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it’s true. You’ll have to let them work it out. The only thing you can do is be there when she needs to talk, then you can help her sort things out. You may be able to get your way in the matter. I ‘m having the same problem. Everyone was down on me when I first found out that my daughter was dating this one guy. Immediately I hated the idea and everyone came down on me. So I let my guards down and gave him a chance. Here we are a year later, and he has proven he is exactly the person I thought he was from the very beginning, a no good opportunist, and bum with a bad case of short man’s complex.
I tried my very best to convince her to leave him. Til I realized that she has to come to the realization on her own.
Allow her to learn from the things that are going on in her marriage, if you are always there to catch her when she falls then how is she ever going to learn what picking herself up from those mistake feel like. I understand that you feel it’s as though it is your job to help her since you’re her mother but in this case helping her is not helping her at all – thus allowing her to correct the problem with her husband on her own.
If she hasn’t come to you, just make sure she knows you’re available. Even if she has come to you, try to give the best advice you can, but do NOT under any circumstances say anything against her husband or whatever or try to come between them. Eventually they will patch things up, and you’ll be the one who was saying crap.
The best you can do is just be there for her. They’ll work it out.
Just listen to her, and be there for her no matter what. Don’t try to give her too much advice on it, it will only cause more stress for her. She and her husband have to work things out on their own. Make minor suggestions but don’t tell her what to do. Perhaps offer to take her out to lunch to get her mind off things or go shopping together.
First find out if she wants to save her marriage then suggest that she go to counseling with her husband or get a divorce based upon how she answers.
By all means do not get directly involved.
tell her that you will be there for her if she needs any help with anything. let her come to you.
you cant..
let her take her own decisions… She is too big now/