I filed for divorce and now I stop the court date for revenge what should I do?

I file for divorce from my wife and she took forever to sign the waiver….after I bugged her about it…and now she wants me to set a court date because now she want a divorce… but I don’t want to I want to wait because she is trying to marry the guy she cheated on me with am I wrong.

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7 Responses to I filed for divorce and now I stop the court date for revenge what should I do?

  1. Colleen O says:

    Oh well…your wife can always file for divorce. You haven’t stopped anything.

  2. #1 2pac fan says:

    um…yeah, grow up…

  3. mary c says:

    Let her go. I never could understand why people move on to another person without dealing with there feelings they had for the other person who was in there life.

    Let her go and make the same mistake.

    revenge says the Lord is mine. Let the good man upstairs take care of her.

    I wish you the best.

  4. red says:

    Yes, you are wrong. What’s the point of the delay? You could be out there dating and having fun without the worry!

  5. thick beautiful says:

    I dont so much think your wrong. I think maybe you are being very petty. You wanted the divorce at first, so why has things changed because she wants to marry someone else.

    Let it go. The best revenge you can ever have on a person who has wrong you is moving forward with your life. Being a better person than they could ever imagine.

    My grandmother always says "how you win them is how you lose them" So if she cheated on you to be with him…. it’s just a matter of time before she cheats on him with the next man.

    Let him deal with the skank. Be the better man and just let it go.

  6. mafiosu says:

    Yes, you are wrong. The battle is over and it is time for everyone to put their weapons away. Holding on for revenge is more hurtful to you then to her. In the end she will still have the guy, but you will have lost valuable time you could be using to start your new life without her.

  7. Fall says:

    Everyone will tell you you are wrong. They are probably right. I think I would honestly try to do everything in my power to make her life hell if I were you. Ya, it’s immature but it sure feels good. Depends on the circumstances. Did you deserve to be cheated on? Are you an a-hole? Only you can answer that.

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