but here we go… MY wife and I were dating for 5 years when we got married. … Continue reading →...
15. Is the no contact rule the best option to saving my marriage? My wife and I have been separated for about 2 months. I recently asked to have a No contact time and she agreed. she wants to only have contact via e-mail. Should I respond to the e-mails since she is … Continue reading →...
16. Who here saved yourselves for marriage? was it worth the wait or were you disappointed? was your sex life good after marriage? and how old were you when you got married? were both of you virgins at the time? would you wait again if you had … Continue reading →...
17. Help me!? marriage problems!? My boyfriend of 18 months just asked me to marry him for the second time the first time I felt like It was too soon and I wasn’t ready but this time I’m hesitating I know he won’t wait forever … Continue reading →...
18. My wife has had an affair with her coworker, How can I convince her to seek counseling to save our Marriage? I have been married for 12 years and have a 7 year old daughter. My wife came to me a couple weeks ago and asked for my permission to seek a relationship outside of our marriage. She has already had … Continue reading →...
19. im 13 and theyre getting a divorce….i need help soo badly i cant stop crying..!? okay im 13 and i slept over at my friends house last night and my mom picked me up and took my to the mall….then on the way back home we went a compleatly different way…we were driving for half … Continue reading →...
20. Should I do this as a part of my effort to save my marriage? Today I accidentally bumped into my STBX. We talked and she accidentally admitted a few big lies she lied to me. For instance she said she has no cellphone but it rang as we were talking. I still love her … Continue reading →...
21. Can my marriage still be saved even if he says he wants a divorce? My husband moved out after his father’s death. Now he says he wants a divorce. Before his father became ill our marriage was fine. During his illness I noticed the decline in the quality of our marriage. He now says … Continue reading →...
22. Might there be a chance for my marriage to be fixed? My husband and I are both 21, married almost 2 years.. 16 month old son. He left us May 31, and I was always a short tempered, agitated easily person (but he also had a bit of a temper). He … Continue reading →...
23. I want to save my marriage wife want space? I’m Indian and Married to Romanian (Girl). We used to work in same company but on different locations and fall in love, it was kind of distance relationship..but something unbelievable. Almost 6 months we talked like this way and then … Continue reading →...
24. how can I tell my boyfriend that I don’t want to have premarital sex and he should save his til marriage? I want to tell him that I don’t want to have sex with him, until I get married. Sure, we both love each other and I am a virgin and he claims that he is one too. But i don’t … Continue reading →...
25. how to save or move on in a marriage? I have been married for 40 years and now I am aaat the end of my rope. For the past 15 yrs my wife and I haven;t had any type of love making. She won’t let me see her nude, … Continue reading →...
26. Do you think this marriage can be saved? I am a firm believer that if you fall out of love you can fall back in love. But what if you never fell in love in the first place? What if you got married just because you had a … Continue reading →...
27. I have got such a marriage problem please help me? my Husband? I have been married to my husband for 13 years now we got married when we where 16 years old, now we are 29 years old we have no kids. We got married because we loved each an wanted to … Continue reading →...
28. Can my marriage be saved? After five years of marriage, I asked my wife for an open marriage, where I would be allowed to have sex with other women. She agreed. I ended up meeting someone who I thought would be just a quick lay, … Continue reading →...
29. Is it ok to stick around and support my EX fix his marriage after his wife found out about ME? I had a relationship with a married guy for more than two years. I never asked him to promise me any big things. In fact I didn’t expect him to. I know how much he loves his kids. I was … Continue reading →...
30. Can I save this marriage? I am married for a year and really love my wife. I have known her for six years and even through we felt that first year of our knowing each other, I dont think my wife really shared the same … Continue reading →...
31. Help my marriage is failing fast???is it worth saving??? Hi i have been married 2 1/2 years now and am 22 years old i do P.R work and am always really busy my husband 23 is in med. school student . We never see each other at all anymore. … Continue reading →...
32. How can I save my marriage? I am reading Mort Fortel Internet articles (http://www.marriagemax.com/tip.asp) and realize that marriages and relationship can be saved. My husband’s parents are divorced, his sisters and brothers are all divorced and I know many articles say that those children that comes … Continue reading →...
33. Please help me save my marriage? My sex drive is completely gone. It has been about two months since the last time we had sex. It’s not his fault; it’s mine. I love him and I am in love with him, but as far as I … Continue reading →...
34. I want to save my marriage wife want divorce….? I’m Indian and Married to Romanian (Girl). We used to work in same company but on different locations and fall in love, it was kind of distance relationship..but something unbelievable. Almost 6 months we talked like this way and then … Continue reading →...
35. husband cheats but not want to talk after to save marriage? We have a 2 yr old kid, 16 yrs of marriage. Husb wanted a baby too, he refused any intimate relations with me after conceiving (breasfed 1 yr). He helped me in the house, shopping, is polite, had a job, … Continue reading →...
36. How can I save my marriage? I have been married for nearly 7 years. I have two beautiful girls, 3 and 1. During my wife’s last pregnancy, she was having a bad pregnancy and had to be on bed rest for a few months. Our lives … Continue reading →...
37. pregnant and getting divorce, but i still love my husband and want to save my marriage, help!? Im 25 years old and pregnant with my first child. I have been with my husband since we were both in high school and married since 19. We have had a crazy rollercoaster relationship. We have both made mistakes as … Continue reading →...
38. im in love with a gal whose marriage is fixed.im giving the details.after reading this please give me the ans? I met a gal in the train on nov 16th 2006 and asked her mail id ,she gave me.she told me that her marriage was fixed. after some days on dec 4th i met that gal in online n asked … Continue reading →...
39. Problem: Love marriage? hi all, I am in love with a girl for the last three years. my parents were aware of this but whenever they asked me about our relationship I replied "She is just freind of mine". Now the time has … Continue reading →...
40. Is it me…how can i know is my marriage can be saved? My husband and I have been married for a year, we’ve been together for 6yrs. Its been rocky from the begining. He was separated when we met, the decided to try to work things out with his first wife. meanwhile … Continue reading →...

