My parents have been married for 25 years and are now seperating. They fight alot about God because my mother doesnt believe but my father does. I know they difnt fall out love with each other. They didnt even try to fix it. Would it be wrong to suggest they take 30 days and devote it to trying to save their marriage and if it doesnt work they can do whatever?
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First off there is very little you can do except pray. Yes God can make a difference.
But you can’t. What I mean is you can support encourage and help but you can’t make them change. They need to do that and the only way it will happen is if they want it to.
They can save their marriage.
Sometime a little time and space can help but nothing is going to happen unless they want to change some of the ways they are thinking and acting towards each other.
A neutral marriage counselor can help. By that I mean one who will listen to each of them and help them each to see themselves their short comings and their positive attributes and help them see each other the way they did when they were first married.Loving each other and wanting the best for each other.
It is hard watching those you love not being able to get along. My encouragement is to love them both and encourage them to seek professional help. And Keep praying to the one who can make a real difference.
David
If they are divorcing after 25 years, they have tried for more than 30 days to try to fix it. Please just accept it. Always remember it IS NOT your fault. Don’t take sides. Just do what they are going to have to do. Adjust! It’s a lot nicer when the fighting is done.
They’re not getting back together, you need to accept that your parents will divorce, it happens to other children.
That is their business and not yours.
It is always a good idea to take some time to try to save a marriage. Marriage is a vow made for life, and if one of them is a Christian they should know that quite well. I do not think that you should have to fix their marriage for them, but if they have no other people trying to help them in their relationship it certainly could not hurt, in my opinion. Marriage counseling would be a good idea as well. If you pray, that might be a good idea as well. I know I will.
I think there was a movie where the kid got a gun and trapped her parents in the basement and made them work it out…
In the real world, no, there is nothing you can do really.
If you believe in God, I would pray. Because he is really the only one who can save the marriage. But it definitely can’t hurt to tell them what you think and how you feel, and to ask them to do counseling or something.