I use to masterbate twice or thrice in a week. i am going to be get married within a couple of months. and i want to know whether this habit will give any problems at the time of having intercourse with my wife ? If so then what should i do to over come that problem ?? could u please explain that to me ?
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no, it won’t; you’ll still be masturbating once u get married; it is soooooooooooo pleasant and reliefs stress out.
1. No you won’t have any problems. (You’re going from your hand to her…… you get the idea, had to be blunt)
2. I have a question for the doctor that answered the first time. How can you masturbate a .9 time? Doesn’t make sense. But hey, I’m not a doctor.
Physically, it doesn’t create "damage." However, there could be some problems that you’ll have to deal with.
1. You’ve trained yourself to respond to certain types of stimulation, and so climaxing during sex with another person might be more difficult for you because the stimulation will be different. The male sex drive does build up if not released, so that helps, but it will still be different than what you’re used to.
2. You might have held certain images in your head during masturbation that will reoccur when you have sex, interfering with you actually interacting with your wife during sex. So you might end up using her as a means of release (while thinking of your old fantasies), rather than focusing on the experience you are having with HER, as a person. This isn’t good.
3. Your whole experience of sex has been focused on your climaxing, and you’re used to satisfying yourself. Your wife (I am assuming) is not experienced with sex and so you will need some time to learn what makes each other feel good. In the meantime, you might be tempted to just avoid sex with her and go back to the masturbation, since it’s easier and less troublesome. This isn’t good either.
So I guess my advice is:
1. Stop masturbating (as much as you can, if you find it impossible to stop), you need to break the habit.
2. If you do, stop visualizing things (or visualize your wife, if you must).
3. Get used to the idea that sex is an "experience" you are sharing with your wife, regardless of whether either of you "get anywhere." The long-term pleasure is in finding out what makes her feel happy and sharing that intimacy with each other. You guys get some special time together, just the two of you, and know each other in ways other don’t.
It will be a shift for you since your libido is used to self-stimulation, and it might be hard at first, but don’t give up.
Just keep that idea in your head, and slowly let your expectations and attitudes shift.
Congratulations on your marriage, I hope everything goes well for you guys!
mate grow up your 23 is this the first girl you have had sex with your getting married who cares what she thinks in a couple of years if she loves you then it doesn’t matter weather you go for ten seconds or one hour you can always have sex over and over again if this chick is not happy with the way that you perform in bed, buy her a big dildo, but there is one thing that you should be aware of………………………………………………………. don’t flog in bed beside her, that will piss her off, ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.
no it shouldent be that much of a problem my husbans like that too, and sometimes its good 4 play to masterbate in front of each other before you have sex its like watching porn but its your spouse.you know what i mean?
No, it shouldn’t cause any problems at all. Make sure you satisfy your wife first, then knock yourself out.
You will be okay. You will find sex is much better than the do it yourself, and you only stuck on masterbation coz there is no-one there to experience it with you. If you have any concerns about it still, just remember your wife has masterbated too and she is problably worried if you will know. Once you are married you can do each other.
No problems at all. You seem to be a healthy normal person and all should go well for you when you are married. Best wishes to you.
Umm…dude…I’m 17 and I know that it won’t cause any problems…unless you are Catholic or some other religion that looks down upon masturbation, then no, you are fine. I don’t know of ANY possible problem you could incur from having masturbated. Besides, it helps prevent Prostate Cancer.
Nope you will have no problems.
No, this will not cause any problems for you in marriage by itself. Most men masterbate more frequently than you did.
No sir. I work in the healthcare professions, and believe it or not, there are studies on masterbation. The average male masterbates 1.9 times per day. There is no harm in masterbation at any age or frequency.