How do I stop my parents from getting a divorce?

They’re always fighting because of me or it has something to do with me like hospital bills or something and they told me they’re getting a divorce but I know it’s because of me and I don’t want that. They lied and said it wasn’t about me but I know it is because if it wasn’t for me they wouldn’t be so stressed and fighting all the time. And it’s not that I keep doing stuff to get into trouble or anything. I’ve been sick since I was 4 (I’m 15) and since then I’ve been in and out of hospitals all the time. They never used to fight before,well maybe just not in front of me. In all their old photos before I was born they were happy and when I was a baby they were happy but now they never are happy around each other.

What can I do?

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7 Responses to How do I stop my parents from getting a divorce?

  1. Rhonda says:

    Life is funny some time but you must take your lemons and make you some lemon aid it no one faults it’s how it is but you say a prayer for your family start having family night were the family come together and cook have a sit down dinner bake cookies have movie night good thing for the family to come together is camping on the weekend pictures taking laughing forgetting the problems and thinking only on what each other mean to each other early in the morning take that photo album in their bedroom show then how the love use to flow between them write a poem and let them know right now you need both of them to get stronger and make a you trun in your life
    You going let some hospital bills come between our love our life’s and your child
    Let them know that the world is having problem with that same problem getting a divorce is not going make problems go away it just add fuel to the fire

  2. Elena says:

    I doubt that you are the reason why they are getting a divorce. I think that you should be honest with them and ask them directly whether it is the financial situation that the family currently find themselves in that is causing problems in the marriage or something else (not you). In fact you are old enough to know the real reason why they are divorcing and simply just need to be straight with them about how you are feeling.

  3. Kassy says:

    There could be any number of reasons why they stopped being happy together. Just because they had a child (you) doesn’t mean the child was the reason they stopped getting on with each other.
    It’s really, really, really NOT your fault.

  4. Spunk says:

    Awwh don’t go thinking it’s all your own fault. You can’t help being sick all the time and even if there is financial stress because of it you may not know the whole story.

    You can’t stop the fighting but you can let it know that it upsets you and you are worried about the divorce. Let them both know (separately) how you feel without getting mad and if they still get divorced then you’ll know that you did not cause it.

    As for the photos, does anyone take photos of angry or upset people? They only show happy photos although everyone has issues all through their lives.

    I hope you get better and I hope that if a divorce does happen you don’t blame yourself. If you have trouble accepting it, see if you can have some councilling sessions. If you’re worried about them costing, maybe ask a nurse at the hospital in private if there are some free ones avaliable.

  5. dygprcn says:

    Whatever you do, don’t get sucked into their problems. It turns bad. Let them deal with it on their own.

  6. navasota12 says:

    I am so sorry to hear this.It is very hard to stop a divorce,especially as a kid,but you should just let them work it out.It is very hard for a teenager to get through this, but just bear through it. Your best bet is to just confront them about it and ask them not to.Good Luck!

  7. Eddie Ramos says:

    Read ya user name kid.

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How do i stop my parents from getting a divorce?

A few months ago my dad started getting really stressed at work and started thinking a relationship is a bad idea…Him and my mum have been married for 25 years and been together for 30 years. they are getting divorced and we are buying a new house and i have to leave my nice school adn house cos my mum doesnt have the job my dad does.
Its not fair and they still talk all the time…he calls like 3 times a day and they dont fight
The thing is my dad was fat but then he lost heaps of wait and is now really skinny and its made him think he is better than my mum.

i know that they will regret this soon or my dad will get some hussy and my mum knows she wont get anyone because she never cared about the way she looked because dad has loved her for so long

HOW CAN I STOP THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE its driving me fucking insane
i dont want to leave my house…my neighbourhood where my bestfriend lives next door..or my school
please help
OR IS THERE A WAY I CAN GET MUM TO WIN THE HOUSE WHILST DAD STILL PAYS OFF MORTGAGE??
like parental support or something
we are in aus
to the people who said its got nothing to do with me and stuff
of course it fucking does
and they dont fight and they both get upset about it all the time

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7 Responses to How do i stop my parents from getting a divorce?

