Save Marriage http://www.beemreunion.com How To Save A Marriage Mon, 09 Apr 2012 03:21:37 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 I think my marriage is coming to an end, how can i fix it? http://www.beemreunion.com/i-think-my-marriage-is-coming-to-an-end-how-can-i-fix-it/ http://www.beemreunion.com/i-think-my-marriage-is-coming-to-an-end-how-can-i-fix-it/#comments Mon, 09 Apr 2012 03:21:37 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4638 Continue reading →]]> My husband and I have been married for a year but have been together since I was 15. I am now 21 and he is 23. I love this man more than I could explain to you. We have a 17 month old boy who is our world. My husband and I have always fought, nothing too bad but we both have anger problems and a very stubborn. Lately I have the feeling he is slowly not wanting to try. He gets mad with ne and will yell and start a fight for no reason. He always cry and says he is sorry after but it happens again. The last thing I want is to not be his wife. I just need some advice. Has anyone been in a similar situation? I will never give up but I’m scared he might.

]]> http://www.beemreunion.com/i-think-my-marriage-is-coming-to-an-end-how-can-i-fix-it/feed/ 11 how to fix my marriage? http://www.beemreunion.com/how-to-fix-my-marriage/ http://www.beemreunion.com/how-to-fix-my-marriage/#comments Mon, 09 Apr 2012 03:21:37 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4637 Continue reading →]]> I need some advice… i broke up with my 6 year boyfriend for a marine whom was deployed at the time of asking me to be his girlfriend… i said yes to him with 7 months left on his deployment .. while he was gone he would call whenever he could which wasn’t that often and skype a few times… whenever he called my world just lit up… a few months went by and i started hanging out with another guy just friends at first then he called me every night and we would talk a lot about everything and he knew my situation and a lot of secrets about me … things got a little inappropriate when he tried to kiss me one night and i didn’t let him .. one night while we were drunk we ended up having sex and that led to 2 more times the first two times we never "finished" but the third time it went all the way i guess you could say… well after my boyfriend got back all my attention was on him..i still talked to that guy every once in a blue moon to catch up but in secret like i would delete his texts and such but we never even saw each other because i decided to move down to the base where my boyfriend was living and we got a house and a month later got married… we have been married for 6 months now and my now husband just found out about everything .. it came out little by little and in the beginning i denied it but i eventually came clean with everything..he still thinks there is more and literally wants to know every single dirty detail of what happened .. i hate that he wants to know every single detail and honestly i cant remember how it all exactly had happened but the main question he wants to know is why? and every time he asks me i say ‘i don’t know’ and it makes him so mad that i don’t know why i did it … i never wanted to hurt him and i didn’t even know i was going to move in with him let alone marry him before i did those things.. im not saying i wasn’t wrong but im saying i need help figure out why i would do something like that and then keep it from him .. :/ he also made me move back home because the counselor told him that i should so im miles and miles away from him and i feel like it isn’t going to solve anything with me being states away .. i just need to know why..if any of you have been in a similar situation and know why you did it please help me figure it out

]]> http://www.beemreunion.com/how-to-fix-my-marriage/feed/ 3 How can I fix my marriage? http://www.beemreunion.com/how-can-i-fix-my-marriage/ http://www.beemreunion.com/how-can-i-fix-my-marriage/#comments Mon, 09 Apr 2012 03:21:37 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4636 Continue reading →]]> My marriage is in so much trouble. I’m 22 and so is my husband and he told me he doesn’t love me or want me anymore because I have been lazy and unpleasant to be around. Last year, he was the problem and I told him I no longer loved him and he did the love dare and it only took me two weeks to come around. What can I do to fix my marriage? I will do anything and everything I can. I’m desperate. Would prefer some answers from Christians since they really know how to pull off the impossible. I love my husband and I don’t want to give up. Please no negative "Just let him go" comments. I need helpful advice to make my marriage work so I don’t lose him.

]]> http://www.beemreunion.com/how-can-i-fix-my-marriage/feed/ 5 Can saving yourself for marriage make you loose your libido? http://www.beemreunion.com/can-saving-yourself-for-marriage-make-you-loose-your-libido/ http://www.beemreunion.com/can-saving-yourself-for-marriage-make-you-loose-your-libido/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4635 I haven’t had sex but I was extremely horny 2 years ago and I was saving myself for marriage. Now I’m not that horny anymore. What could it be? How can I get it back?!

