I feel a moral responsibility to rescue men from their sexless marriages.
I’ve always wanted to help other people. I am very compassionate.
Even to the detriment of my own marriage, I will have sex with every needy man I can find.
How can I reconcile my giving nature with my husband’s desire to have me not screw other men?
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I don’t know how you can stay with a guy who is so self centered.
Hi Your kind of funny can’t you just admit you like having sex with other men. Do you call there wives and ask if that okay? Tell you a story, I use to work in a large manufacturing plant with men and woman both friends with all. Guys always complained about not getting sex. I got to know some of there wives and learned most of that stuff was bull. We would all hang out go for beer after work Truth is guys act different around there wives. Just don’t be that gal-able they just want to sleep with you.
You need to add pictures of yourself to your profile for us to be able to decide.
if you had the same heart and thoughtfullness for your husband then there wouldn’t be an issue.
I’m sure sex isn’t the only thing you want to help out with i mean if your very compassionate then you should ensure that your husbands needs and wants are met 100% every day every minute … if you did this correctly you wouldn’t have time to notice strangers who are in a sexless marriage.
BUY A JOCK STRAP and give the key to your hubby, i had to do that with my wife and it worked,
This is easy, you’ll stop really quickly when he does the same thing to you… or you’ll do it even more, if you really want to change, you will, until then, don’t waste mine or your poor husbands time!
This is typical of many marriages. Failure to communicate effectively and failure to recognize that the partner has goals for life that may not be that of the other, Greatness is achieved in marriage when one partner compromises so that the other may attain their full potential, attain goals and personal aspirations. This would be true altruism. where husband gives permission and gets absolutely nothing in return other than what might be called sloppy 15ths
you are a saint and don’t let any man especially not your husband say otherwise.
You are too late because when I was married I would have just handed my then husband over to you. Just feed him drugs and alcohol and he will be eating out of your hand. I am sure there are plenty of women out there who would love to discard unwanted husbands from their sexless marriages because they are just not desirable anymore.
Let him be philanthropic to needy women.
Oh sure… where were you three years ago??!!! Besides, I thought you were a lesbian?
Be a sex therapist… What your doing is being a cheating whore, no matter what your "good intentions" are. Try being a good wife and use your desire to help others professionally. I’m sure you’ll find a lot more satisfaction in your marriage and your life by making your husband happy and nowing your not being unfaithful
Why did you even consider marriage…lol
For some reason, the word "philanthropic" disgusts and excites me at the same time.
Hmm I might try this on my wife, except I’ll be helping women in sexless marriages. She won’t like it but I have a giving nature too, what are we to do?