  1. DEFINATELY BLESSED says:

    Marriage is between a man and a woman…not their children. Of course, what they do affects you and you are forced, unfortunately, to accept their decisions about their marriage as what is best for you. If moving or going to another school is the results…YOU ARE OBLIGATED TO OBEY AND RESPECT THEIR DECISION. I am not saying this to disagree with your desires. I am saying this to tell you the truth. Your parents are living their lives and doing the best they can…sorry you cannot see their dilemma because you are so focused on your own results from their decisions. The best thing for you to do is to change your attitude and mind to be obedient to them, because you have no control in changing the circumstances. Good luck growing up quickly.

  2. Eddie says:

    unfortunately this is their problem and decision and not yours,

    What I mean is their is nothing you can do to keep them getting a divorce if that is what they want and that is what they decided to do.

    you can talk to them and tell them how you feel but it is their decision.

    It is also a little unfair to make them stay together if they are miserable just to keep you happy. MY advice to you is to let them know how you feel and your fears and perhaps they can come up with a solution that is a compromise for everyone.

  3. just a girl says:

    Wow sweetheart. i don’t really know.The only advice I can give you is to really sit down and talk to your dad about this and what it means for you.Ask him how and why he could do this to you? I would take that approach and just try really hard to make him understand how all of this is really going to affect you.Not him,not your mom…YOU.Why should you pay the price and such a high one for his new found fat loss? It sounds like he is going through something like a mid-life crisis.He thinks he’s all great.But how great is a guy that devastates his child? I am so sorry sweetheart and I hope they work it out and manage to stay together. Really make your dad see that it is you who is paying the price for his retardedness.

  4. Kit-Kat Kitty says:

    you can’t really stop your parents from getting a divorce. i’ve been there. it’s painfull. i’m 14 & my parents fought all my life & i haven’t seen my mother in a little over 3 years now. but since your parents aren’t like fighting or anything you could try to talk to them & tell them how stupid you think a divorce sounds & tell them how you really feel about it (if you didn’t yet). but it might not work, like i said before, you can’t stop your parents from getting a divorce.

  5. TheOne says:

    Your Mom does not have to leave the family home if she can get your dad to let her stay. He would have to agree to support her.

    Don’t think that will happen though since they are talking about getting another house. Maybe it is more affordable.

    As far as the divorce ? There is nothing you can do about it.

    Peace.

  6. *Bella* says:

    didnt read but the header…
    You need to back off and let this play itself out. you dont know the whole truth and beleive me they wouldnt tell you everything. if its meant to be they will try working it out. sometime some relationships arent always meant to be, if too much fighting sometimes its better they are apart… but seriously . i know your sad cause its your mom and dad… BUT sometimes its for the BEST for both. stand back and just support their decisions.

  7. lourdes r says:

    maybe, you can request that they sit down with you so that they can hear about your sincere feeling about the impending divorce. they also need to hear you. that is very vital

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how do i stop my parents from getting a divorce?

how can i stop my mom from divorcing my dad? i no she fed up with him but how can i stop it?!?!? i tried the "u promised in front of god and everyone that you and dad would stay together forever" but it didn’t work i am a 13yearold boy whos going Fu##### insane! i coulden’t stand living without my dad he is my idol! so how can i stop this!

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28 Responses to how do i stop my parents from getting a divorce?

  1. Tryed & Failed says:

    It’s ok, I promise It may feel like it’s the end of the world right know but It will get better. My parents devorced when I was 13 and in my opinion that’s the worst time, your getting into your teens and your stressed, But talk, talking is the key don’t bottel it up, Try and talk to your friends that have the same problem, My parents but a lot of pressure on me and I hate them for it just talk to them :) x

  2. Cody says:

    I’m 13 and going threw the same thing and I’m prepare to do whatever it takes but my main point is that after 16 years of marrige they are both too screwed up for anybody ealse.