]]> http://www.beemreunion.com/can-saving-yourself-for-marriage-make-you-loose-your-libido/feed/ 4 What do you do if, your saving yourself for marriage and no one is proposing? http://www.beemreunion.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-saving-yourself-for-marriage-and-no-one-is-proposing/ http://www.beemreunion.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-saving-yourself-for-marriage-and-no-one-is-proposing/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4634 http://www.beemreunion.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-saving-yourself-for-marriage-and-no-one-is-proposing/feed/ 13 Guys 21 and older: how would you respond if your gf wanted to save sex for marriage? http://www.beemreunion.com/guys-21-and-older-how-would-you-respond-if-your-gf-wanted-to-save-sex-for-marriage/ http://www.beemreunion.com/guys-21-and-older-how-would-you-respond-if-your-gf-wanted-to-save-sex-for-marriage/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4633 http://www.beemreunion.com/guys-21-and-older-how-would-you-respond-if-your-gf-wanted-to-save-sex-for-marriage/feed/ 1 If your husband has slapped you, called you a bitch and a devil, will you still save your marriage? http://www.beemreunion.com/if-your-husband-has-slapped-you-called-you-a-bitch-and-a-devil-will-you-still-save-your-marriage/ http://www.beemreunion.com/if-your-husband-has-slapped-you-called-you-a-bitch-and-a-devil-will-you-still-save-your-marriage/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4632 Continue reading →]]> Remember my question about my message to his brother-in-law, it was a very big deal to him and this is not only the reason why he is so angry.We have been fighting about his family for almost 5 years already,and i accept, we both have different opinions.He just can’t accept my opinion,and thus,this makes him hate me,and think that i despise his family,from then and now.He is a Taiwanese,and he is so traditional with regards to the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law thing.He wanted me to do things like he does.He wants me to go to their restaurant every night,and eat dinner past 10-11 pm just to be with his parents.He wants me to be like a puppet,just smile,and never say my opinion.he tells me their money problems,he just wanted me to give the money,and say nothing.I am an opinionated,and open kind of person.I prefer to talk and share things in the family.But their family is the complete opposite.They dont discuss this matters which makes me feel more uncomfortable.Tonight,we had an argument,he told me to go out from the house because he doesn’t want to see me,he said i am a devil.I feel bad and told him,if you go out from this house whatever happens to me,and then I am not finished yet,he slapped me.I was surprised and slapped him back, and asked him why did he do that?He said we are quits,because i slapped him back in a very arrogant way.He said, he had enough of me and i am a devil.I am a bitch and even said f**ck you on my face.I am hurt.I plan to talk to his family and make things clear in the first place, would that be a good idea?SInce, their family is a non-communicative type?They are like a bunch of hypocrites who pretend every is fine but keeps on giving pressure to my husband?Please help me.I have no one else to ask.This is the only way that I think would help me and guide me on what to do.

]]> http://www.beemreunion.com/if-your-husband-has-slapped-you-called-you-a-bitch-and-a-devil-will-you-still-save-your-marriage/feed/ 5 How do you know if your marriage is worth saving? http://www.beemreunion.com/how-do-you-know-if-your-marriage-is-worth-saving/ http://www.beemreunion.com/how-do-you-know-if-your-marriage-is-worth-saving/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4631 Continue reading →]]> My husband and I have been married almost 4 years. It has been a rough 4 years but we have weathered many storms together. There have been fights and arguments and other stuff. He has been unfaithful in the past but I forgave him and gave him a second chance because I love my husband and I value my marriage. We were rushed into getting married. When I was introduced to his family, he and I had it set in our minds to get married 18 months from the time he proposed which would have been around mid-2009. His family said that if we were serious we should get married right away and his mother threw together a wedding in like 3 weeks. It was not what I wanted and was not happy with how things went. My husband, however, comforted me and told me that it didn’t matter to him because I was now his wife. Now, my husband is 7 years my junior. In the beginning, I didn’t want to even talk to him because he was so much younger than me but we had a lot in common. We took this quiz about can your marriage be saved. It didn’t turn out like I thought. I just don’t know what to do. How do you know if you can save your marriage? How do you know if your marriage is even worth saving? I really need some help with this. I love my husband very much. He has a problem with expressing his emotions or whatever so I really don’t know what he feels or thinks. Somebody, please help me!!

]]> http://www.beemreunion.com/how-do-you-know-if-your-marriage-is-worth-saving/feed/ 6 What are your thoughts on saving your first kiss for marriage? http://www.beemreunion.com/what-are-your-thoughts-on-saving-your-first-kiss-for-marriage/ http://www.beemreunion.com/what-are-your-thoughts-on-saving-your-first-kiss-for-marriage/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4630 I’m 16 and I was thinking about saving my first kiss for marriage. What are your thoughts?

