Comments on: My son was in a coma and his wife is trying to get a divorce- how do i stop her? http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/ How To Save A Marriage Tue, 27 Dec 2011 02:23:10 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Vipul http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-37231 Vipul Wed, 01 Dec 2010 12:08:04 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-37231 Madam...What would you have advised your son if his wife was in the same condition for so long and you could see your son suffering. Would you aske him to say put and suffer or ask him to move on since his living a happy life is not going to afftect his spouse... Kindly think in deep...keeping aside your abundant love for your son...also, consider your sonf wife as your daughter for a moment and advise. Say after 15 years your son gets up and sees that you did not allow his wife to live a good life, will he be happy? Madam…What would you have advised your son if his wife was in the same condition for so long and you could see your son suffering. Would you aske him to say put and suffer or ask him to move on since his living a happy life is not going to afftect his spouse…
Kindly think in deep…keeping aside your abundant love for your son…also, consider your sonf wife as your daughter for a moment and advise.
Say after 15 years your son gets up and sees that you did not allow his wife to live a good life, will he be happy?

]]> By: presleygirl http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13462 presleygirl Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13462 you play no role in their marriage, and you can't stop it. you play no role in their marriage, and you can’t stop it.

]]> By: Martin P http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13463 Martin P Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13463 You are being pretty selfish. Fortunately, there is nothing you can do. You are being pretty selfish. Fortunately, there is nothing you can do.

]]> By: Diamond Jersey http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13464 Diamond Jersey Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13464 I would just like to say that his wife is one cold hearted bitch. When she said I DO, that meant till the end. I wish your son all the best. God bless you and your family. I would just like to say that his wife is one cold hearted bitch. When she said I DO, that meant till the end.

I wish your son all the best.

God bless you and your family.

]]> By: colee http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13465 colee Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13465 you never said, is he still in a coma? If he is it has been five years how long does she have to wait. I feel bad for your son but she has to make herself happy too you never said, is he still in a coma? If he is it has been five years how long does she have to wait. I feel bad for your son but she has to make herself happy too

]]> By: nerakian http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13466 nerakian Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13466 you can't stop her if that is what she wants to do. I don't understand how someone can vow to love someone for better or for worse and not really mean it. You need to devote your time to helping your son and let her do what she thinks she has to do. I can't imagine being in your situation and you have my total sympathy. you can’t stop her if that is what she wants to do. I don’t understand how someone can vow to love someone for better or for worse and not really mean it. You need to devote your time to helping your son and let her do what she thinks she has to do.
I can’t imagine being in your situation and you have my total sympathy.

]]> By: It's Just My Opinion http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13467 It's Just My Opinion Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13467 Sadly, I don't think you can stop her, but he would have to be able to sign the papers unless she got a court order stating that by means of the fact he is unable to make a competent decision, she can have the divorce without his consent. Why would you want someone to stay around who will begin to resent him for keeping her down? She wants other things in life, and she deserves to be able to live her life. She stayed for 5 years, I think she did more than some women would do. Sadly, I don’t think you can stop her, but he would have to be able to sign the papers unless she got a court order stating that by means of the fact he is unable to make a competent decision, she can have the divorce without his consent. Why would you want someone to stay around who will begin to resent him for keeping her down? She wants other things in life, and she deserves to be able to live her life. She stayed for 5 years, I think she did more than some women would do.

]]> By: Poppet http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13468 Poppet Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13468 She has every right to continue with a life. It's been 5 years! Not 5 months. Let her go. Besides there isn't anything you can do about it. She has every right to continue with a life. It’s been 5 years! Not 5 months. Let her go. Besides there isn’t anything you can do about it.

]]> By: nikeofsilence http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13469 nikeofsilence Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13469 Try talking to her face to face. But in my opinion you sould let her go and have her divorce your son. She's no good and did not turn out to be faithful and loyal. Maybe one day your son will find a real woman who will love with no reservations no matter what happens. Let that evil woman go. IF she was loving she wouldn't be dating and seeing other guys for a relationship. Try talking to her face to face. But in my opinion you sould let her go and have her divorce your son. She’s no good and did not turn out to be faithful and loyal. Maybe one day your son will find a real woman who will love with no reservations no matter what happens. Let that evil woman go. IF she was loving she wouldn’t be dating and seeing other guys for a relationship.

]]> By: Jules http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13470 Jules Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13470 Ultimately, and sadly this is not your choice, nor your place to stop her. This is their marriage, and she is gonna do what she is gonna do. Wouldn't you be happier to know that if or when your son does wake up and she is not there, then he can go and find someone that will truly stick by his side.....Think of this as a glimpse into the future. It's a sad situation for everyone, and I am so sorry that you have to go through this. Good Luck Ultimately, and sadly this is not your choice, nor your place to stop her. This is their marriage, and she is gonna do what she is gonna do. Wouldn’t you be happier to know that if or when your son does wake up and she is not there, then he can go and find someone that will truly stick by his side…..Think of this as a glimpse into the future. It’s a sad situation for everyone, and I am so sorry that you have to go through this. Good Luck

]]> By: litomilyfwthn http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13471 litomilyfwthn Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13471 I hate to say it, but you can't stop her and you shouldn't really try. If she is still willing to help and support him when he does recover from this, then that is what is important. 5 years is a long time to go without the affection and arms of the man she once loved. Who knows, had this terrible accident not happened and she had fallen out of love with him by now anyway, you wouldn't want him to stay married to her. He doesn't need support from people who don't care, he needs people like you that love him and are willing to stick things out in sickness and in health. That's what a real marriage is anyway. I hate to say it, but you can’t stop her and you shouldn’t really try. If she is still willing to help and support him when he does recover from this, then that is what is important. 5 years is a long time to go without the affection and arms of the man she once loved. Who knows, had this terrible accident not happened and she had fallen out of love with him by now anyway, you wouldn’t want him to stay married to her. He doesn’t need support from people who don’t care, he needs people like you that love him and are willing to stick things out in sickness and in health. That’s what a real marriage is anyway.

