talking to me.she confided in me about everything and now……I moved to california from oregon,where she is right now and sent the kids here on aug 3rd and didnt even tell me that she was at the airport with the kids,her x husband called and asked me if I knew that they were here.That hurt me real bad.The inlaws brought them over to me for a few days and Im real glad for that.The little one,3 years old,slept with me because when I lived near them,we bonded big time.Anyways,she cried when she left me and the 11 year old one was a little sad too.
i did hang up on her when I got the news that she brought the kids here and didnt inform me.Maybe I shouldnt have but I thought that because of her childlike behavior she didnt deserve to give me some lame explanation.I am going up to oregon sometime next month and my soninlaw invited me to stay with him where as my daughter never even invited me to her new place.NOne of this makes sense,its all c razy.We have been closer then most .
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Then what you do is turn the tables on her and stop talking to her. Tough love is the hardest of all.
When she sees that you are not hurting over her antics then she will either come to you or stop expecting you to react to her antics. She is being disrespectful to you and you do not need to enable her to do it.
Be grateful you have a son-in-law that cares enough to care about your feelings.