Comments on: How can you stop a divorce from happening? I have a son who needs his father around (minus his skanks)?

By: ♥ Karen ♥

♥ Karen ♥ — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Just let him go. You deserve better.

By: gia00601

gia00601 — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

If he wants to be a hoe and not a family man let him go. take your son and be the best mom you can, you don’t need a man who acts like a teen. P.S you can change his mind if it’s made up. GOOD LUCK

By: STEVE C

STEVE C — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Maybe have a long talk with him for the sake of your son. It might appeal to him. Make it clear a relationship with her will hurt his rights to custody, and that you intend to defend your son in such an event.

By: timo_10143

timo_10143 — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Maybe if you make the argument that it’s important to do for the sake of the kid it will help.

By: ticktock

ticktock — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Why oh why would you still want to be with this idiot after seeing this skank with him? So disgusting….

P.S. Your son’s father can still be in his life without you having to endure the cheating husband!

By: cherylincanada

cherylincanada — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

You can’t make him come back if he doesn’t want to and if he has a girlfriend, he doesn’t want to.

But, you can try one last thing before you give up. Get yourself a boyfriend and see how he feels about it. If he’s just trying to make you jealous or hurt you, he’ll change his mind pretty quick if he thinks that you’re moving on.

Good luck!

By: spitchus

spitchus — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

yep i do, date someone watch how fast he comes back…..as long as you are needy he will carry on doing what he wants..stop calling , talking to him , and start dating someone else and let it be known to all his friends…seems petty but it works

By: bronzebabekentucky

bronzebabekentucky — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

you CANT stop it
and why would you WANT some guy that has sex with EVERYONE
he’ll bring you something Ajax cant take off!

By: Moondog

Moondog — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Don’t know. The only possibility I could see would be for the two of you to go to counseling. If he doesn’t want to go play the son card. If that doesn’t do it – you are probably out of luck. My question would be why would he want the skank instead of you? Not trying to blame you but is there something you did not provide – emotionally or physically that he might be finding with the skank? Just think about it.

By: Dan

Dan — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Firstly, if he’s in love with this new person, you can’t be selfish. Secondly, you’re going to break up with your husband again if you did get back together (trust me), you’ll just have the same problems you had before, it’s insanity.

By: Miss Sarah

Miss Sarah — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Just let him go and try and find someone new

By: Shelle

Shelle — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Let him go. It is the best thing you could do for yourself and your son. There would be more problems if you got back together…lack of trust, etc.

By: oracleofohio

oracleofohio — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Don’t let a failed relationship take your faith away. You didn’t mention what made you guys separate in the first place but is this man a good example as a father? A son needs a good man around as a father, not someone who can’t show him what being a good person is all about. Being a father is more than donating sperm. If you are truly concerned about your son, make the best choices for him.

By: Tom S

Tom S — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Give it time, chances are that that Skank will get tired of him and move on once the relationship has become rutine…

guessing 6 months to a year.

By: Diane T

Diane T — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

It takes two to make a marriage. If he is not willing to put his son’s interest and that of his family above the need to be with this woman, then you might need to move on. Telling him that it is her or his family may get his attention. Right now, seems he has the best of both

By: Farie Fly

Farie Fly — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

There is a flaw in your whole thing. If you guys were working towards a true reconciliation, then she couldn’t have come into the picture. There is hope, but it may very well be too late, especially if you do not have faith any more. I don’t think bad people can make good people bad as long as they have good influences around as well. But if you are really scared, pull out the big guns say you don’t want your son around her. As far as techniques, I think you should cool it, and maybe find some dates of your own. Because if he was ready to fix your marriage she wouldn’t be there. And you cant have a relationship by your self.

By: giveu2tictacs

giveu2tictacs — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Tell you the truth, he hasn’t grown up enough to see what he should do. His marriage and children should come first before anything.

btw, Karma will come to him. If he continues down this path. This skank that you talk about, she is the type that will screw him over. He will loose his family over this person and they way he has treated you for a fling. After he has no one. That is Karma.

By: mtcmmommy

mtcmmommy — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Man this is a hard one, getting someone to do something they don’t want to do would almost take a miracle, and as I am much like you with little faith in god and karma…..um, just try talking to him..no loud voices,,etc…just tell him that you love him, you miss him etc. But you can’t get back together just for the sake of your son either. Children are smarter than they get credit for and if neither you nor your husband are happy, your son will know that and won’t be happy. Why is it that your changing your mind about the seperation now,..is it because he has another woman, and you know he is desireable by other women? Just wondering.

By: All the way live!

All the way live! — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

OK this is a mess…but why do you think that he won’t be in your son’s life just because you’re going through a divorce? I know you don’t want her around your son but all those things should come out when you go to Divorce court. Explain to the judge what type of person she is and what she’s done. Print out the pictures of her posing nude on the web this will limit the time she has around him. What may happen is that the son and father visit has to have a neutral person involve like "grandparents" or somebody in that status.

By: Sabine É

Sabine É — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Pray