Comments on: How caan you stop your parents from going into a divorce?

By: richard m

richard m — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

my parents split when i was 4

By: Bob jr

Bob jr — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

U usually cant just learn to deal with it. My parents divorced and I tried to make best of it. Remeber its not ur fault…unless they say so.

By: blackbeltgal

blackbeltgal — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

All I say is Pray.

By: PinkFlowerCA

PinkFlowerCA — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

U just cant do it.

By: rpo

rpo — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

you really cant they would just have to work out their issues together.

By: yourpastlifelover

yourpastlifelover — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

Sorry, sweetie, but you can’t.

By: New Dad

New Dad — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

It’s not your choice, sweetie.

Tighten your belt because this is something you are just going to have to ride on.

By: MS Williams

MS Williams — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

You can’t.

By: chuckie411

chuckie411 — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

You can’t do anything yourself. I hope you aren’t blaming yourself for your parents’ problems….kids don’t cause divorce, parents cause divorce.

By: miamiheatonfire3

miamiheatonfire3 — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

lie to them and tell them that if they do you will harm yourself because they ruined your life (PLEASE DON’T ACTUALLY HURT YOURSELF)

By: April W

April W — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

Well, if there’s someone cheating on the other or if there’s physical abuse, then there’s probably not much you can do. If there’s just a "we don’t feel the same way anymore" type of problem, then encourage them to see a marriage counselor and perhaps go on a retreat. Whatever you do, talk it over with both of your parents about your concerns. Good luck!!!

By: mother love

mother love — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

do you mean can if so you cant

By: fuadswickedawesome

fuadswickedawesome — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

try to show your parents what they have in common together and why they should stay together. Try to show them why they married each other in the first place.

By: ssbn598

ssbn598 — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

Sadly, you cannot stop them from getting a divorce. They are having problems with each other, not with you.

Good luck.

By: acesfourpal

acesfourpal — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

YOU can’t, honey. It’s not your fault, either.

By: bakarie w

bakarie w — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

sit down and talk with about how much it would hurt you if they seperated

By: Nicole

Nicole — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

I’m sorry to say but you can’t, if your parents are not happy you can’t change that. but you will still be able to see them both they just want be living together.

By: Sharon X

Sharon X — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

You’ve got to realize that your parents’ divorce have nothing to do with you. They love you very much but something between them is not quite right. Because this is their relationship issue, it would be hard to stop them from getting divorced. Besides, if getting divorce is going to make them happier, that would be better for you as well… no more fighting, etc.

By: Sentient6

Sentient6 — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

By: simultaneously tacky

simultaneously tacky — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

Caan’t. That’s life sweetheart. You just learn from THEIR mistakes and try to pick a better man for your own marriage. First they separate (and that can go on for months, even years) then they see other people, then they divorce. It happens. Deal with it. You must see that they aren’t happy together anyways.