  3. Tyler b says:

    I am 11 and my parents got in a big fight my mom went to a hotel and then my dad went to my grandparents house and my mom emailed my dad “I don’t think I can be ur wife” what should I do

  4. Darien says:

    Hy, im 13 years old , and my parents are getting divorced… They have been together for 15 years, my dad never touched my mom or did anything that hurts her emotianally or phisically.. My mom just wants to divorce, and she told me she has been with my dad “just” because i had a little mental problem which is now gone, and it was going to affect me even more. Now that i dont have that mental problem anymore she is going to divorce because supposely my dad is too old for her, and he just has different interests in terms of occupations, and activities.. My dad has been always the man of the house and usually takes care of everything, and yes, he has a bit control over my mom.. My mom doesnt know how to do crap so theres nothing wrong with that.. She says she has been controlled “too much”.. What kind of bullshit is that?! My mom has been fucking using my dad the whole damn time! You know how i must fell all this time! Well, if you dont its hurts me like hell.. knowing that i never had a regualr family!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WTF?! MOM I HATE YOU

  5. Blakester720 says:

    Yea, im going through the exact same problem and im also a 13 yr old boy(I promise). I know what your going through and I think Ill be able to choose who I live with. This terrifies me though, because I don’t want my mom or dad to think I hate them because I choose the other. I’m also very close to both of them, and cant decide over the other. I just widh they would atop fighting.

  6. girly27 says:

    i am truly sorry to hear that your parents are divorcing…i cant even imagine what i would do without both of my parents…unfortunately there isnt much you can do…them divorcing doesnt mean they dont "love each other" it just means they arent "in love with each other"…i dont think there is anything you can say or do that will change their minds…who knows maybe things will be a lot better once they are separated…just because you arent going to have your dad living at your house doesnt mean it will be the end of the world…he loves you…and hopefully your mom will let you see him as frequently as you want… i wish you all the best…keep your head up and know that this will be for the better…you might not understand it now but as you get older you will

  7. sxybrwneyedgrl29 says:

    U cant, the issues they have are between the two of them although u are the one that loses in the end.. its something they have to choose to do for themselves..

    My suggestion to u is to tell them how u feel, how its affecting you, how hurt u are, etc.. Just be honest.. of how YOU feel.. dont try any tricks, or excuses, just be yourself and tell them from your heart what this is putting you through and how much u wish for them to atleast do all they can before throwing in the towel.. like counseling..

    If that doesnt work u have to give up, and try to make the best of it.. and hun if u want to live with ur dad, let them both know.. ur 13 so u will have a "decent" chance of getting ur wishes unless ur parents and/or a judge feel u need to be with your mom.. ,

    My parents are divorced, and yeah it hurts, and there will always be a part of u that wishes things could be different, and a part of u that will never get over the pain.., but it does get better with time.. and im sure ur dad loves u a great deal, and whether he is in the same house or not, wont change that, and they do have situations were kids live part of the time with their mom, and part of the time with their dad.. either every other week, or every six months .. so those may be some options for u as well..

    And although im sure u dont want to hear about this at this point, there is a small bonus to having divorced parents, although u’d much rather have them together then any bonus, i understand that, but u do get 2 x-mas’ , 2 birthdays, 2 of everything just about.. so that is a plus i know not a great thing, but its something..

    But there are things going on between ur mom and dad that u dont know about things that arent any concern of yours, and these are things u’ll learn to understand more when ur an adult urself..

    I use to wish my parents back together, but now that im an adult.. and have had a pretty good life as a kid.. even for a divorced house, i think even if someone had a magic wand , i wouldnt change things, because my dad married a wonderful woman who i now call mom, and she makes him happier then i ever saw him.. ( my dad had custody of me, and my mom is the one that left) And me and my real mom are best friends, and i saw her on holidays and every other weekend.. and it was great going ot her house cause she spoiled us rotten while we were with her.. so it had its advantages, and i couldnt of asked for a better dad.. he is the greatest.. so my family just got bigger, and better after all the pain subsided..