]]> http://www.beemreunion.com/what-are-your-thoughts-on-saving-your-first-kiss-for-marriage/feed/ 7 If your saving yourself for marriage, what do you plan on doing on your wedding night? http://www.beemreunion.com/if-your-saving-yourself-for-marriage-what-do-you-plan-on-doing-on-your-wedding-night/ http://www.beemreunion.com/if-your-saving-yourself-for-marriage-what-do-you-plan-on-doing-on-your-wedding-night/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4629 Continue reading →]]> I’m trying best I can to save my self before marriage. I’m hoping I have sex on my wedding night, nothing wrong with that right? I’ve waited all my life lol.
Candy… that’s not romantic lol
Wow… I meant magical flowers, why I said Candy I have no clue.
@ Natalie— Because. You want it to be special. That’s the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. The person your in love with. All other sex could never be as special… well if you really really loved that person then yeah, but if you love that much then you should just marry them
*************************** Nata(lee) my bad.

]]> http://www.beemreunion.com/if-your-saving-yourself-for-marriage-what-do-you-plan-on-doing-on-your-wedding-night/feed/ 9 Please tell me if my marriage is worth saving in YOUR oponion…I just told the The Hubs that I had relations? http://www.beemreunion.com/please-tell-me-if-my-marriage-is-worth-saving-in-your-oponion-i-just-told-the-the-hubs-that-i-had-relations/ http://www.beemreunion.com/please-tell-me-if-my-marriage-is-worth-saving-in-your-oponion-i-just-told-the-the-hubs-that-i-had-relations/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4628 Continue reading →]]> with Harry and he just shooed me away from the front of the tv and said " thanks good Sexi, I’m glad your so happy"

I am sure he didnt here a word I said. Should I divorse him no attention paying azz?
"are you stupid?" ummm..Yeh…now help me with my "marrage"
@Sonato..Look up bout’ 3 levels..yep, THAT Harry..and he is MY royalty….:)

]]> http://www.beemreunion.com/please-tell-me-if-my-marriage-is-worth-saving-in-your-oponion-i-just-told-the-the-hubs-that-i-had-relations/feed/ 7 If your wife fell outta love dealing with her husband being insecure can this marriage be saved? http://www.beemreunion.com/if-your-wife-fell-outta-love-dealing-with-her-husband-being-insecure-can-this-marriage-be-saved/ http://www.beemreunion.com/if-your-wife-fell-outta-love-dealing-with-her-husband-being-insecure-can-this-marriage-be-saved/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4627 She still tells me she loves but not in love and when I ask her she tells me she don’t know. Am I the fool for hanging on or should we walk away?

]]> http://www.beemreunion.com/if-your-wife-fell-outta-love-dealing-with-her-husband-being-insecure-can-this-marriage-be-saved/feed/ 3 Is it too traditional these days if you still hold firm to your belief of saving yourself till marriage? http://www.beemreunion.com/is-it-too-traditional-these-days-if-you-still-hold-firm-to-your-belief-of-saving-yourself-till-marriage/ http://www.beemreunion.com/is-it-too-traditional-these-days-if-you-still-hold-firm-to-your-belief-of-saving-yourself-till-marriage/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4626 Or does it still earn you more respect from guys in the long run even if they won’t necessarily verbalize it to you?

]]> http://www.beemreunion.com/is-it-too-traditional-these-days-if-you-still-hold-firm-to-your-belief-of-saving-yourself-till-marriage/feed/ 2 Would you stop trying to "save your marriage" if you found out the marriage only exists because of YOUR effort? http://www.beemreunion.com/would-you-stop-trying-to-save-your-marriage-if-you-found-out-the-marriage-only-exists-because-of-your-effort/ http://www.beemreunion.com/would-you-stop-trying-to-save-your-marriage-if-you-found-out-the-marriage-only-exists-because-of-your-effort/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4625 Continue reading →]]> I am codependent of my wife (see link below) and I am now realizing that this family/marriage only works because of me… If I didn’t try so hard it would just "fade away" and it would slip through my hands like sand at the beach… Her friends and her social status are more of a priority than me and the kids… What would you do in my place? Would you let things die? Or would you try to get your spouse to see their selfish ways and encourage them to make you more important???

