In a month’s time I am getting wedded, I have known my girl from past 5 years and we have indulged in sexual activity ever since then. We have sex may be 2 or 3 times in a month.
Certain problem I am facing is
1)Premature ejaculation: I am very sex driven person, masturbating every day and also I am circumcised. I ejaculate approx in 2 to 3 min after entering the love hole. But my second penetration is good lasting 10 to 15min.
2)I have also tried to use the stand and stop technique many times but is very ineffective.
2) Condom: applying condom delays my ejaculation for a long time. But my girl does not like having sex with a condom. It makes her dry even after using lotion continuously.
3) Dry: She becomes very dry at times, what should she do for this.
I have planned to have a proper marital sex. Thrill and excitement, but do not know whether this is going to affect our life’s, as she teases me saying you need to meet a Doctor for your sexual problem. Should- I or shouldn’t- I
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i kind of have the same problem actually, i come the first time after 2 or 3 minutes and the second time stays much longer that i even some times the second time start trying to come cause it is taking too long but my only problem is that the first time is always very fast that it annoys me a lot and so many times it made the girl say ” its ok we can wait till tomorrow or so” and it gets worse if you try to convince her to do it now again, but anyway what i want to know how to make it like the second time from the first time?
My four tips to stop premature ejaculation and to have more sex.
http://stopearlyejaculation.com for the techniques on how to naturally stop prematurely ejaculating.
Your doctor for viagra
A sit down and talk with your soon to be wife about if it matters and why you dont have sex that much (tension in the relationship can cause issues)
How about working on some foreplay with your wife to get her properly turned on, women are not like us men we see some nice legs and some skin and we’re ready, women see an attractive man and all you’ve got is a mind angled towards something…
Foreskin restoration!
Seriously, it sounds a little crazy at first, but it really helps with the sexual function of both males and females. The increased sensitivity would help alleviate your erectile problems, and your fiance’s dryness.
2 or 3 times a month. I think it’s best to postpone the wedding because there are definatlyy relationship issues if you are having sex only 2-3 times a month and you call that indulging.
1) You need to learn to control yourself. If you feel you are going to orgasm then stop or slow down, anything to prevent you from ejaculating. You don’t have a premature ejaculation problem, only a self control problem.
2) If it’s that ineffective talk to a doctor about your issues.
3) Lotion for lube can cause infections for her, use lube not lotion
4) She may not be getting turned on enough, so make sure she is very turned on durring sex. Also do you have a rather large penis head? Circumcised males with larger heads tend to pull all the lubrication out of a woman causing her to go dry. The only thing she can do is talk to her doctor and make sure it’s not anything related to a condition she might have (some women find it hard to lubricate) and if not then it could be you being circumcised and you will just need to use lube. Use a gel lubricant they tend to work much better.
You do need to meet with a doctor for your sexual issues, and she does too. Like I said 2-3 times a month means issues in your relationship.
-Connor
First off, it is only a premature ejaculation, if your girlfriend/wife says it is. The goal is to ejaculate/orgasm at approximate the same time she does. To achieve this goal, concentrate all your energies on helping her reached her orgasm. Most likely, her orgasm will trigger yours. For her "dry" problem, I recommend K-Y (http://www.k-y.com/index_us.jsp). Petroleum jelly works, but K-Y is more fun.