My wife and I have been married for 9 years and have a 5 year old son together. We are in our mid 30s. To say our marriage hasn’t been good the last few years is an understatement. We’ve fought routinely throughout our marriage from the sharing of household chores, cleanliness, anger, management, etc. You name it we’ve probably argued it. Although we try not to fight in front of our son, many times he has witnessed shouting matches between the two of us. Both of us agree that this is something we must stop doing. However, we have so much anger (or at least I do) that we can’t stop ourselves sometimes. In addition our lust or even basic desire for one another is gone. Being intimate with one another is something that both of us are having a hard time with. For gosh sakes we haven’t had sex in almost three years now.

So to start off let me provide an example of one of the major things we fight about. I do probably 90% of the household chores in our house; everything from doing laundry to cooking. I also do all the bill management since I earn more than her. Anyway, I’ve asked repeatedly for help in the house for years from her to no avail. Before our son was born I was able to keep up with cleaning the house. Now, with him here the house at times has gotten downright “trashed.” I mean to the point where we can’t even have un-announced guests come by. The reason being is I can’t keep up. Now we both work so I understand that there are times when she may be too tired to help. However even when she was a stay-home mom (and just a stay home wife) she still didn’t do any of the household chores. As I said we have argued this topic over and over throughout our marriage and nothing has ever changed. This is an example of one of the issues I have with my wife. There are many more that I won’t go into details like her lack of organization skills, her always running late, and the fact that me and her are complete opposites when it comes to attending social events—I enjoy meeting new people and talking and she can’t stand it.

Well after living my life like this for all this time I finally told her that my feelings for her with drifting away. Now I’ve told her this before and even used the divorce word but it was always in an argument so maybe she didn’t believe me. Anyway, my wife and are at a critical point in our marriage. I moved out of the house 2 months ago. We have drafted a legal separation and are contemplating getting a divorce. Even with the separation agreement I have agreed to continue counseling to see if we can salvage the marriage. We’ve already been going at this for nearly 2 months attending joint session. I’ve even signed up for individual sessions myself to deal with some of the anger issues and the separation itself.

I know she still loves me (well at least she said this) but the problem is right now I don’t love her. I’m not sure if my love for her can ever return. I guess after all these years of arguing the same things over and over I have created resentment towards her and probably her towards me as well. I try telling myself to remember the good times we shared and the things that lead me to falling in love with her but it is still unsuccessful. Hell I even broke out all my old love letters that I wrote to her when we first meet. Also I hate to say it but the intimacy issue is a big concern for me. Even if we are able to address our issues will we be able to fix the intimacy problem? I don’t want this that’s for sure. Should I give myself a timeframe to me falling in love with her again? The last thing I want to do is stay in the marriage longer hoping that my feelings will return and nothing ever comes back.

Related posts:

1. Saved Yourself For Marriage? Christians People Who Saved THemself? I am saving myself for marriage, and I wonder, Did God Reward You For being obediant!! How So, what is your marriage like…Did your wife really overdo herself, compared to what you thought your wife would be like…. Please go … Continue reading →...