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhYSP8MOWUYo.rrUVTBcLoXty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20111109092621AASsUG9

@belated_insight —- I have lived this "selfless" life for 2 years now. Not expecting anything from her and just doing it because I love and care about her and the kids… But she doesn’t see my selfless acts as me doing my duty as a husband; she has believes firmly in "gender roles" and no matter how well I support the family in my role as a homemaker or stay at home dad she is going to say I’m a terrible husband because a man’s role is to support the family financially and let the woman be the homemaker or stay at home mom… What really frustrates me about this, is that when she was the at home parent, and I was the working parent, she still treated me like I didn’t deserve respect…

I have been held in contempt my entire 10 years with her… :(

]]> http://www.beemreunion.com/would-you-stop-trying-to-save-your-marriage-if-you-found-out-the-marriage-only-exists-because-of-your-effort/feed/ 10 What do you think about saving your first kiss for marriage? http://www.beemreunion.com/what-do-you-think-about-saving-your-first-kiss-for-marriage/ http://www.beemreunion.com/what-do-you-think-about-saving-your-first-kiss-for-marriage/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4624 There is this junior at my high school who is going to do this. I REALLY dont understand this but she is very Christian. I do feel really bad for her boyfriend though.

]]> http://www.beemreunion.com/what-do-you-think-about-saving-your-first-kiss-for-marriage/feed/ 7 Once your wife is dead in bed, is there any chance of saving the marriage? http://www.beemreunion.com/once-your-wife-is-dead-in-bed-is-there-any-chance-of-saving-the-marriage/ http://www.beemreunion.com/once-your-wife-is-dead-in-bed-is-there-any-chance-of-saving-the-marriage/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4623 http://www.beemreunion.com/once-your-wife-is-dead-in-bed-is-there-any-chance-of-saving-the-marriage/feed/ 4 Ladies, If you caught your husband having and affair would you divorce or try to save the marriage? http://www.beemreunion.com/ladies-if-you-caught-your-husband-having-and-affair-would-you-divorce-or-try-to-save-the-marriage/ http://www.beemreunion.com/ladies-if-you-caught-your-husband-having-and-affair-would-you-divorce-or-try-to-save-the-marriage/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4622 Continue reading →]]> A friend has been married 12yrs. They have 2 children ages 5 and 9. The affair was ongoing for over a year before she caught him. He had an affair during his first marriage but this is the only affair assumably while married to her. Should she believe his apologies and promises it’s over and won’t happen again?

]]> http://www.beemreunion.com/ladies-if-you-caught-your-husband-having-and-affair-would-you-divorce-or-try-to-save-the-marriage/feed/ 14 What’s so wrong about saving your virginity till marriage ? http://www.beemreunion.com/whats-so-wrong-about-saving-your-virginity-till-marriage/ http://www.beemreunion.com/whats-so-wrong-about-saving-your-virginity-till-marriage/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4621 Continue reading →]]> I’m saving myself for marriage. Everytime I tell someone that, they either are all for it, or look at me like I’m crazy and they feel bad for me. Or they try to convince me I should just do it and get it over with. I mean yeah sometimes it’s difficult and I don’t want to wait, but I think sex should be something sacred and shared with someone you truly love. Plus I think it’s amazing when you can give something like that to your spouse. What’s your opinion? Is it a turnoff for guys?

]]> http://www.beemreunion.com/whats-so-wrong-about-saving-your-virginity-till-marriage/feed/ 6 If it came to saving your marriage women, would you? http://www.beemreunion.com/if-it-came-to-saving-your-marriage-women-would-you/ http://www.beemreunion.com/if-it-came-to-saving-your-marriage-women-would-you/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4620 have a menage tois with your hubbyand with another girl?
BQ: Would you do it for fun?

]]> http://www.beemreunion.com/if-it-came-to-saving-your-marriage-women-would-you/feed/ 10 Everyone thinks it’s stupid to want to save your virginity till marriage? http://www.beemreunion.com/everyone-thinks-its-stupid-to-want-to-save-your-virginity-till-marriage/ http://www.beemreunion.com/everyone-thinks-its-stupid-to-want-to-save-your-virginity-till-marriage/#comments Wed, 21 Mar 2012 03:20:18 +0000 admin http://www..org/?p=4619 Continue reading →]]> Okay, first off I don’t mean everyone, but almost everyone I know!
So about three weeks ago I was walking with my older cousin. We were talking about some stuff and she suddenly asked when I was going to lose my virginity (we’re really close), I told her not until I’m married and she looked at me as if I was retarded. I was like,"what?" and she laughed. She said that I shouldn’t do it because it’s some stupid Relegious thing and it’s uncool. Honestly, I see most of the guys these days, and most I know use a girl to get in there pants. I’m not too keen to give my virginity to a slob, so I want to lose it to someone who truly loves me by proposing a ring! What’s so bad about that???
She said most people these days lose them at fifteen and sixteen (people at my highschool have lost theirs at thirteen or fourteen!). I don’t want to be like that, but I said I’d agree with that (I’m sixteen). Why do they think it’s lame?? I asked a lot of people and they think it’s stupid. Is it just some teenage thing?

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