I have decided to save sex for marriage but all the kids at school think I’m having sex?

I am 16 and have decided to save sex for marriage but all the kids at school think I had sex with my ex boyfriend, which I didn’t. Everytime I try to tell people that I havn’t had sex they don’t believe me, not even my best friend. What should I do? Does it really matter that these people think I’ve had sex or not? Should I just let them think what they want to think I mean after all, it only really matters that my family, me and God know that I am still a virgin, right? Please help, thanks x

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3 Responses to I have decided to save sex for marriage but all the kids at school think I’m having sex?

  1. High Performance Lips Hips says:

    That’s awesome. I’ve thought about going that route too. My older brother went like 10 years! without sex cuz he turned into a Christian and he had some hot gf’s before that. I don’t know how he did it but he eventually married a great girl so I guess it worked out.

    Forget what those clowns think and say. If they wanna wallow in lies there’s really nothing you can do about it. Tell everybody you guys really didn’t do anything and then forget about it. If the guy’s saying that then what a loser you missed out on :)

  2. caliguy says:

    hold on to your feeling it’s nobody business what you do. you are thinking right it’s the best way i think

  3. Hisbaby says:

    It really shouldn’t matter what anyone else thinks or has to say. And if your really 16 you should know that by now. Everyone talks shit, everyone starts drama. Especially ex boyfriends, and people who are jealous of you. Just ignore it.

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