    Just talk to them.. ask them to try more before giving up.. tell them how u feel, how this is tearing u up inside, who u want to live with, etc.. hopefully they will "hear" ur plead and atleast try atleast one more time..

  8. Dj says:

    You can’t stop your parents from divorcing but youjust need to remember that its not your fault and that it best for the 2 of them. That does not mean that you will live without either of your parents but that does mean that you can’t be selfish and you have to be willing to forgive both of them. There divorce is going to hurt not only you, but them and even people around you all but you have to undestand that your parents would be doing this if they didnot feel it was that right thing, not that I’m saying divorce is right but sometimes its necessary

  9. Melanie J says:

    You can’t stop it. Its her life and their marriage. Although it affects you, they will decide what they want to do.

    You will not have to live without your dad. You could choose to live with him or you could remain close to him through visitation and phone calls.

    They are your parents and they love you. They will always love you. So, love them,too. Understand that they are not happy and that there have been relationship issues that they have kept private. Since you love them and want them to be happy, tell them how you fell and reassure them that you will love and support them in whatever they decide.

    Freaking out and acting out will help no one. Expressing how you feel, caring for one another and supporting one another will make a difficult time much easier to handle.

  10. Sassy Cassie says:

    In a marriage there are lots of things that happen behind close doors that our children dont know about and dont have any business of knowing about. If your parents are getting a divorce its probably something they have discussed long and hard and there is probably nothing you can do about it sorry. Just because your parents will no longer be married doesn’t mean that you can’t have anything to do with your dad he is and always will be your dad. If yall are close then chances are that you will have lots of time to spend with each other. Just think now when you are visiting your dad you guys can do guys stuff and not have to worry about girls get in the way.

    Dont worry about adult stuff things are gonna work out for the best for you!!
    Good Luck and keep your head up!

  11. nwjerseygirl says:

    I am so sorry for you. Divorce is not easy for anyone who goes through this process. It is especially hard on the children who most of the time, love both parents and don’t want to be apart from either one. No one wants to choose sides when they love both of them. Sometimes things just don’t work out and your feelings are not considered when the final decision is made. Please tell your parents that you want to be a part of the custody arrangements and that you want to be able to see your Dad whenever you can. A divorce will not affect the feelings you have for your Dad or those that he has for you. Both of you have broken hearts. I don’t know that you can stop it but you should have a say in the matter. I hope that your Dad will live close by and that your Mom will allow you to see him as often as you can. Ask them to let you speak with a counsellor who can help you express your feelings and maybe talk with both of your parents about what is and is not fair for you. (I think it is very important, also for you to let your parents know that you will not tolerate either of them badmouthing the other.) Tell them that your love for both of them is very important to you and that you will not have them treat the other disrespectfully. You are entitled to having civility in your home and they need to honor your request.

  12. aries2022 says:

    sorry to say but u cant and u shouldn’t be mad or upset with ur mom about leaving your dad she is not happy and she has to make herself happy you still will have ur dad and i sure that he will still be in ur life just think if ur mom stayed with ur dad 4ever unhappy things in ur household would be bad and u wouldn’t be able to the best mom possible because she would be so angry for staying with ur dad for you . i know it’s hard but there is nothing that you can do

  13. buxtonite says:

    don’t your parents deserve to be happy?, don’t they deserve to be able to live their lives with out fights and arguments ?…. its hard for you (I have been throught it) but your not losing your dad at all you will still see him and be with him ..just not everyday , you will also find that your life will be better as well with less tension and worry on your part with no more friction in the home …. so its not the end of your world …its a new begining if you can just get past your selfishness

  14. act_won says:

    most children born after 1970 are products of divorce or a 2nd marriage. you are not alone. i know it sounds harsh, but you will get over it.

    your parents marriage is just that theirs. its not really your place to try and save it. and please, dont try to guilt them into staying together.

    your parents are not happy and if they stay together their unhappiness will create a cloud of dread in the household. let the grownups make their own decisions.