My husband and I have been fighting for a few weeks now. We have a 1 yr son and another baby on the way due in 4 months. He wanted us to have the secound baby, but is now telling people that it was me not him and claims that I am emotional and difficult to deal with. We had a big fight and and he decided to stay at his partents house for a few days. One of those days was our son’s birthday. He didn’t bother to show. I would cook dinner and offer him some, but he refuses it. When he comes home he just watches TV and doesn’t talk to me at all. Last week he came home on a work week 10pm and 11 pm (drunk). I asked him where was he and he would not answer me. I asked if he wanted this marriage to work he would not answer. He said that once this baby is born then we will talk. I stayed with my partents for the weekend and return sunday. He came home last night at 1:48am drunk. What should I do? Is it over just like that?

Related posts:

1. Marriage Problem: Cheating, Adultery, Sex and a Christian? Jack married Stacy and Brian married to Janet. Brian a Christian and Jack is not. Jack and Brian went to a club in Orlando. Jack pours a glass of liquor and takes it with him. He did that so he … Continue reading →...
2. Can my marriage be saved? I have been married for 2 1/2 years but we have been together a total of 5 years, I am now going to have a baby and I just found out my husband has been talking with other women and … Continue reading →...
3. How do I fix my marriage? We have lost connection with each other.I feel like he don’t listen to me and he feels like i don’t listen to him.I also had an affair with onother man.I didn’t mean to i got drunk and i tried to … Continue reading →...
4. My baby seems to have emphasized the previously minor problems in our marriage, did this happen to you? For example, my husband has to lift a finger now (or I wish he would) rather than let me do everything. He doesn’t clean up anything, I have to beg him to take out the trash or do anything but … Continue reading →...
5. Marriage Problem: Cheating, Adultery, Sex and a Christian marriage? Jack married Stacy and Brian married to Janet. Brian a Christian and Jack is not. Jack and Brian went to a club in Orlando. Jack pours a glass of liquor and takes it with him. He did that so he … Continue reading →...
6. How Do I Save My Marriage? My wife and I have not had sex in at least 6 months. I do know for a fact she is not cheating. We have been trying for 5 years to have a baby and there has been complications. She … Continue reading →...
7. Our marriage is not as good ever since the birth of our daughter – how do I fix things? Ever since the birth of our daughter, our marriage is not as good. We are fighting all the time. We mostly argue about the details on how to raise our daughter. I am finding that I am very angry at … Continue reading →...
8. Is there any point in even trying to save my marriage? I have been married for almost 11 years now. We have two children and he is in the army. I love him with all my heart and he told me he loves me too. He just came home from korea … Continue reading →...
9. I have a problem. Has anyone had a baby and it was destroying their marriage? We have been married a few years and then decided to try for a baby and it happened right away. We were excited but did not realize all the hard work and time it would take away from "us" as a couple. We love each other so … Continue reading →...
10. Marriage problem….help!!? My husband and I have been together for 9 years. We each have a son from previous marriages (both in high school) and an 8 year old together. My husband drinks heavy SOMETIMES. It got really bad this spring and … Continue reading →...
11. husband cheats but not want to talk after to save marriage? We have a 2 yr old kid, 16 yrs of marriage. Husb wanted a baby too, he refused any intimate relations with me after conceiving (breasfed 1 yr). He helped me in the house, shopping, is polite, had a job, … Continue reading →...
12. How serious is she about divorce and what would you do to try and stop this? Ok so my wife has been married once before for 15 years. We got married and she brought up divorce the first time just because I didn’t brush my teeth (she had just gotten pregnant), we went to marriage counseling … Continue reading →...
13. How can I fix my marriage? I love my husband! Just want to say that first. We have been together a year and a half and our one year anniversary is in July… A couple months after we got married, there was an incident where he … Continue reading →...
14. i think my marriage is ending. how do i fix it? me and my husband have been married just over a year and i think things are going downhill faster than i can say. he deployed 5 months after we got married and i gave birth to his baby boy 2 … Continue reading →...
15. how can i fix my marriage? my wife and i have been married for almost a year and half….? Our communication sucks right now. I try to talk to her and she takes things the wrong way and we argue. She tries to talk to me and i take it the wrong way and we argue. My wife is … Continue reading →...
16. what do i do? i need help to save my marriage? I am a 28 year old mother of two young kids (2 and 3 years old). I married five years ago and have been with my husband since we were in high school. Four years ago we moved away from … Continue reading →...
17. I’m very depressed since my wife left me last month? I don’t want a divorce is there anyway to save marriage? My wife and I have been married 4 years and she quit her job a year ago because we wanted to start a family and she got pregnant fairly quick. She did all of the housework and laundry in our … Continue reading →...
18. can my ‘marriage’ be saved? I’m a young new mother to a 6 month old baby girl. I recently moved quite far away to be with my husband who i’ve been married to for a year (10 months of it he has been deployed in … Continue reading →...
