House is the only thing stopping my divorce… What to do?

The only reason I haven’t filed for divorce yet is because I can’t afford to pay a house payment and rent an apartment. I can’t announce my intent to get divorced and live together. My view is things cannot be fixed. I thought I would just move and let her put the house on the market. We won’t make any money since we just got it. I thought I would move and just let it go into forclosure and if nessecary file for bankruptcy.

Help.

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