  15. Reo says:

    You can’t stop it from happening.
    It’s sad, I know, but believe me, it is probably for the better.

  16. nursecracker says:

    hi hon.

    first of all, it’s not your place to tell your parents what they need as a couple. i know you’re scared and in pain over this, and it’s normal. actually, older children, such as you feel the effects of divorce more harshly than younger kids do.

    if your parents divorce, it doesn’t mean your dad will be gone from your life, forever or even one day… you probably have the option of choosing who to live with and also, you will be able to visit the other parent also.

    right now you might need some good advice, and support, so i have listed some sources below. i hope that you can find answers to your questions. also, it might be a good idea to CALMLY talk with your parents.. instead of trying to tell them what to do let them know how you FEEL.

    that may not change their feelings about each other, but you deserve support care and attention as well.

    hugs.

  17. mistista07 says:

    I am truly sorry for your pain but on an honest note, your parents are gonna do what they feel is best. I know you dont want to hear this because it might taking growing up a little to understand it but sometimes people are better off seperated. I know you see only the worse is to come, but think about this you’ll have two houses, 2 rooms, still be with both parents, and at least still have them in your life instead of them not being there. Divorce is heartbreaking it is actually worse but most important thing to know is that your parents wont stop loving you and that you’ll get through it. Ho,d on to your faith and sit your parents down, down yell but let your emotions spill out gte if off your chest. Tell them exactly how you feel. Make them listen and ask questions. hang in there bud, you’re so NOT alone

  18. janiesheron says:

    You cant stop them… its their divorce, not yours…. Why would you want them to stay together if they are miserable???? I stayed with my ex for 31 years, we got our sons raised, put them through college, and then I left…. The boys asked me why it took so long……….. well let them go… you deserve two happy parents, not miserable ones………… you will be fine, and NO you dont have to take sides……. just love them both…

  19. lil vamp says:

    You can’t stop it. there could be problems much deeper then you realize. Parents divorce for reasons beyond your control or what your are capable of understanding. Its something you will have to learn to accept. Your dad will always be your dad, just because they aren’t married doen’t mean they don’t love you or they stop being your parent. If you haven’t already sit them down and tell them how you feel.

  20. CHELLE says:

    Unfortunately this situation is out of your control. I would share your concerns with you parents and or a counselor if possible. I wish you luck.

  21. tencar says:

    if the 2 of them aren’t happy then you want them to stay in HELL. if they’re apart maybe they will be more civil to each other, also if they’re apart maybe they can have time to think and possibly get back together
    tc

  22. got_nerd says:

    uhhhh…hmmm…u cant!!!! sorry but its their problem and you’ll have to work it out in the end with whatever happens!!!!! (im going through the same problemo…and it really is sucky)

  23. sasha0210 says:

    Honestly, you can’t stop it.
    If they want to get a divorce it’s because their love is no longer there.
    You don’t want them to live a miserable life together.
    It’s best if they go their own separate ways
    with less fighting.
    Who knows they can end up being friends after the divorce.

  24. Marla says:

    You cant stop divorce. They have fallen out of love, it happens. My parents divorced when I was 4, its not easy but it gets better with time.

  25. Krazy says:

    tie them together with rope and duct tape

    gl

  26. ♀тя!$H@І♥ says:

    my folks divorced when i was 8 and it was the worst day of my life. but then i saw how happy my parents became without eachother fighting. its the right thing to do by letting them divorce im 13 and im fine. ull still be able to see your dad but if u really luv him ull let him be happy and let them go their seperate ways.

  27. prettyinpink i says:

    i hate drunk men and lazy men

  28. SimplyLovely says:

    it is none of your business and your emotions, opinions, whatever, do not matter.

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