19. Can or should my marriage be saved? My husband and have been married 9 years. Life has been great, except we have always argued more than we probably should (I have a quick temper). Last year we had a baby together. Since then, our relationship has become … Continue reading →...
20. Can I save my marriage? I do not know what to do, my husband and me fight every weekend when we go out, he gets drunk and I do not. When we come home all we do is loose sleep and fight all night about … Continue reading →...
21. Should I try to save my marriage when my husband wants a divorce? I have been with my husband for 8 years, married for 6 1/2 of those. We have a 6 1/2 year old son together and I am currently 5 months pregnant with our daughter. Our marriage was perfect up until … Continue reading →...
22. Am I doing enough to save marriage? Years of emotional abuse..2 years separated..back together now. AFTER we reconciled he admitted to cheating on me with my step-sister before and while we were separated. (she’s married) I noticed this question he had posted…and my heart sank. This doesn’t … Continue reading →...
23. On your opinion do you think a baby can save a marriage? My husband and I have been married for 6 months and we fight ocassionally so he says he wants a baby because he thinks that a baby will create a bond between us so strong that we can never create … Continue reading →...
24. i have been separated for 8 months now and i am pregnant by my boyfriend, can that stop us from divorcing? we have been separated since Dec. 2005 and both of us have new partners and both of the couples are expecting babies. Since i am pregnant by someone else, will that stop him from filing for a divorce until i … Continue reading →...
25. Does eny one think my marriage can be saved? i use to go with this really wild lady a few years back,and i never really got over her.well her and my wife are[were] best friends,and we visit her and her new love often.well last week we all got a … Continue reading →...
26. Should I tell my mother-in-law about our marriage problems? Long story….short version….About a year ago I caught my then boyfriend talking to other women on the internet, confronted him, talked about it, forgave him…..several months later I caught him again, only this time worse, it was to women on … Continue reading →...
27. So many problems with their marriage of 30 years!! Advice please.? My parents never really loved each other I believe. My mom married him because she didn’t think she would ever get asked again, she was 19, and my dad married her when he was seeing two other girls and they … Continue reading →...
28. Will God forgive me if I have an abortion to save my marriage? I cheated for the first time in my 5 yr marriage and I have asked for forgiveness for that, I feel horrible. But I’m secretly pregnant and want an abortion because I’m almost certain it’s not his. I know our … Continue reading →...
29. How do I fix my marriage? For the past 2yrs now my husband & I have grown apart. I’ve been looking/receiving attention fr other men and have found it. I’ve never cheated on my hubby, although I have came close. I’ve been telling my husband what … Continue reading →...
30. How do I save my marriage? My husband and I have been married for about a year and a half. We have a 7 month old son who we both adore. My problem is that my marriage is falling apart around me. Since my son was … Continue reading →...
31. Please help my marriage is failing??How can i fix this? I am 22 yrs old i just graduated from college and have been married for only 4 months not so happily(him and my son dont get along.I have a son who is four years old from a prior relationship this … Continue reading →...
32. Help save my marriage. Why am I such a jerk to my wife? I have been married for 2 years now and I feel as though my marriage is spiraling out of control. We have a 5 month old son, so things can be quite stressful, but for some reason I somehow always … Continue reading →...
33. Problem with marriage so my hubby bought a dog? he thought that it would help "fix" things but I don’t want it and he won’t take care of it or take it back to the breeder (who said if we wanted we could give her back and get out … Continue reading →...
34. im 13 and theyre getting a divorce….i need help soo badly i cant stop crying..!? okay im 13 and i slept over at my friends house last night and my mom picked me up and took my to the mall….then on the way back home we went a compleatly different way…we were driving for half … Continue reading →...
35. can my marriage be saved? I thought I all ready posted t his but I guess it didn’t go. It’s sorta long with a lot of back story but here we go… MY wife and I were dating for 5 years when we got married. … Continue reading →...
36. How to fix a New 7 month marriage? We both are 22 and just got married 7 months ago.Wevev known each other since we were 13.I was pregnant and lost the baby he blamed me for it the next day he told me he wanted space and a … Continue reading →...
37. how do i fix my marriage? with 2 babies? we just celebrated 3 year anniversary baby #2 was born in january. my husband has been pulling away from the family, I stay home and take care of the kids. he works a crazy schedule. a week on 1st shift … Continue reading →...
38. Should I have an affair to save my marriage? Before our daughter was born we had sex all the time! We slept together and were very close. Now, she sometimes comes into my room and we have sex but then soon returns to the other bedroom to be with … Continue reading →...
39. Can I fix my marriage? Me and my wife have been married for 4 years now we got married kind of young we were both 22, but last week I had been drinking and I came home and her sister baby sits for us while … Continue reading →...
40. Is there anyway to save my marriage; I think I’m gonna ask for a divorce? My husband never looks at me like he loves me and never acts like he appreciates me. Everytime he looks at me he turns up his nose at me like I’m a cockroach. We haven’t had sex for one year … Continue reading →...

