No Sex Before marriage problem?

So I just started going out with this girl who I really like, but there is one problem.

We hung out last Wednesday and started making out on the couch and got a little touchy, then I had to go home since I had a test in the morning. Today she texts me saying that she loved Wednesday but that was as far as she would go as far as intimacy was concerned and even then that was a bit too far for her.

I don’t mean to sound selfish but I’m a big believer that sex is an important part of any relationship I think that if you love someone you shouldn’t have to wait till marriage to be that intimate with them
I also understand that virginity is a huge thing for girls…something that u can only give once

HELP What should I do about this situation

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