They’re always fighting because of me or it has something to do with me like hospital bills or something and they told me they’re getting a divorce but I know it’s because of me and I don’t want that. They lied and said it wasn’t about me but I know it is because if it wasn’t for me they wouldn’t be so stressed and fighting all the time. And it’s not that I keep doing stuff to get into trouble or anything. I’ve been sick since I was 4 (I’m 15) and since then I’ve been in and out of hospitals all the time. They never used to fight before,well maybe just not in front of me. In all their old photos before I was born they were happy and when I was a baby they were happy but now they never are happy around each other.
What can I do?
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Life is funny some time but you must take your lemons and make you some lemon aid it no one faults it’s how it is but you say a prayer for your family start having family night were the family come together and cook have a sit down dinner bake cookies have movie night good thing for the family to come together is camping on the weekend pictures taking laughing forgetting the problems and thinking only on what each other mean to each other early in the morning take that photo album in their bedroom show then how the love use to flow between them write a poem and let them know right now you need both of them to get stronger and make a you trun in your life
You going let some hospital bills come between our love our life’s and your child
Let them know that the world is having problem with that same problem getting a divorce is not going make problems go away it just add fuel to the fire
I doubt that you are the reason why they are getting a divorce. I think that you should be honest with them and ask them directly whether it is the financial situation that the family currently find themselves in that is causing problems in the marriage or something else (not you). In fact you are old enough to know the real reason why they are divorcing and simply just need to be straight with them about how you are feeling.
There could be any number of reasons why they stopped being happy together. Just because they had a child (you) doesn’t mean the child was the reason they stopped getting on with each other.
It’s really, really, really NOT your fault.
Awwh don’t go thinking it’s all your own fault. You can’t help being sick all the time and even if there is financial stress because of it you may not know the whole story.
You can’t stop the fighting but you can let it know that it upsets you and you are worried about the divorce. Let them both know (separately) how you feel without getting mad and if they still get divorced then you’ll know that you did not cause it.
As for the photos, does anyone take photos of angry or upset people? They only show happy photos although everyone has issues all through their lives.
I hope you get better and I hope that if a divorce does happen you don’t blame yourself. If you have trouble accepting it, see if you can have some councilling sessions. If you’re worried about them costing, maybe ask a nurse at the hospital in private if there are some free ones avaliable.
Whatever you do, don’t get sucked into their problems. It turns bad. Let them deal with it on their own.
I am so sorry to hear this.It is very hard to stop a divorce,especially as a kid,but you should just let them work it out.It is very hard for a teenager to get through this, but just bear through it. Your best bet is to just confront them about it and ask them not to.Good Luck!
Read ya user name kid.