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The perfect divorce is one that never takes place.
I would say a perfect divorce would be that when you decide to get divorced to remain friends, because at one time in your relationship you thought the world of each other, if you didn’t you wouldn’t have got married. I think if you spent many years with each other and tons of wonderful memories, the least you could do is end it on a good note. Most divorces are horrible and you end up hating the person you loved at one time, so to me this would be the perfect divorce, because although you are divorced all the "happy" memories are still happy for you both, not ruined b/c you hate each other and hate everything "you guys" did as a couple.
I think a perfect divorce would be one that both parties grow and discover themselves better as well as understand others more fully.
define perfect
Mine!!!!!!! lol
Where both parties walk away, sell of all marital propeties and split proceeds equally. There are no regrets as to what has happened, no fighting, and both walk away with more knowledge about themselves than they ever thought was possible. Of course their is no financial destruction and plenty of financial gain!!!
"The Perfect Divorce" is a book by Cheri Arterburn that you can get on amazon.com. I just looked it up.
Equal sharing of the kids with both people being easy going and reasonable about it. No smart ass remarks or resentment. Forgiveness and letting the other get on with their lives.
Also, the occasional mind-blowing sex like you never had when you were married..
If both people can walk away and feel that they have gained something, and not lost a part of themselves (or are in financial ruin). The best thing is when the parents can still have a good relationship when kids are involved. You know, one of those situations that are kinda like " We love each other, and our kids, but we can’t live together…" sort of thing.
I’ve seen it, and know that it’s possible.
there isn’t a perfect divorce because divorce isn’t a good thing
the perfect divorce since my actual answer is not acceptable would be…no children no fighting..everybody keeps their stuff they brought in no joint anything..walk away friends
A coincidental but perfectly timed tragic accident.
NOT GETTING MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THATS YOUR PERFECT DIVORCE
mine…cuz its over and I lived thru it! Actually.. I think if you learned something about yourself, it was a good lesson.
Thanks for the moral lecture dude. I may not get 10 points, but at least I got two.