I’m a young new mother to a 6 month old baby girl. I recently moved quite far away to be with my husband who i’ve been married to for a year (10 months of it he has been deployed in iraq). we have only known eachother for about a year and a half, but decided to marry since we got pregnant. he is coming home from war soon, and i have had some SERIOUS mother in law issues. she is extremely controling and handles all of my husbands finances and he basically consumes her entire life. i have not brought our baby over to see her in about 4 months now, but she has also made no attempt to ask to see our child. my husband and i have barely got to bond as a couple, and he hasnt even seen his baby. i feel like our marriage is completely shot and has no chance because i get so frustrated over his mother. she has threatend to take legal action to see her grandson on the week that i was moving extremely far away from my family to start a life with my husband. she has told me that i will no longer be in control. she is always acting like it is her and my husband against me, and that she will get her revenge. my husband hasnt stuck up for me the way i ask him to, givin he is overseas, i feel completely alone, and givin that i feel like i have no idea who i married anymore, i almost want to file for divorce. i hate my mother in law and i feel like i married her, not my husband. what can i do to seperate her from my husband, even though im angry at him for not emotionally supporting me and him letting her constantly disrespecting me while i am alone trying to raise our son?

Related posts:

1. How to cope with living with Mother in law to save my marriage? My mother in law lives with us and she doesnt talk to me and just ignore me in my own house. I do respect her because his my husband’s mother but I feel really disrespected in my own house. I … Continue reading →...
2. My inlaws are having marriage problems. What should I do? Ok there are problems in the marriage of my inlaws when me and my husband go to see his parents the atmosphere is sometimes not very nice. Every time I see my inlaws all they ever do is talk about … Continue reading →...
3. Can this marriage be saved????give your expertise please…? First of all here are few points on what happen and why we think that we can work… -my mother hates my husbant…she made mine and his life a living hell -we live in separate town but she visit us … Continue reading →...
4. Can our marriage be saved? We both want it to be.? I am very much in love with my wife. She is an amazing women. We both come from broken homes which has not helped us in knowing what makes a good "marriage". I do want this to work though. We … Continue reading →...
5. How do you fix that feeling of feeling empty in a marriage? My husband and I have been married for more then three years. After we got married we decided to moved out of state near his mother. His mother then had a nervous breakdown and succumb to depression and moved in … Continue reading →...
6. Can a marriage be saved if a truckdriver is gone months at a time? My husband is gone on a monthly basis or sometimes longer and i am a housewife, mother of 3, and i do feel lonely. I go do errands by my self and everything else. We only communicate by phone. Have … Continue reading →...
7. I desperately need Help with marriage and family problems. My husband and mother hate each other? Today my husband and I had a fight about my hours at work and he does not want my mother visiting when I am not home. I suggested that he ignore her, she does not argue with him everyday. My … Continue reading →...
8. Is my marriage worth saving? I know my husband loves me and m daughter very much. He works his butt of to provide for us.But we fight all the time over important thing.Which I know that is part of a marriage.But we also fight over … Continue reading →...
9. Is it okay to ask a spouse to stop talking with their parents, and to threaten divorce if they do? I have been placed in this situation by my wife! My mother and wife do not get along, w/ both of them blaming the other for what has transpired. My wife told me that she couldn’t forgive me or my … Continue reading →...
10. Is there still a chance try to save my marriage or not? My husband and I have been married for 8 years we have 2 children 7,5 he has worked away from home for 4 years on and off. We would see eachother on the weekends and then it became everyother weekend. … Continue reading →...
11. Im afraid that i will stop loving my kids. can a divorce make you stop loving your kids ? It seems to be a family tridition that the women starts off very hands on and then suddenly life changes and they have no interest in their kids anymore. My mother seemed like a ok mother until she divorced my … Continue reading →...
12. Saving my marriage? My BPD husband and 13 year old son (not his), dont get on, what do I do? I have 2 children from previous relationships both boys one aged 13, one aged 5, neither belong to my husband of 15 months. The youngest loves him and the eldest hates him, the youngest sees his dad regularly the eldest … Continue reading →...
13. Should I allow my husband to bring in a problem child from a previous marriage.? I have been married six months to a wonderful man. He was previously married and has two children from that marriage and I have none. Lately his 12 year old son has become a handful to his mother with typical … Continue reading →...
14. Guilt, Divorce, and lies..how do i stop it? Im 14 and at the age of 12 i told my mother that i was being sexually abused by my step dad . It had been going on since the age of 7 and now my mom is wanting a … Continue reading →...
15. Can my marriage still be saved even if he says he wants a divorce? My husband moved out after his father’s death. Now he says he wants a divorce. Before his father became ill our marriage was fine. During his illness I noticed the decline in the quality of our marriage. He now says … Continue reading →...
16. how do i save my marriage from my sadistic voodoo worshiping stepmother? ? have been married for almost 10 years a wonderful life until recently, my step mother is using religion to brainwash my wife against me! let me elaborate … i have 3 children and have been very happy over the last … Continue reading →...
17. my problem is my in laws they are the one who arranged our marriage my husband is their only son and he is? fully controlled by them in each and every decisions in life.on my sister’s marriage my husband was not able to attend his father and mother came and give some amount from my husband’s account but the present was named by … Continue reading →...