]]> By: Goodspeed http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13472 Goodspeed Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13472 Although her reasons may sound selfish....her husband is no longer the person she married...its not mentioned what condition he is in right now, but just by responding to what you have mentioned about being united....by her staying with him would create worse karma than if she were to leave and set him free from the negativity she now hold within her heart...He is truely better off without her. Although her reasons may sound selfish….her husband is no longer the person she married…its not mentioned what condition he is in right now, but just by responding to what you have mentioned about being united….by her staying with him would create worse karma than if she were to leave and set him free from the negativity she now hold within her heart…He is truely better off without her.

]]> By: mrmom http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13473 mrmom Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13473 well you could file an injuction to stop it,, he has to be served with papers,,try the injuction well you could file an injuction to stop it,, he has to be served with papers,,try the injuction

]]> By: free_angel http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13474 free_angel Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13474 You can't stop her. Whether or not she's doing the right thing, it's her decision to make. You can’t stop her. Whether or not she’s doing the right thing, it’s her decision to make.

]]> By: Luvitall http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13475 Luvitall Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13475 Ruin everything for who? She's wanting to move on, it would be a really bad choice to try and force her into staying. She doesn't want that kind of a life...I can't say I blame her, to be honest. I'm sure it's not that she doesn't love your son, but she needs to be happy too. Ruin everything for who? She’s wanting to move on, it would be a really bad choice to try and force her into staying. She doesn’t want that kind of a life…I can’t say I blame her, to be honest. I’m sure it’s not that she doesn’t love your son, but she needs to be happy too.

]]> By: Arthur W http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13476 Arthur W Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13476 She may not be abl to get the divorce here unless she can produce medical reports that your son will never come out of the coma alive.She took the vows of "in health and in sickness..." so the Judge will probably hold her to them, but that doesnt mean he can stop her infidelity. All he can dois put the divorce on hold for now til medical science can inform him one way or another. Good luck and wish your son allthe best in a speedy and full recovery She may not be abl to get the divorce here unless she can produce medical reports that your son will never come out of the coma alive.She took the vows of "in health and in sickness…" so the Judge will probably hold her to them, but that doesnt mean he can stop her infidelity. All he can dois put the divorce on hold for now til medical science can inform him one way or another. Good luck and wish your son allthe best in a speedy and full recovery

]]> By: miester44 http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13477 miester44 Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13477 You can't and you don't.....Is this women someone you want to be with your son? What it tells me she doesn't truly understand her vow's.....through sickness and health till death do us part. Sounds to me like she doesn't deserve your son so even though it will be hard on him let her go do you really want someone like this around or with your son. I hope I can speak for a majority of the people on Yahoo Answers that pray for your son and wish him well.......... You can’t and you don’t…..Is this women someone you want to be with your son? What it tells me she doesn’t truly understand her vow’s…..through sickness and health till death do us part. Sounds to me like she doesn’t deserve your son so even though it will be hard on him let her go do you really want someone like this around or with your son. I hope I can speak for a majority of the people on Yahoo Answers that pray for your son and wish him well……….

]]> By: DaBossMan13 http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13478 DaBossMan13 Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13478 for sickness and health... til death>? nahhh... there's divorce! if she was in the comma and you're son wanted to divorce her... would you still feel the same? honestly? for sickness and health… til death>? nahhh… there’s divorce! if she was in the comma and you’re son wanted to divorce her… would you still feel the same? honestly?

]]> By: silvertonguedbard http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13479 silvertonguedbard Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13479 You can't stop her. It is her life and her choice. I am very sad for your son and I do hope he gets better but try and understand her side of it. She is in a marriage that has become physically dead and at this point she may no longer be in love with him. It wouldn't be right for her to wait forever for him if she doesn't want to. She probably wants a family and a full life and no one can blame her. It is sad but it won't ruin everything. It will make things tough on him if he does in fact recover but after 5 years what are his chances realistically? I pray the he does recover but there is nothing you can do to stop her from divorcing him. God Bless! You can’t stop her. It is her life and her choice. I am very sad for your son and I do hope he gets better but try and understand her side of it. She is in a marriage that has become physically dead and at this point she may no longer be in love with him. It wouldn’t be right for her to wait forever for him if she doesn’t want to. She probably wants a family and a full life and no one can blame her. It is sad but it won’t ruin everything. It will make things tough on him if he does in fact recover but after 5 years what are his chances realistically?
I pray the he does recover but there is nothing you can do to stop her from divorcing him.
God Bless!

]]> By: Truth Hurts http://www.beemreunion.com/my-son-was-in-a-coma-and-his-wife-is-trying-to-get-a-divorce-how-do-i-stop-her/comment-page-1/#comment-13480 Truth Hurts Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www..org/?p=1049#comment-13480 The bible says for better or worst, but she has put her life on hold for 5 years. I think that is a substantial amount of time. If your son loves her he would want her to be happy as well. The bible says for better or worst, but she has put her life on hold for 5 years. I think that is a substantial amount of time. If your son loves her he would want her to be happy as well.

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