I don’t want to kiss my bf until marriage. Not even just a peck. It’ll be special that way. And I won’t have wasted experiences with guys I date before the right one. The most I’ll do is hug a guy
the right guy isn’t gonna go anywhere because of my beliefs..if he’s the one he’ll respect that
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Kissing usually lead to other sexual desires and if saying no, your boyfriend may consider you a tease. This is something the two of you will need to discuss upfront. If he loves you then he will respect you for that. I wish more thought your way.
I’ve talked with four or five women who chose to do this (it’s kind of common in my circle of friends), and their advice was to lower your expectations of the honeymoon. Basically, not having allowed themselves any kind of physical affection or spark with their beloved, they were unable to take the whole leap into sexual activity gracefully, and had painful and difficult sex for a long time (up to two years, for one couple, though I assume that is extreme). My husband and I had sex before marriage (we were each others’ firsts), and an amazingly beautiful wedding night. I have zero regrets, and I’ve never experienced the kind of pain these other women have described during sex. I would suggest at least gradually moving into physical intimacy during your engagement if you want to enjoy married sex at all.
I’m doing the same thing and I commend you and hope you keep with it. I’m going through heartbreak right now with a guy because our relationship ended because I won’t kiss him. It is a lonely road at times, but it will definitely be worth it in the end. Good luck to you!
What other people do in their relationships should always be irrelevant to what you and your partner choose to do. There is no formula to making a relationship work. If you can find someone who can value that then that is all that matters! There will be someone out there who will work with your values and beliefs. But just because you saved your first kiss until marraige doesn’t garauntee that it will work out so it’s always possible that you could have wasted that special kiss on someone who is not going to be with you forever, and that could hit hard. Don’t put so much pressure on you or your partner. Expectations and high hopes lead to more let downs. I learned that the hard way.
lol i love this if you can do it do it! i wish i knew you and you could tell me if you did it!! go gurl
You seem sure. For my money, it’s… weird (sorry).
it is unusual but i actually find it really cute! you will just have to find someone who feels exactly the same way as you do. good luck!
well… I mean, it’s certainly not normal, kissing in our society has become very commonplace and pretty much expected in a relationship. There are certainly guys who will not want to be in a relationship without the physical portion, but from what I can guess about your personality from the fact you’re considering this, you aren’t looking for that kind of boy. overall, there’s nothing "wrong" about your decision, but it’s definitely not the norm. still, a nice guy should respect the fact that you made this decision and should be cool with it.
you have the right to do what ever you want with your body and your kiss.
It will take a strong person to pull the kiss part off.
I think you need to be touched sexually before you can find true love… but that is just me.
The problem I see you facing is your temptations will get the best of you and you will marry fast so you can be kissed. This means you might marry at a young age and that is not a good idea.
Have you been able to meet guys that will wait to even kiss you? I am sure there are some guys like that out there… I can tell you this they are not in my neighbor hood.
not "weird"….but uncommon
if thats what you wanna do, then thats perfectly fine.
when ppl decide to "save" things til marriage……its usually only sex.
but if you want to save ur first kiss til marriage, thats ok. only if both partners agree to it.
i cant see how someone would not even want a small kiss untl marriage. but nothings wrong with that though. lol good luck!
I wouldn’t marry you. How do you know your partner’s good if you haven’t tried them yet? What if they’re horrible, and you realize "Damn, now I’ll need a divorce". What you’re doing is pretty risky.
I think it’s cute unless he gets bored with you…
If you are comfortable with that and so is your boyfriend, then go for it! Other people may judge you and say its weird, but it will definitely be special when you finally get married. It’s just like waiting to have sex.
no actually thats a great thing
because now you will be able to giver your husband your heart and you first kiss
and that will show him that he has all off you forever.
i wished i saved my first kiss.
Kinda weird yeah.
Kissing is special yeah, but every first kiss you have with a new guy is exciting and special. It’s never the same. Kissing each person is different. And honestly, your boyfriends probably won’t be down with that. Waiting for sex is one thing, waiting for simple kissing is something many won’t put up with. Plus kissing is a simple intimate thing, and what if you guys just have no "spark" when you kiss. It just seems kind of silly to wait to find out if you guys have that spark.
No, it isn’t! It’s different, but not in a negative way. I think it is a wonderful choice to save physical affection for one special guy. I know many couples who made similar commitments. Props!
Yes, it’s weird to wait for marriage for kissing. Sex is ok to wait.
I know of a few people who wish to do the same thing. So it’s definitely not unheard of. Some people might think it’s weird, but who cares what they think?
YOU are going to be one lonely, boring girl!