18. Why won’t my emotionally neglectful husband meet me half way to save our marriage if he loves me? He has asked me to make numerous changes for our marriage, home, children, as well as for my own good. I have only asked him to take a bigger interest in the emotional aspect of our marriage but he won’t … Continue reading →...
19. I need help with my depression to save my marriage. ? I recently was married and gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. But since I was about 6 months pregnant I have felt like I have no place on this earth. I feel like I did what I needed to … Continue reading →...
20. ex wife and step children problems ruining my marriage? my husband and I both have a 1 son a piece from a previous marriage and we have a newborn daughter together. He has visitation with his child and has to drive 150 miles there and back every time he … Continue reading →...
21. How do i save my marriage? Today is my 2nd marriage anniversary, and I feel like I have made the biggest mistake of my life. I feel very low today. Half the time we have been fighting over nothing. My wife does not like my mother … Continue reading →...
22. marriage problem…i am not satisfied with my life at all.plz help me:(? have been married for 2 years and have an yr old baby.i live with my in laws as this is very common in our culture.i am very unhappy because my in laws treat me like crap and my husband is … Continue reading →...
23. Can my marriage of 22 years be saved? I have been with my husband for 22 years, I was 17 when we met and went from a physically, emotionally and more abusive step father and bio mother to my husband and I fell head over heals in love … Continue reading →...
24. How to save my marriage while living with evil mother in law? *Sigh* I was cooking salmon when my mother in law spray those dollar air spray on the kitchen. I stop cooking for her because she finds every fault on my cooking, so my husband told her to cook for herself. … Continue reading →...
25. Advice needed to save my marriage? I am a married mother of a 14 month old. I have been with my husband for 6 years but married for only 2 of those years. Lately I have been feeling myself pulling away from my husband. The spark … Continue reading →...
26. please help me save my marriage? I have been married for 6 months now and now I feel like I didn’t know anything about my husband…. Ok so before I say anything I know that I am far from perfect and I’m not trying to put … Continue reading →...
27. How do you stop a child from trying to play his divorced parents/step parents against each other?!? My step son, who is 8 lives with his father and I. He visits his mother on Saturdays and Sundays for 2-5 hours each day, so she seems him approximately 6ish hours a week, spending no overnights. When he doesn’t … Continue reading →...
28. how do i save a marriage w my mother n law? i am ignoring my mother n law but i know its not right but she cant except me and she is being fake towards me and she confirmed that already ok my mother n law is not liking the fact … Continue reading →...
29. How do I get my divorced and remarried father to stop putting my mother down in front of me? When my parents got divorced it was very bitter. I live with my dad now and he and my stepmother put my mother down in front of me and talk about her in front of me. Its like they don’t … Continue reading →...
30. I want to save my marriage, but I think my husband doesn’t…? My husband has been estranged from his mother for several years due to she tried to destroy our family. Now she wants back into my husband’s live and to get to know my children exclusive of me… I don’t have … Continue reading →...
31. Having problems in my marriage! Is it him? Or is it me? I try to be understanding. The economy is really bad right now which is hurting his work. So he aint bringing money home like he used to. And I know that it is hard on him to deal with that. … Continue reading →...
32. how can i fix my marriage, when we live with his mother? my husband lost his job, and has been looking for work. my mother in law had back surgery so we moved in to help her. unable to keep our house, we used the money from that for living expenses. we … Continue reading →...
33. Do I pull the plug on the marriage or fix it? or is it worth fixing? Heres the scenario… I lived in a house with my handicapped mother before I met my now wife for approx 2 years. I meet my now wife of 2+ months, mover her in approx 1.5 years before we got married. … Continue reading →...
34. How do I save my marriage when my step son is more important? I will give you a little history: My husband and I met at work 10 years ago. We were both in committed relationships and became friends. He has 2 boys ages 22 and 20. I have a boy 20 and … Continue reading →...
35. What do I do, my wife does not trust me at all. How do I save my marriage? She tells me that I can even lie on the name of my dead mother, I love my mother most in this world and just the mention of this makes me so depressed. She gets angry very soon, I have … Continue reading →...
36. Family and Marriage problems? With the In law’s? Okay I’m a housewife and and my husband always works. He like my family but is always to busy to take a vacation to go see them. As far as his family, I don’t like anymore because they totally disrespect … Continue reading →...
37. Joke:Can someone help me repair my Marriage? jimi? I Jimi have six children and is very proud of my achievement. Jimi is so proud of himself that he starts calling his wife "Mother of Six" in spite of her objections. One night, we go to a party. I … Continue reading →...
38. How can I stop my parents from getting a divorce? DO NOT tell me I can’t do anything about it, because I know that there’s always something that I can do. So far, I’m not speaking to my Dad (which is enough to kill him) and I insult my ‘mother’ … Continue reading →...
39. My Dad will NEVER stop talking about His Divorce? Im 17 and my parents divorced 5 years ago. It was easy and not messy but had a settlement that gave my mother getting a 550k mortgage on a house worth 350k (200k wasted). My dad always talks about how … Continue reading →...
40. how to handle a cruel cunning mother in law and save my marriage life? i am suffering fro depression from past several years only becoz of my mother inlaw. im a victim of dowry harresment. but the problem is no one believe that my MIL is very cunning becoz in the society she is … Continue reading →...

