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My husband wanted a divorce and that was 3 years ago. We separated due to a terrible physical confrontation and he asked me to go to counselling with him. At this point I didn’t want to go but knew that this would look bad if ever there were a custody battle for our son. So I went and he has gradually improved over the years but some things that were painfull still are and some things never change. You can’t change your partner you can only change your reaction to them. He has to want it as bad as you do. For me it was a God thing. God led us to that point and has carried us on to this one. No marriage is perfect we are all human and flawed.
It doesn’t work
The reading list below can act as a source for you. Most of the titles can be found in your local library. If they don’t have them they can borrow them from another library.
Boundaries, Dependency Relationships, Ownership Relationships
http://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Dependency-Relationships-Ownership-Relationships/lm/R2W4O3LZTGGCXN/ref=cm_lm_byauthor_title_full/002-3352010-2594421
I got my ex back
All you can do is stall it – you can’t keep it from happening, and that is only if you are in a "fault" divorce state – if you are in a "no-fault"…you are getting divorced no matter how you feel about it.
It only takes one person to want it…Nothing one can do…
You do not have to grant a divorce. He may end up suing you for one, but if he is willing to take it that far, might as well let him go. You can’t make someone want to stay with you.