My wife and I separated just under 2 months. I had an affair 4 years ago we separated for a month then we got back together but I didn’t really change I cut all contacts with the women I had an affair (we had one night) but I didn’t know how to deal with my wife hurts and pain I had no Idea what to do that made her feel that I don’t care much I started chatting on the internet with girls that made her more crazy I hidden everything from her had password on everything, I wasn’t willing to do counselling or anything. I continued chatting and neglecting my marriage and my family. But I never met any women and didn’t intend to meet women because I the grass wasn’t greener on the other side. 2 months ago I was overseas she found women’s pictures that when she decided enough is enough. Just 2 days before I returned home she told me she is leaving and that is it. She left the house with the kids to her parent’s house. I came back I realized what I did to her I was divested shocked depressed. she didn’t want to talk to me I just texted her tens of text messages she told me that is it you are not my husband any more you are just the father of my kids. Her parents read from her page and add more they just want her to devoice me no matter what. After two weeks I moved out o the house so she and the kids can move back and have their own space. I asked her if she willing to do counselling with me she didn’t want to after 3 days I asked her again she said why I need to do counselling I made up my decision. I asked her again after few days she agreed but with hesitation. She didn’t want to talk about the relationship every time we talk she cried and so we got nowhere. We started our counselling one month ago the first session was very hard. The counsellor asked her why are you her she said to have happy separation. She said once in that session show me your actions that gave me a bit hope. We had 3 counselling sessions so far and she is willing to keep doing counselling with me but she doesn’t want to give any impressions that she is willing to work it out or to give me hope. her parents are mad about it when they knew she start doing counselling she told them she is doing it for happy separation then they calmed down. Where are not talking about the relationship at all between counselling sessions. the counsellor asked her when can you talk about it she said I am not sure if I want to talk about it then she said if I see honesty then I might be able to talk to him. I am not pressuring her or poshing her giving her all the space and time she asked for offering her my support and everything she needs but she is trying not to ask me to do for her anything sometimes she pick up the kids from my place we have dinner together or coffee and talk normal talk. But she doesn’t want to come with me and the kids out for dinner or coffee she said I don’t want to give u foals hope. But the only good thing is that she is doing counselling and willing to keep doing it.
We have been married 14 years we have 3 kids 4, 9, and 11. She didn’t tell me I don’t love you at all. she doesn’t want flowers gifts letters emails or anything she thinks that all put her under pressure.
The only place we talk about the relationship is at the counselling.
I am willing to do what it takes to change and make my family happy I am doing psychology counselling I just want to show her my actions not my promises.

Related posts:

1. Can my marriage be saved? My wife left me 35 days ago then I moved out of the house and she moved back in with our 3 kids 4, 9 and 11. She said it is over it is finished I am doing counselling myself … Continue reading →...
2. Marriage problems? we have been together for 2.5 years. and we got married about 6 months ago. she never seems want to show me any a Attention. She works a lot and i now that puts stress on her. I try to … Continue reading →...
3. Couple married in Pakistan;fixed marriage;four children conceived; husband wants divorce,wife don’t. Chancds? Pakistan couple in fixed marriage; husband wants divorce;wife doesn’t;four kids; how can he get divorce? Best and fastest way to obtain this divorce?? They were seperated for awhile; we fell in love and he wants to marry me in USA. … Continue reading →...
4. Marriage having problems, please help? I am stuck in the grid of life, lots of debt, my husband is not a bad person, I just cannot talk to him. I try and try and he always turns everything into a discussion (argument). He is not … Continue reading →...
5. If couples went for counselling to repair their marriage, what is the max time period 2 should go? ie. when to give up when the counselling could not help for a compromise phorwanted: to continue counseling while in the terminating the marriage phase and sometimes beyond. Good suggestion...
6. how do you work out a marriage with a man who has no idea how to fix what he has done to our marriage ? if i wasnt so in tune with this man id never found out he swore i did nothing im not perfect but i didnt nothing im a round the world type of person if there is a connection and he … Continue reading →...
7. Can my marriage be saved? My husband slept with the ex he’d had an affair with during our engagement, 3 weeks after our wedding. When she turned him down after finding out about the wedding he found somebody else he slept with twice until I … Continue reading →...
8. Save my marriage, i’m really desperate!!!? I’ve been married to my wife for 2 years, but have been together for 13 years (since we were 15). Recently i was in prison for fraud due to financial difficulties that i kept from my wife and family. My … Continue reading →...
9. Should the marriage be saved? A Newly wed husband is overseas, waiting for US immigration. This newly wed husband gets into nude sexual webcam chatting with other females. He wants to meet them for fun. admits in chats he is sleeping around. SInce marriage, they … Continue reading →...
10. What other help can I seek for my marriage problem? I am having once a week marriage counselling sessions by myself and started on life couching sessions by myself. Are there any other services I can do to save my marriage and my family? Thank you very much My wife … Continue reading →...
11. what are ways i can try and save my marriage? my husband and are have been married for nearly 14`years, we have had a great relationship but for the last couple of years its been on a huge downhill.we fight on a daily basis, there is no more lust, he … Continue reading →...
12. Can my marriage be saved? My wife an I have been married for 7 years. Currently we are separated. This past year she has (to my knowledge) been flirting with several other men. Sometimes around me, sometimes in private. I cannot prove infidelity, but my … Continue reading →...
13. Marriage worth saving? My husband and I have been married for 9 years. We have 1 child together and 2 children from a previous relationship of mine. Last year my husband was out of work. Financially we were doomed and I was angry. … Continue reading →...
14. CAN SOME ADVISE US TO HELP SAVE OUR MARRIAGE? We are a South West Asian couple, married for around 25 years with 2 grown-up sons and a daughter. One of the sons (the oldest one) is married and have his 3 year old son back in our country, waiting … Continue reading →...
15. please help. my marriage is nearly fixed. but i have a problem.? my parents fixed my marriage to a professor who is more than 14 yrs older to me. iam not able to talk with him. he tried to talk with me i am not able to talk to him whatever he … Continue reading →...
16. is my marriage still worth saving? okay.. we’ve been married for almost 6 yrs now.. we have 2 kids, a 4yr old girl and a 2 yr old boy.. im 25.. he’s 27.. we live with my parents for the meantime since i went back to … Continue reading →...
17. Have anyone had an experience where marriage counselling actually saved the marriage? I never went through marriage counseling, my husband and I just went twice in our 9 yrs together, and we’ve had problems for about 9 yrs. I know, we should never have gotten married, we’re suffering for that mistake now. … Continue reading →...
18. should I save my marriage or give up after only a year? my husband and I have been married only a year… yes everyone says that the 1st year is the hardest but I think ours goes further than that… He has alot of past issues that he was going to counseling … Continue reading →...
19. Need Help to save my marriage.? I m very headstrong person with a sharp tongue. Its foolish of me though, but i do not see the reason why not to remind my husband of his failures. I m not only too impatient but also do not … Continue reading →...
20. What should I do? I want to save my marriage…? My husband has a female friend he calls his bff. They text everyday. He wont tell me what they talk about and deletes his messages everyday before he gets home. He gets mad and defensive when I ask what they … Continue reading →...
21. Do I stop waiting and divorce my husband even though I love him with all my heart? We’ve been married for 8 years but have only lived together for about 3 and a half of these. He moved out because of our arguments and I told him to go, but we have always ‘been together’ and did … Continue reading →...
22. i have to chose one marriage problem to talk about in my presentation? what should i talk about? i have a 5-minutes presentation tomorrow , and i have to talk about a certain problem in marriage , what you think i should talk about?...
23. My wife has had an affair with her coworker, How can I convince her to seek counseling to save our Marriage? I have been married for 12 years and have a 7 year old daughter. My wife came to me a couple weeks ago and asked for my permission to seek a relationship outside of our marriage. She has already had … Continue reading →...
24. how can I save my marriage? Ours is love marriage. We were living seperately. I was poor in knowing the needs of the one house. She was telling what she needs for house & I was bringing that. She was not keeping house in a good … Continue reading →...